So this might not the be the best place to write this, but since I use it the most, I figure why not? Anyway, this girl I've known for over a year now, we know each other but not that close. I think in Korea where I live, there is no friendship between a girl and a guy. Only a girlfriend/boyfriend or stranger/? Do you guys have any suggestions on how to ask a girl out or at least be closer to her?

Also we're both in middle school. Do you think that's too early?

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"Would you go out with me?"

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Middle school, too early.

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  • Go near the NPC
  • Press A
  • Now the math begins.
    If your "Charisma" is too low then the actions will be ruled by your "Luck" stat, so you can try two things:
  • Rise your "Charisma" talking more often to the NPC and getting acquainted, give honest and straight answers to the NPC (remember that the NPC will recall any action and answer you give even after the courtship ends regardless of the results), try to behave as you usually behave, as the NPC will notice any behavioral change and will not react too well to that sudden changes, and if required you will be forced to keep the acting to please the NPC even if you're not confortable with it anymore after the courtship ends regardless of the results.
  • Or run just on "Luck" and see how it goes.
  • In case any of this fails, don't restart the game. Save on memory and try again in a few days/weeks.
  • In case the NPC made a clear statement about not interested on this (Like... Ever!) try another NPC (Really, is not the end of the game).

Don't get disappointed if any NPC shows no interest as some of them are not looking for partnership at any given time, so keep looking but don't confuse signs and signals for open engagement. Be observant, but not critic and patient, but not lazy and enjoy the game.

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+1

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just to be sure... i don't have to kill the NPC if i, let's say, want his/her hat, right?

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Depends if you get caught. If so, kill all witnesses to remove the 20 gold bounty.

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If any of this doesn't work, you can also try savescumming. It might take a lot of tries but you'll get there eventually!

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You don't ask a girl. You order her: "Get out!".

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You stole that right out of my mind xD

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Is she's good at kitchen?

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Take her to the GYM

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DLC STRIKES AGAIN!

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tell her u want to touch her private parts, that should work

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As a girl, there's nothing more attractive than confidence. Just straight up asking her will make her feel good about herself -- it's a nice feeling to know someone likes you -- and that sudden burst of happiness will make her more likely to say yes/attribute good things to you.

I really don't feel sorry for people in the 'friendzone'. They're there because they're too scared to say anything, but if you honestly really liked someone you'd be willing to take the risk. If the fear of embarrassment outweighs the potential possibility of a relationship, then you probably don't like them that much.

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Exhibit A fellas. She wants you to take all the risk and do all the work. The entire "dating" process is about her, it's not about you. It's about pumping up her ego. But you only have to do this if you are a loser, make yourself a winner through self improvement (better job, male enhancement, lifting weights, self confidence), and they will come to you instead. Females will snatch up a winner

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Yes, because this couldn't apply exactly the same the other way around. Human beings as a whole like being appreciated, it's in our nature to want to feel like we fit in.

Stop qqing, it just sounds like you're butthurt over some girl rejecting you. Self confidence in either gender is sexy, as is going to the gym and being in shape. The guy specifically asked for advice on how to ask a girl out, not on how to pussyfoot around for months trying to somehow convey through magical smokesignals that he likes her. Especially since he's Korean, and girls there are even less likely to take the lead in a relationship than in the west.

If someone's friendly and never makes a move/shows any romantic interest, then why wouldn't someone assume they're just that -- a friend. If I found out someone I talked to a lot and considered a good friend was bitching somewhere that they're 'friendzoned' and it's awful, I'd be hurt, since they'd just be faking the friendship to try and get into my pants. Why would I ever want to date someone like that?

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Hey, wanna go get a drink? ;) (just testing your theory.....or am I?)

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Say "Hey INSERT NAME! We'll bang okay?"

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You need to find the golden middle of to be your self and how to approach a girl as an advice i suggest to you before ask her to go out to realy talk her find about her if realy suites you and there is no reason to rush thinks but just let it happen ,you are young and with time you will learn friends can be women too and can be good friends but you cannot make a relationship if you dont even be friends.

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Focus on improving your mind, body, and wallet every day, then she and her girlfriends will be competing for you instead.

edit: Trust me dude, there is nothing as sweet as turning down a female's offer to date/fuck you. It's pretty obvious why women get off on turning down guys, it's a power trip. Just focus on yourself man, don't be thirsty

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I... Don't usually comment about that kind of thing as I have no knowledge about that kind of stuff (yes, forever alone and all that shit.)

Anyways, my advice is just to go straight to the point. Wait for a good time to bring the subject up, for example "Hey, what are you doing (day/time)?".
Cliche? Yes. Good way to do it? Also yes.

Also, be confident. And don't take my suggestions too seriously. Like I said before, I'm not a person you should ask that kind of stuff to. :P

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Ask: where's your parachute ? Such beatiful girl must have fallen from the sky.
Or show her your muscles xD

Still having doubts ? Watch some tutorial. Johnny Bravo for instance xD

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Say this to her: "you smell like trash, may I take you out?" lol

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Host "repotting of guys" and the girls will show up to watch ;-p

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Host a "repotting of guys" show and the girls will flock to see it ;-p

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Hypnotism~

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Asking a girl out is very easy once you know what you're doing. As you are asking this on SG, however, it can be assumed that you are "in training."

The Complete Idiot's Guide to Asking a Girl Out

1) Use the KISS Principle: "Keep it Simple, Stupid!" You are getting to know her, not getting married. Start small, such as walking her to class.
2) If she says "No," check to see if it's "qualified." If she offers the possibility of a "Yes" in a different situation, try again, later.
3) If she continues to turn you down flat, come right out and ask her (nicely) if there's no chance for you. If she tells you to get lost, find another girl.

Keep in mind that any girl might accept your invitation to get to know her if the circumstances are right. As long as you don't creep her out by refusing to take "No" for an answer, or act as if she is the only girl in the world, you'll find someone who will say "Yes." When other girls hear about how fun it is to go out with you (and they will definitely hear about it), they will become more interested in going out with you, also.

Of course, it is up to you to make spending time with you a relaxing and enjoyable experience....

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