My condolences. I hope you can get some money together so you can attend. Good luck!
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I got cardiomyopathie or whatever you spell it. For now i am fine but it's one of those rare things that it's impossible to predict in the future and the struggles you endured while still being so young, so kinda am touched by it.
If you want i have a small thing for you to give away if you want, just add me no problem.
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losing somebody is one of the most painful experiences anybody can go through and of course the more the person means to you the more painful it will be. everyone deals with these things in different ways and a lot of people are certain to tell you "it gets better" and other empty sounding phrases
from personal experience I can say that while it does not get better or easier, you do get better at dealing with it. you don't forget the pain of losing them, but you don't forget the good that came of knowing them either and that's why the loss will always hurt. that pain is the price we pay for having had a connection to somebody that was worth having and it's worth remembering that, comparatively, it's a small price to pay
finally, whether or not you believe in an afterlife, a part of them always lives on in memory at least. nothing remembered is ever completely lost
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Not much to offer, just my ear. Well, eyes, I guess.
Anyway, my sympathies...
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I am very sorry to hear about your loss
I'm giving these games away for this thread. I hope you don't mind :)
Face Noir
Heroes & Legends: Conquerors of Kolhar
Lost Civilization
Cognition: An Erica Reed Thriller - Season One
Quest for Infamy
Morningstar: Descent to Deadrock
Moebius: Empire Rising
Supreme League of Patriots Season Pass
The Last Door - Collector's Edition
Sorry I wish it was something non-bundled but I hope this is okay. Keep your chin up, may his soul find peace :)
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Thank you for the giveaways. You really didn't have to. Never the less, still, thank you.
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My condolences :(
It's not weird at all to care for family members of an ex.
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Thank you for the kind words.
Also, thank very much for the offer, but getting the money is something that I have to do by myself.
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I came here with a gif, but this topic made me feel terrible for wanting to post something like it here.
He was a good person, and it is a shame he passed on.
Also, I couldn't just waste this gif. Here is your outlet.
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Damn.
My condolences.
He was your substitute father in a way.
Maybe one day you'll be able to help someone out the way he did.
R.I.P
Edit:
Slightly more uplifting
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Good song choice.
Edit: I was referring to the first one, but the second one's nice, too. :)
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First one was played at my dad's funeral.
It took me about half a year till I could remember what he looked like, it was as if his features were wiped from my mind.
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My condolences as well :( He sounds like he was a great person.
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I'm so sorry, Zeruel123. For so many of us, it was somebody outside our friends and family who helped us through tough times...and maybe gave us the break we needed to succeed. It's very sad that this great man should pass...and ironic that it should be from failure of the heart, when clearly he had a wonderful heart (in figurative terms).
Carry on his memory, and along with his family, let your success in life be part of his legacy.
Peace.
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I'm really sorry for your lost, I really hoppe you make it to his funeral, not sure what I can do to help, but if you need to talk you can always add me on Steam. It's weird sometime how some people just pass through your life and just stick with you even though you never see them again. It's great that he was there to help you at the right time and I'm sure he was proud of what you became. Take care <3
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Sorry for your loss, and hope that if your wish is to attend his service, you can scrape enough money to do so.
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Good luck, zeruel132, and take comfort if you do not get to pay your respects officially that the man knew how you touched his life and that even from thousands of miles away you can (again) tell his family how much he meant to you and how much he did for you, which is a lot more important than whether or not you stand dressed in black to mourn over his earthly remains.
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This would mean that he hold a big space in your heart and instead of saying sorry for your loss, I would say that you recognize him as someone who is really important in your life. With this I hope that you can proceed on with your life after his funeral and remember him as someone who do a big part in your future and work hard :)
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Very sorry to hear. I imagine you must be in quite a bit of pain right now. I hope you find comfort soon, and a way to make your trip. He sounds like he was a great person. The world is a little dimmer, now.
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I'm so sorry to hear that. It sounds like he lived with kindness and compassion, as we should all strive to, and took you in when you were in need. He was a good man, and will be dearly missed.
This was a deeply personal song to me when my Mom passed, and it feels fitting to share it with you here. Jimmy Eat World - Hear You Me
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Hello everyone.
This is going to be a wall of text with mostly personal stuff. If you don't like that, it's fine, just be warned.
About 4 hours ago from writing this, the father of my ex-girlfriend passed away from a heart failure. You might be thinking why I'd care, but to be honest, that man is most likely the reason why I'm here today. I was in a dark place with family troubles, confusions about my mental health and a false diagnosis of prostate cancer (I know that it's a disease for old people and I'm a younger guy, but still). I was 15 and I was out of money with family issues. This not being the greatest combination, he helped me out by letting me stay with his family. Even if I was troubled, he was fine with my relationship with his daughter and he even gave me a job. I became a transcriptor and overall archive worker for the local court. Yes, at the age of 15, even I ponder on that one sometimes. He put in a good word and his reputation on the line so I could make something of my life.
About a year and a half later, they moved to the UK. Me and my girlfriend split up to save each other heartache and confusion.. While we still hold feelings that we did before, we have decided not to pursue them, since it'd be too much of a problem, because of the distance.
About an hour ago I got the Facebook message from her, telling me of this event. And do you know what my first thought was? It was that I'd never see my ex again. Crazy, right? After the initial shock, I kind of broke down. I thankfully have an amazing Irish lass on Teamspeak, who helped me get my mind off of it, while I processed the situation. So now I'm here. Writing this on SG, while still shaking and with tears flowing down my cheeks, listening to this one song on repeat...
Why am I writing this? Well, for one, to save this. To save my reaction, to save his accomplishments. To make sure that his amazing deeds would not go unrecognized. Thank you for saving my life.
I will not be holding a giveaway here, since I'm trying to see if I can scrounge up my money and attend his funeral and see some of the people I love maybe for the last time.
Thank you for reading this.
EDIT:
SadisticChicken very kind and decided to dedicate some giveaways for the thread. Thank you so much.
Heroes & Legends: Conquerors of Kolhar
Lost Civilization
Cognition: An Erica Reed Thriller - Season One
The Last Door - Collector's Edition
Quest for Infamy
Morningstar: Descent to Deadrock
Moebius: Empire Rising
Supreme League of Patriots Season Pass
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