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Thank you for the helpful thread, it's nice to know you are not alone in these matters. I don't have depression but I think I have anxiety disorder which I haven't gotten diagnosed for and don't know if I ever will, I'm just too afraid. Here's a gib.
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Oh man, tough break :(
I wish you all the best finding methods to help cope
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I've been dealing with some stuff IRL that I'd rather not share here, lol and it's always nice to come to this thread, or jbond's positive thread to cheer up, even if it's just a bunch of "random" people from the internet, it really helps to know that you aren't the only one suffering and that there's always "a light at the end of the tunnel". Thanks Mully for this thread, and everyone else for keeping it alive, sharing your stories and even posting GAs to keep it bumped.
Bump! π
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Sorry for my French, but this @depression@ stuf is a f#@$!g bull#?@t. All this "my life is ruined, useless, bla-bla-bla." Are your live is over? Everything bad? Depression borns from idleness. Get your balls in hand, stop crying and do something good.
Find a boyfriend or a girlfriend (I don't care whom you prefere). Do something for homeless animals. Do some meditation stuff at least. Make a goal. Not a Great One like to "Conquer a world! Mua-ha-ha-ha". A little one. And go. Just. Go.
By the way bump.
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Depression borns from idleness.
That is just fundamentally not true. Yes, being active and having goals can help with depression, but there are plenty of people who have what most would consider eventful and fulfilling lives, but are still unhappy. Just because you don't understand depression doesn't mean it's not real, and treating it is complicated and different for each person.
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I never saw people with goals in depression. Just because they have no times for such poppycock.
And explanation like "You don't understand depression..." is a f#@$!g bull#?@t too. Because it explain nothing. Just like in religion - "Why god allow bad things happens? You can't understand this, because ... you can't understand this."
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Looks like you have no idea that people can hide their depression for years. After all it's mental disease. It's not broken leg or cough you can see easily.
Fact that someone has family, nice job, few hobbies doesn't mean they are happy. That they don't feel emptiness and dullness inside. That they can't really enjoy things they loved to do years ago. You don't know how much it takes force them to wake up in the morning and go to job. Or to force smile on their face, as society don't like neutral or sad / dull people. Or if they don't go on fishing just because they used to like it, and now it's more of safe way to spend time, than actual way to relax and have fun.
If you're not depressed you will never understand how it is to live with depression. You can wear glasses to simulate bad eyesight, you can put your leg in plater to see how it is to walk with broken leg or try to use wheelchair for a day to check how it's live with leg paralysis. But it's not possible to simulate mental illness, just like it's not possible to simulate how it's like to be born blind.
And least you can do is try to be considerate towards people that are depressed. Or just don't assume someone is not depressed when they don't lay whole days in bed and don't constantly look sad.
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What the reason of depression? Problems? Solve your problems. No problems - no depression.So eaasy.
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Yep, I shall. The world is too good and colorfull for such stupid thing like depression
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All this posts are described with one sentence - "While we donβt know exactly what causes depression" Yep. Of course.
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I haven't been doing too well myself lately but I don't think I've fallen into anything serious. Feels like I never have anyone I can comfortably talk to, as ridiculous as it sounds everytime someone says that. It's nice to know that you're keeping this alive, Mully. Some people just don't have anywhere to go to get any help of any kind.
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I am glad I am here, since I need to put my own thoughts into perspective. I get on some really bad rolls once in a while out of nowhere! Seems mostly anxiety-related right now from what little I can understand about my own mind. Not on suicidal thoughts for me, but it definitely relates with conditions that can certainly contribute to making somebody suicidal. They certainly have for me in the past. I try to remember and dedicate my efforts and time related to this kind of thing to the ones who may not have made it through this day or night... More should be done to advocate for more mental health rights and access for everyone. Thanks for helping to continue the thread!
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Original thread - Original Post by DesertMouse1
I've dealt with depression for over a decade, plus PTSD and some health complications which also make things even worse than what they are. But at least I had people that helped me. Friends, family, and even strangers from support groups that made things easier.
You should NEVER think you are alone, because there's always someone willing to help if you look around you. This might sound clichΓ© but it's real, there are terrible people but there are also extremely kind ones. π
Also, if you can and you feel strong enough, please lend a hand to others in need. I've done this for years when I am confident enough that I can take on other people's problems without affecting my health to the point of getting me down.
Remember it's important to help others, but also take care of yourself.
Diagnosed depression isn't a joke (as in diagnosed by a professional and not by the patient, don't confuse it with other symptoms!). It's a serious condition and it shouldn't be taken lightly because it's not a physical illness. Just like cancer ends up with death, depression will escalate to suicide or cripple you in many ways.
Everyone feels "down" once in a while, but for some people it's a daily pattern of depression. The good news is that it is treatable.
Usually through therapy, medication, or a combination of the two. Antidepressant medication, despite some side effects, can help lift a person from the depths of depression within weeks of starting medication therapy.
If one medication doesn't work for you or the side effects are too much for you to live with, keep in mind that there are many others your doctor could give you to try.
Make sure your doctor knows about any other meds you are taking and always ask questions about your medication therapy, if needed.
Btw, DON'T get self-diagnosed, it's a terrible idea. You might be sad or during a grieving period, so always check with a doctor.
Besides, I don't know about other countries but over here antidepressants are only available if you have a medical prescription, so you will only be left with a possibly wrong diagnostic and no way to deal with it.
Some info:
What Is Depression?
Google users can now screen themselves for depression, then seek treatment
Taking Care of Yourself While Supporting a Depressed Loved One
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