Dont bother with all the cocktails pish, just get a nice bottle of rum, i would suggest Angostura 1919 but its quite expensive (just ask in the shop you go to for a nice one) and get pepsi rather than coke, for me it tastes better, and remember to get some limes and a bag of ice and youre sorted. Good luck gettin your end away.
Btw for fuck sake dont buy bacardi, its pish and shouldnt even be allowed to be called rum imo.
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What's with all the hard stuff here?
You dont want to get plastered, you want to show your friend a good time. All the hard liquor mixed with some kind of juice or soda is not the way to go, if you ask me. The sweet taste of soda will mask the alcohol and it can sneak up on you so you'll get too drunk. And you can imagine several ways things can go wrong from there, right?
I'd recommend some white wine, probably some sweeter kind, women prefer those. It's light enough, just to get tipsy, but still enough to lose some inhibitions.
In any case, good luck! And drink responsibly!
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If you have been "friend zoned" the last thing you should be doing is trying to ply her with alcohol.
You WILL destroy the friendship.
Then again, if some sweet poon is all you're after you may as well go with Gin (aka panty remover) and tonic.
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jeez, asking strangers over the internet for tips on a date, are you serious?
get some candles and whine (depends on the girl and also your age), thats all you need for having a nice and chilled evening.
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" managed to convince a girl to come over " That's why people thought you were dating her.
Maybe it's one and you just don't know it yet :P
Anyway, have a nice evening :P
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Ah, sorry for the confusion then. Also,I apologise dohlicious, I may have come across as a bit rud in my post.
I literally (actually nothing literal, i danced around the topic a lot) just asked this girl if she wants to go out with me, her responses were very...unconvincing.
i'll copy paste the conversation
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Me: Omg, imagine if we legit dated. How much would that fuck the system?
her: AHAHAHAHAHAHA om man
oh*
the system would explode
nah jks
Me: Pfft...don't deny the awesome couple we could be
her:
yeeeeah i guess.....
Me:
I guess??? What is this?
I'm awesome and funny and cool and awesome and funny...and ur insert her name.
We're perfect
her:
i'm awesomer and funnier and cooler and awesomer and funnier, so yeah
Me:
You're feeble imagination is making me lose interest in ever asking you out for realz
her:look m8 i'm not imagining it
its 4 realz
legit
Me:
At least admit I'm funnier or something. I might gain some interest back in you.
I can't be a sixth rate in this relationship
her:
but like, i practically have a comedy show i'm that funny
but seriously, people in the music world think i'm hilarious coz they understand my humour
Me: Well...I can be the cooler one or something.
Her:
sometimes, i'm funnier than my gay best friend.
you can be blacker than me
hehehehehehehehhehe omg see i'm hilarious
Me: That's extremely shit
her:i'm sorry, i'm sorry
Me:
I guess ull just miss out on the prestigious gf position that is currently open
To which she responded with, g2g study now anyway.
This is why I wanted to get myself a bit drunk when she comes over. I have huge problems with asking girls out, I fear the awkwardness and appreciate the friendship more than risking it.
EDIT: I mean, I'm not the best looking person, nor am I the smartest (I am studying Bachelor of Science, hoping to get into Medicine or Dentistry), nor the best looking (I am out of shape, due to being a freshman!).
I defintely lack confidence.
Also, I am not an asshole, I may look like a prick here on SG, but in real life, I actually put effort into conversations. However, I often find myself saying inappropriate jokes, mainly because I get too comfortable with people (this may sound like i am contradicting myself).
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Mulled wine + cosying up in front of a log fire = good times.
Of course, it may not be as wintery where you are...
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This is not to be mixed with cola, but you can keep what you don't drink and be happy to come back to it one of these days :) Wonderful taste with a strong vanilla base: http://www.donpaparum.com/home
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A White Russian. White Vodka with full-cream milk/whole milk and coffee liquor.
Here, The Dude drinking it
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well i know your done with this endeavor, but Lambics are great, and not bitter at all.
Also Whiskey Sours(quicksweet/lemon drink mix and Burboun/Wiskey/Scotch) are delicious, but those are a bit high on the alcohol content depending on the mix ratio. I usually do 50/50 over ice, but most people go 75/25.
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I feel the need to share this here:
"
I think you must have been the only person in the entire world that didn't see the photo I was tagged in today...
I just thought u should know, coz like, apparently we're telling people now I guess..."
Ends up that this chick is dating someone, and has been for a while. I don't know if I should be happy, or extremely sad that this girl is coming to my house, staying the night AND she has a boyfriend.
I really don't know if I should be crying or what. I liked this girl, definitely did not love her, but it's pretty sad anyway.
Thanks for the advice on the drinks guys. I won't spend a dime on her, if she wants rum, she can get it herself. I'll just buy some cider for myself and probably sleep really early and make her feel miserable.
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I really don't expect her to cheat on her bf with me, which is the sad thing...
I've spent soooo much of my time talking to this girl, she is either really f'ing dumb or she clearly knows that I have been dancing around the topic of asking her out for a long time now. The least she could do is either say "Do you like me?" or "look, I like you as a friend".
and there is no use in saying "OP, you must man up and ask her". I just can't muser the confidence. just imagine talking to someone who is addicted to smoking, you cant simply tell them to stop, it's really difficult
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By the same token, just because a girl wants to stay the night it doesn't maker her "slutty" (even if she has a boyfriend). Both parties are completely aware human beings.
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No but in life, to get what you want you need to learn to do things outside your comfort zone, especially in the dating realm. Even us girls have to do this.
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I just put whiskey and bitters over ice, if I'm mixing the whiskey at all. Otherwise there is a plethora of beers I enjoy.
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Better you figured it out sooner than later. But on the subject of drinks, my choice is always...Tequila, with a tequila chaser and a water back. And then maybe some tequila to wash it all down. :-)
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