when it comes to bullying, boop>bump.
experienced bullying in all of my school life, don't get me wrong, i've fought back here and there, but frankly had no patience for them so sometime around 5th grade i just ignored them(most of the bullying was verbally, if anyone touched me i'd kill them).
i've experienced quite alot of bullying at my 9th and 10th school years(physical ones), but i've stood up for myself couple of times(mustered the courage eventually), and it stopped, and by the 11th school year i've gotten popular enough and close enough friends that nobody even thought about bullying me, school became more fun aswell and i finished all of my classes with good enough to pass grades.
from there joined the army and extra stuff but the bullying happened only at my school years, today if i see anything that resembles bullies whether we're talking about animals or humans, depending on the age of the people involved i'll have different actions.
but bottom line.
BULLYING IS WRONG!!
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Thank you for sharing your story and thank you for your support. I am glad it got better for you.
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I got bullied in Primary school, like older kids would put my head in the toilet, fight me, spit on me and call me names all day but then I graduated to High school and as a defense mechanism I turned into a bully. Didn't realise this myself until I got kicked out of school for throwing one of the other students to a wall and pissing on his bed when I was drunk on a school trip in Paris just to look "cool" towards the other students. I transferred school after that and changed. Haven't bullied anyone ever since, it doesn't get you anywhere besides being president of the US.
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I am not proud of what I did but a girl in middle school used to treat me like dirt and I got really angry to the point I must have blacked out and threw her into a locker. To this day I don't remember it but I was expelled and told to get mental help. I told them I didn't remember doing it but they said they had it on school camera so I guess I did. I am still unsure. I felt very bad about it though.
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I've been bullied for years. At school and at home. I had nowhere safe to go, nowhere to run to.
I've been abused in almost all the ways you can ever imagine and tried to end my life several times.
Today I'm still here, even though some days it feels more like surviving than actually living. I'm doing university studies in the best school of my country, fighting my mental illnesses, my health problems and the pressure of course all at the same time. I try to be strong, but I hate to see how much I struggle compared to the "average" student.
I still live at home, with the same persons, same environment, but I can't really said it's abusive anymore, I guess that's already a thing. I only am there on weekends and at school, everything is fine now.
However, scars remain, and while I'm fighting, I also look after my girlfriend, who has been bullied a lot too. I'm getting by. I'm still alive. Standing, fighting, but I am alive.
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I am glad you are a survivor and I am glad that your girlfriend is a survivor. A good song for that to look up would be "Broken Together".
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Here are some documentary films on bullying.
Could be a real eye-opener for some. Also, bullying comes in different forms, and not limited to these.
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That brings an entirely different set of problems depending on the country you live in.
Our school was "Zero Tolerance" so it didn't matter if you started it or not, you got in trouble no matter what.
So bully, and person being bullied both get in trouble.
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I understand what you are saying, but standing up against bullying isn't always done by brute force, there are ways.
bullies are just stupid kids and those who get bullied must act mature and react to them as that, for my case fighting could get me into trouble but since I have been beaten so many times and principles haven't done anything, when I punched that bully which I later discovered that he has been sent to the hospital, nothing that serious tho we were elementary kids lol they didn't act against me.
but I realized that fighting is troublesome so I kinda found even a better solution, "Friends"
there were friends who surrounded me, maybe fake, but temporary friends ofc... it worked really well.
I think we can talk about bullies till tomorrow tho, it's a really vast subject and issue...
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I was briefly bullied as a kid... Then I turned into a bully out of frustration for an even briefer period... Then I ended up becoming popular, to the point I was friends with everyone from the jocks, to the druggies/smoker, to the chess, music and drama club, and so on. That influence then became used to stop as much bullshit as I could. That being said, in my experience, the only way to stop bullying was with threats of violence, or sometimes violence itself. Probably sounds counter productive, but... That's just how it's always been. As an adult it becomes even worse to try and stop, you have to really scare the shit out of kids, teens, and sadly in a lot of cases, their parents.
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i used to be bullied to.
mostly verbal abuse about my weight i used to be quite fat but just because i were fat doesn't make it okay to try and hurt my feelings.
my weight were easily my most sensitive subject and the bully in question knew that.
it never got to psychical abuse thankfully but i still remember one time when i snapped and punched him.
not my proudest moment.
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I am glad you got through the bullying. You may not have handled it the right way but all you can do is have a brighter future and let go of the past. I hope one day I let go of my past.
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Yeah, bullying awefull. And it can really hurt a person, not just when it happens, but long term. Someone getting bullied over a long period of time is likely to feel a lot worse about themselves, and it might result in them developing serious trust issues. Bullying sucks, and I wish more people would take it seriously.
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I was bullied when I was younger. The dad of one of my friends at the time talked to me about it and really helped me through. Started working on self defense among others and haven't stopped since. Even if all you can offer someone is someone to talk to that can help more than you might imagine! Anti-bully bump!
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Best way to stand against a bully is bully him yourself. I mean, it doesn't work to tell adults about it, you have to stand for yourself and kick the bully's arse. Sometimes that's an incredible feat, but when they see you stand for yourself and they can get a punch in the face, they'll back away. I know this because I was bullied a lot on my childhood because of been short. But when I stood up, they retreated.
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A 12 year old boy recently killed himself after being bullied constantly at school. It's sad and more common than people may think. Kids/teens/adults all alike commit suicide daily worldwide. I may get hate for this and that is fine because it needs to be talked about. I am making this thread to ask you all to just sit down with someone you care about and discuss bullying with them, it can be your child, sibling, a friend, whoever you want. Just take the time to see if not only they are okay but if they know anyone struggling. Come up with ways to help, if you see a coworker being harassed stand up for them, if a friend is being abused by a family member or significant other help them. Please don't just look away. For someone out there you may be their only hope. If you yourself are in a bad situation please seek help. Don't let it go to far. Bullying can be deadly in more ways than one. Thank you for anyone who reads this. Stay safe.
Update!
Depression and self harm has had a huge toll on my life since I was 8 years old. I know that was a young age to start feeling so hopeless but I didn't exactly have a "normal" childhood.. Over the years I have found many songs that express my feelings, thoughts, overall how depression effects me. These songs have always been my emotional outlet. If you want please listen to a few WARNING These songs are about depression and suicide
Her last words
Breathe Me
Baby don't cut
Stolen innocence
Scars
My giveaways:
My ended giveaways:
Dinocide
Grappledrome
The Last Federation
LOR - League of Runners
Box Maze
80 Days
Her Story
Memoria
Skullgirls
Robot Roller-Derby Disco Dodgeball
Donated Giveaways:
Ashes of the Singularity: Escalation
Maize
Ended Donations:
Reflection Of Mine
Brothers - A Tale of Two Sons
TIMEframe
HOUND
Ultimate Solid
Construct: Escape the System
Day of the Tentacle Remastered
Jurassic Survival
AXYOS
Sword 'N' Board
Robot Roller-Derby Disco Dodgeball
Headlander
Volgarr the Viking
A story about my uncle
Undertale
Grind Zones
Party Hard
Super Mega Baseball Extra Innings
Ratz Instagib
$1 Ride
Ampersand
Abzu
Windward
Grim Fandango Remastered
UnEpic
A story about my uncle
Ratz Instagib
Kromaia
Epic Battle Fantasy 4
Tropico 5
An Alien with a magnet
Road to Ballhalla
Hacknet
Skullgirls
Lethal League
Dustforce DX
Arkshot
I will try to respond to comments when I have free time, please don't be offended by my delay.
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