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Went to psychologist for 1+ year. then 0.5 year of group therapy. + 2 constellations.
So now I know a lot of theory, how should I act, what to do and what not to do, I can analyze and understand a lot of mistakes that I'm making or made before (there was super big ones). I know that I need to start working with myself, get nice hobbies, go outside, socialize.. And that's why I'm worried. I just stopped loving myself long time ago, and only I can change that. I had some interesting hobbies, but every interest burns out very fast.
And that irony.. Craving for relationship won't bring you one. Visa versa. Feeling desperate only makes things worse.
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Too much psychoanalysis can be bad for your health. :) Really, it can sometimes just add pressure, because you don't conform to what you think you need to conform to.
Not that I'm saying that hobbies, going outside and socialising aren't good, but if you hate yourself for not doing them that's counter-productive.
Hey, you have a friend who thinks you're awesome. That's already good. If you're good friends, maybe you could talk to her about this instead of to an online crowd.
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not all relationships need to be of a romantic nature.
we're all in this together; and to some degree each of us can relate/empathize and care for each other
if you plan on continuing to spend time with your friend/ex-coworker, I'd suggest trying to get a job there too and get paid for the time spent; or try to pass the time with interesting games/topics.
when is last call (last time to order drinks) if the bar closes at 5am? if the time spent in relatively short, then it's just spending time with a friend; but if it's for several hours, then could this be a hobby of sorts?
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When your ex-coworker says that you are awesome guy because you help her close bar (she little bit scared to be there alone at 5 AM).
But true reason you are there so late is that no one is waiting you at home.
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