I feel sorry for anyone who would trivialize your loss by saying that he was "just a dog". He was a loved member of your family, for over a decade, and although it sounds like it was his time to go, that doesn't minimize the loss and void that he left behind. Pets can bring so much to our lives, but the unfortunate reality is that we're likely to outlive them, and will someday have to say goodbye.
I'm sorry, iamaya, but please take comfort knowing that you gave him a good life, and while I know you can't help but feel the sadness of his passing, it may help to remember how blessed you were to have him.
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Your post brought tears to my eyes. I'm sorry for your loss, iamaya! Somebody not sharing their lifes with animals will never understand what they mean to the ones who love them.
What a sad occasion you chose to deliver a train. I'll ride it with your dog in my heart ♥
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thx for your words eeev.... I know it may weird to have a train for that. Truth is I have been postponing the train thing since lots of good things have happened over the last months, but I have never found enough time to create it. Thus, I felt that sacrificing some stuff for creating that train to commemorate him was the right thing to do... it is one way of saying goodbye. Plus, I wanted to share the joy he brought to my life over the years... :)
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I'm sorry for your loss. Pets are awesome and it's terrible losing one.
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thanks, and i'm sorry about your dog. i know how you feel.
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perhaps... though I think he may actually be sleeping with them and giving them warmth.. he actually raised a pair of kittens that fell from the roof before opening their eyes... one of them got lost some time ago but the remaining one is still at home and they used to get along really well... :)
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I can relate. Few years back I was in the same situation. My dog had to be put down (not sure if it's the best phrase for that) due to illness. But I am told that it was a long life for German Shepherd (12 years). The procedure was done in our home I had to hold her, but there was no struggle, I could see in her eyes that she was ready for it. She literally died in my arms. All of us were in tears and we are not big criers. Even my mother was crying which doesn't particularly like animals . Just writing this now brings back tears to my eyes.
This is a very sad situation, because the bond is strong. In the end, as corny as it may sound, but your dog will always live in your memories. We still keep photos of her.
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I know the feeling... we had to say goodbye to our first dog, a Rottweiler, in the same way.. He had some kind of cancer and he was barely able to move... I managed to get him to the vet and we did the procedure there... I hold him till the end and it was very sad...
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Lost my own 12y/o dog last year. It was a very painful loss. She had cancer, which spread all on her inside too fast for us to even do anything. By the time she had shown any symptoms of any kind, it was too late and impossible to remove with surgery. The morning I took her for yet another control at the vet clinic, I was told to immediately leave her there so they could keep her stable and try surgery; hours later I got a call from them, telling me there was nothing they could do, and she was going to die. Since I was the one who took her there, and signed as responsible owner, I was also the one who had to sign the permission to put her down. Even the vet doctor, a very nice and sweet woman, was almost crying when she had to tell me the bad news. Needless to say, that day me and all of my family cried for the loss of whom we considered yet another family member.
Mousse, my girl's name, was abandoned by her owners when she was barely 1 year old, at a camping spot in the nearby lake. That same day we happened to be having a picnic there. Soon we realized she had been abandoned because she was pregnant, we adopted her. She had 4 beautiful puppies, all female, and we got them all a lovely home. We kept one, who is still with us today. I can say she had a happy life, she was loved and healthy til that day. Her daughter, and my other 2 dogs (both of which are also rescued from the streets) certainly miss her but they're just as loved.
Sorry for the long text! And sorry for your loss. But yes I understand how it is. Long as your dog had a happy and loved life, that's all that matters now. Keep the good memories ^^
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Do not really have much to say.... wow, this is harder than I thought....
So, this is my first train... I always thought that it will be something awesome to celebrate some great event in my life... Alas, seems like life had another thing in mind...
Last night, when I was leaving Uni I got a call from home telling me that my 11 year old dog had just died... I know some of you may be thinking that "it was just a dog". But, after 11 years of your life sharing lots of good memories and caring for him, the bond just becomes too strong...
It was a hard hit for my family, though I suppose it may have been for the best since he was really weak lately... It was hard enough feeling the sadness within my family last night, but it was especially difficult arriving to my grandmother's home this morning and seeing his spot cleared out, with just one of his toys standing there, reminding us of a great animal who less than 24 hours ago was peacefully sleeping there, waiting for me to get home so he could see me one last time before leaving this world...
I feel like I should do something to avoid letting this slip by as if it was any random event... So, I decided to create an 11 cart train. I am sorry they are not great AAA games, but it is all I can afford atm...
Thx for all these years filled with joy... see you someday at the other side, my good fella...
PS: Feel free to bump the thread
PS2: Remember Yunie's thread :)
Edit: the Wall of Memories has appeared....
Edit: here's a pic I found of him
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