If you run into an asshole in the morning, you ran into an asshole.
If you run into assholes all day, you're the asshole.
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xD That happens to me when I drive sometimes. "Oh, this guy drives bad!" is okay once in a while..
But when I drive and I start thinking that about everyone, I try to calm myself a little and realize it's probably my fault.
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Save it for tumblr missy, this is a give away site.
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First order of the world is to not understand anyone, let them understand themselves and see if they even understand whether they are good people or not. If they block you, then clearly they weren't. Heck I'm scary just cause I look mad all the time which I'm not so it is funny how people judge others. :D
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got you blacklisted, and i have no idea why, sooo, must have done somthing.
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you think, i think your a nazi. must be doing something wrong with your life.
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Power. The thing that most people want.
The thing they think they have when blacklisting or blocking others.
But that's just my guess. (Judging from honestly too many talks with people. Yes, I'm a sucker for trying to figure out what is behind stuff/actions)
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People sometimes react that way to people who are arrogant, cruel, and mean sometimes. It's a trade, they continue to socialize in exchange for you being nice to them. It comes down to a simple bargain. You can purchase friendship with being friendly. If you would prefer not to, then the same thing happens as to when you don't pay for a soda you want. You have more resource, and less product. Advantages either way.
If you would prefer the advantage of having stable friendships, purchase them with friendly behavior. If it's no big deal, then continue to bank your friendly behavior for eventual investment in the stock market, or to live off the interest.... Crud, this metaphor started to fall apart there right at the end. I'm sure banking your friendly attitude will be useful for something, if you're not interested in using it for friend subscription fees.
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Avoiding the kind of twisted humblebrag you opened your post with might be a start.
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Can't really decode that emoticon. In addition to my first post, consider the possibility people walk away when they realize they're friendzoned and if there's a pattern there, give it a thought maybe.
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I think at some point even "virtual" relationships can express "real-life" dynamics such as romantic expectations and their consequences.
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I'm not claiming to be an expert myself! :) Just take is as food for thought.
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If you have to ask if there is something wrong... it's likely there is.
Paste conversations you have into a text to voice software and play it back. Does it sound like a douche? Yeah you've done something wrong.
I've had friends who think they are self aware saying "I'm brutally honest" however they are just too opinionated and say you have a big nose and fat thighs. So no you are not scary, you scare people off with your attitude
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If you troll people, this is one way communication. So people block you.
Do you troll people ?
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Hey Kapy.
I doubt there is an easy answer for your questions. Psicology, Neurology and related fields are an ongoing area of research, we're still trying to understand ourselves. And even if we had those areas figured out, the answer you may be looking for may require you to understand a big chunk of those areas.
Having said that, there are some things we do know about ourselves. And some interesting things you may wanna take a look at.
I have no idea what your current understanding of psicology is. If you're new to the subject you can look at some educational videos, like this one: http://bigthink.com/videos/heidi-grant-halvorson-on-first-impressions.
Big Think, Braincraft, VSauce and Kurzgesagt may have some interesting things to say. (though only braincraft focuses on psicology entirely, the other channels have a wider range of subjects).
If you'd like a fun book to try to understand ourselves you could read "You're not so smart". It's all about cognitive biases, heuristics and falacies. If you are not familiar with those, you can also search for stuff related to that.
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Haha, you really crave that attention don'tchya? It's cute. And by cute I mean gross.
WUBBA LUBBA DUB DUB
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Your behavior in this thread showcases why this apparently happens to you oh so often.
Try growing up. A lot. You'll probably have a better time making and keeping friends that way.
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As you can see by the reply, that isn't helping any time soon.
Plus there's that whole thing on the first page showing the whole "hitler wasn't such a bad guy" thing bubbling under the surface. The only reason they get the benefit of the doubt is because some people haven't become acquainted with her forum presence yet.
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Ethnic cleansing.
Taking note of the things you have actually said and bringing them up where relevant isn't 'stalking'. You were suspended for some of that shit, it's not some random stalker grudge. Also in a public thread asking about why people discard you, which is very related.
gg
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I said you got suspended for some of your shit, so it's not just random stalker grudges but something that even moderators act on.
This is a fact.
Whether or not your remarks on 'jew bankers' and hitler were a factor in this is irrelevant. You still got suspended for the your behavior overall, and that means it goes beyond your bogeyman of 'stalkers'.
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So... you're saying that the army of people posting my old comments and shit talking me 24/7, arent stalking me, but just magically appear and magically post stuff from 1+ year ago? Well if you don't call that stalking IDK what stalking is then.
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That isn't stalking, it's referencing history. People remember things. For example:
Dum haec a Caesare geruntur, Treveri magnis coactis peditatus equitatusque copiis Labienum cum una legione, quae in eorum finibus hiemaverat, adoriri parabant. 2 Iamque ab eo non longius bidui via aberant, cum duas venisse legiones missu Caesaris cognoscunt. 3 Positis castris a milibus passuum XV auxilia Germanorum exspectare constituunt. 4 Labienus hostium cognito consilio sperans temeritate eorum fore aliquam dimicandi facultatem praesidio quinque cohortium impedimentis relicto cum viginti quinque cohortibus magnoque equitatu contra hostem proficiscitur et mille passuum intermisso spatio castra communit. 5 Erat inter Labienum atque hostem difficili transitu flumen ripisque praeruptis. Hoc neque ipse transire habebat in animo neque hostes transituros existimabat. 6 Augebatur auxiliorum cotidie spes. Loquitur in concilio palam, quoniam Germani appropinquare dicantur, sese suas exercitusque fortunas in dubium non devocaturum et postero die prima luce castra moturum. Celeriter haec ad hostes deferuntur, 7 ut ex magno Gallorum equitum numero nonnullos Gallicis rebus favere natura cogebat. 8 Labienus noctu tribunis militum primisque ordinibus convocatis, quid sui sit consili proponit et, quo facilius hostibus timoris det suspicionem, maiore strepitu et tumultu, quam populi Romani fert consuetudo castra moveri iubet. His rebus fugae similem profectionem effecit. 9 Haec quoque per exploratores ante lucem in tanta propinquitate castrorum ad hostes deferuntur.
Vix agmen novissimum extra munitiones processerat, cum Galli cohortati inter se, ne speratam praedam ex manibus dimitterent--longum esse perterritis Romanis Germanorum auxilium exspectare, neque suam pati dignitatem ut tantis copiis tam exiguam manum praesertim fugientem atque impeditam adoriri non audeant--flumen transire et iniquo loco committere proelium non dubitant. 2 Quae fore suspicatus Labienus, ut omnes citra flumen eliceret, eadem usus simulatione itineris placide progrediebatur. 3 Tum praemissis paulum impedimentis atque in tumulo quodam collocatis “Habetis,” inquit, “milites, quam petistis facultatem: hostem impedito atque iniquo loco tenetis: 4 praestate eandem nobis ducibus virtutem, quam saepe numero imperatori praestitistis, atque illum adesse et haec coram cernere existimate.” 5 Simul signa ad hostem converti aciemque dirigi iubet, et paucis turmis praesidio ad impedimenta dimissis reliquos equites ad latera disponit. 6 Celeriter nostri clamore sublato pila in hostes immittunt. Illi, ubi praeter spem quos fugere credebant infestis signis ad se ire viderunt, impetum modo ferre non potuerunt ac primo concursu in fugam coniecti proximas silvas petierunt. 7 Quos Labienus equitatu consectatus, magno numero interfecto, compluribus captis, paucis post diebus civitatem recepit. Nam Germani qui auxilio veniebant percepta Treverorum fuga sese domum receperunt. 8 Cum his propinqui Indutiomari, qui defectionis auctores fuerant, comitati eos ex civitate excesserunt. 9 Cingetorigi, quem ab initio permansisse in officio demonstravimus, principatus atque imperium est traditum.
Caesar, postquam ex Menapiis in Treveros venit, duabus de causis Rhenum transire constituit; quarum una erat, quod auxilia contra se Treveris miserant, 2 altera, ne ad eos Ambiorix receptum haberet. 3 His constitutis rebus paulum supra eum locum quo ante exercitum traduxerat facere pontem instituit. 4 Nota atque instituta ratione magno militum studio paucis diebus opus efficitur. 5 Firmo in Treveris ad pontem praesidio relicto, ne quis ab his subito motus oreretur, reliquas copias equitatumque traducit. 6 Vbii, qui ante obsides dederant atque in deditionem venerant, purgandi sui causa ad eum legatos mittunt, qui doceant neque auxilia ex sua civitate in Treveros missa neque ab se fidem laesam: 7 petunt atque orant ut sibi parcat, ne communi odio Germanorum innocentes pro nocentibus poenas pendant; si amplius obsidum vellet, dare pollicentur. 8 Cognita Caesar causa reperit ab Suebis auxilia missa esse; Vbiorum satisfactionem accipit, aditus viasque in Suebos perquirit.
Interim paucis post diebus fit ab Vbiis certior Suebos omnes in unum locum copias cogere atque eis nationibus quae sub eorum sint imperio denuntiare, ut auxilia peditatus equitatusque mittant. 2 His cognitis rebus rem frumentariam providet, castris idoneum locum deligit; Vbiis imperat ut pecora deducant suaque omnia ex agris in oppida conferant, sperans barbaros atque imperitos homines inopia cibariorum adductos ad iniquam pugnandi condicionem posse deduci; 3 mandat, ut crebros exploratores in Suebos mittant quaeque apud eos gerantur cognoscant. 4 Illi imperata faciunt et paucis diebus intermissis referunt: Suebos omnes, posteaquam certiores nuntii de exercitu Romanorum venerint, cum omnibus suis sociorumque copiis, quas coegissent, penitus ad extremos fines se recepisse: 5 silvam esse ibi infinita magnitudine, quae appellatur Bacenis; hanc longe introrsus pertinere et pro nativo muro obiectam Cheruscos ab Suebis Suebosque ab Cheruscis iniuriis incursionibusque prohibere: ad eius initium silvae Suebos adventum Romanorum exspectare constituisse.
Quoniam ad hunc locum perventum est, non alienum esse videtur de Galliae Germaniaeque moribus et quo differant hae nationes inter sese proponere. 2 In Gallia non solum in omnibus civitatibus atque in omnibus pagis partibusque, sed paene etiam in singulis domibus factiones sunt, earumque factionum principes sunt 3 qui summam auctoritatem eorum iudicio habere existimantur, quorum ad arbitrium iudiciumque summa omnium rerum consiliorumque redeat. 4 Itaque eius rei causa antiquitus institutum videtur, ne quis ex plebe contra potentiorem auxili egeret: suos enim quisque opprimi et circumveniri non patitur, neque, aliter si faciat, ullam inter suos habet auctoritatem. 5 Haec eadem ratio est in summa totius Galliae: namque omnes civitates in partes divisae sunt duas.
Cum Caesar in Galliam venit, alterius factionis principes erant Aedui, alterius Sequani. 2 Hi cum per se minus valerent, quod summa auctoritas antiquitus erat in Aeduis magnaeque eorum erant clientelae, Germanos atque Ariovistum sibi adiunxerant eosque ad se magnis iacturis pollicitationibusque perduxerant. 3 Proeliis vero compluribus factis secundis atque omni nobilitate Aeduorum interfecta tantum potentia antecesserant, 4 ut magnam partem clientium ab Aeduis ad se traducerent obsidesque ab eis principum filios acciperent et publice iurare cogerent nihil se contra Sequanos consili inituros et partem finitimi agri per vim occupatam possiderent Galliaeque totius principatum obtinerent. 5 Qua necessitate adductus Diviciacus auxili petendi causa Romam ad senatum profectus infecta re redierat. 6 Adventu Caesaris facta commutatione rerum, obsidibus Aeduis redditis, veteribus clientelis restitutis, novis per Caesarem comparatis, quod hi, qui se ad eorum amicitiam adgregaverant, 7 meliore condicione atque aequiore imperio se uti videbant, reliquis rebus eorum gratia dignitateque amplificata Sequani principatum dimiserant. In eorum locum Remi successerant: quos quod adaequare apud Caesarem gratia intellegebatur, ei, qui propter veteres inimicitias nullo modo cum Aeduis coniungi poterant, se Remis in clientelam dicabant. 8 Hos illi diligenter tuebantur: ita et novam et repente collectam auctoritatem tenebant. 9 Eo tum statu res erat, ut longe principes haberentur Aedui, secundum locum dignitatis Remi obtinerent.
In omni Gallia eorum hominum, qui aliquo sunt numero atque honore, genera sunt duo. Nam plebes paene servorum habetur loco, quae nihil audet per se, nullo adhibetur consilio. 2 Plerique, cum aut aere alieno aut magnitudine tributorum aut iniuria potentiorum premuntur, sese in servitutem dicant nobilibus: in hos eadem omnia sunt iura, quae dominis in servos. 3 Sed de his duobus generibus alterum est druidum, alterum equitum. 4 Illi rebus divinis intersunt, sacrificia publica ac privata procurant, religiones interpretantur: ad hos magnus adulescentium numerus disciplinae causa concurrit, magnoque hi sunt apud eos honore. 5 Nam fere de omnibus controversiis publicis privatisque constituunt, et, si quod est admissum facinus, si caedes facta, si de hereditate, de finibus controversia est, idem decernunt, praemia poenasque constituunt; 6 si qui aut privatus aut populus eorum decreto non stetit, sacrificiis interdicunt. Haec poena apud eos est gravissima. 7 Quibus ita est interdictum, hi numero impiorum ac sceleratorum habentur, his omnes decedunt, aditum sermonemque defugiunt, ne quid ex contagione incommodi accipiant, neque his petentibus ius redditur neque honos ullus communicatur. 8 His autem omnibus druidibus praeest unus, qui summam inter eos habet auctoritatem. 9 Hoc mortuo aut si qui ex reliquis excellit dignitate succedit, aut, si sunt plures pares, suffragio druidum, nonnumquam etiam armis de principatu contendunt. 10 hi certo anni tempore in finibus Carnutum, quae regio totius Galliae media habetur, considunt in loco consecrato. Huc omnes undique, qui controversias habent, conveniunt eorumque decretis iudiciisque parent. 11 Disciplina in Britannia reperta atque inde in Galliam translata esse existimatur, 12 et nunc, qui diligentius eam rem cognoscere volunt, plerumque illo discendi causa proficiscuntur.
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Stalking certainly isn't just remembering the people that repeatedly make asses of themselves, and then using the search function to link to stuff as proof when they claim their shit doesn't stink. \:3/
Again, normal posters can't suspend you. That's moderators. If you think a moderator is stalking you, open a support ticket bby~
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Maybe they saw your real photo and got scared? just saying...And joking aside it would help to stop insulting literally everyone, you seem like an attention whore and when you get attention you insult everyone...thats what we men call a bitch, nobody likes bitches...
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Oh who dis person yur mocking, Krapy? I wanna read yur comments 'cause I know they gots to be real smart an' clever like the way yer talkin' to me. I feel bads fer him 'cause yer too edgy fer people 'round here to understands ya. Yer the bestest Krapy!
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Maybe then you need to read how you reply to people and realize text can be so easily misunderstood. If I offended you then I am sorry but that was only my opinion.
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yes thats why text communication can be so easily missunderstanding and maybe lead people to avoid you like you said in your first post? just an idea that maybe this is it
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"I'm arrogant. Cruel and mean some times."
That's why you don't deserve an explanation. People remember those times and, when you finally cross a line for them personally, they just hit the block button and are done with you. Stop being a turd and that won't happen as often.
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Does acting like an ass then whining about it in a post which answers the question you're asking mean that you're ignorant or just an attention whore? That's the deep question that needs answering.
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Wouldn't the OP update the thread with that info and then close the thread since the question has been answer instead of continue to attention whore? Just a theoretical question.
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I think you hate the world because you need love. Lets me love you baby crimson
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You didn't curse me out, that means deep down inside, you do need someone that does not judge you based on your ideologies but your heart. I promise you that I will take care of your heart and your booty..no, I mean body.
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sounds like you are looking for a general answer... short version: you're probably just hanging with the wrong group of people or else growing apart. life happens; no use getting depressed (I have to remind myself of that occasionally but overall I find it very true)
longer answer: humans are weird. plus there's probably more variables at play than we ever stop to consider. is someone really pissed off at me / my comment or I said something when they were having a bad day/week/month/year and it was just the proverbial straw? compound that with the fact that no two people interpret things 100% the same... maybe he/she/it got pissed off over something because they didn't think of what I said/did the same way I intended. and then some people are just overly sensitive/easily offended. Concerning this last group, it always makes me think of a favorite saying by the father of Linux..."I like offending people, because I think the people who get offended should be offended.".
my answer... I agree with Avantyr
¯_(ツ)_/¯
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Apparently Krapy already made up with the person in question so this is simply an exercise in attention whoring I suspect. Then again, it there could be much more mysterious reason why this thread is still open since Krapy is smarter than us mortals. We are not at the level needed to understand, it.
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If that's the case then this is some of the most ignorant uninspired troll ever. Somewhere, Andy Kaufman is saying, "That's now how you do it!"
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solved
closed it myself so whine me a river
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