A gamer's hard to get a girlfriend?

The trick is not to keep her under your mantle, or don't make it look too obvious that you're clinging on to her, better yet, don't cling at all. A lot of people make the mistake of starting a "relationship" instead of a "partnership", you have to remember that there are two individuals and you guys are sharing a part of your lives. Also, trust is the most important thing, without it, paranoia will eat you up inside.

The thing to remember is that when you do get a girlfriend, you still need to focus on your own life. Some women will try to control you because they think that if you're not dedicated to them 24/7, then you don't love them. This is their version of clinging on to you and it can often degrade the way you feel for your girlfriend.

True

I just married mine, 5 years later and still no worries!

Yes. I have gamer girlfriends, at least two.

You just had two of us post to your topic and I know there are definitely more of us girls around.

To have girlfriend is too mainstream.

just respawn and try again

can confirm, am 14/f/jap. /s

+1. This thread made me feel like I'm some kind of untermensch, because I'm bi with a boyfriend

Currently I wish I lived in a basement. Tends to be a bit cooler.

But then you gotta place it in the basket and the humidity and all... dude...

I met my ex in WoW, though I wouldn't really consider either of us to be hardcore MMO users.

tought "to jerk off" would mean "to annoy"
did not get the sense of the statement
googled "to jerk off"
wants to have the status of not-getting-the-sense back :S

lol@your relationship

Now THIS the most stupid reply i ever heard. Are you 5?
Guy has different value system than you, Dumbass.

Plot twist:

Maybe you are the 5 year old in this, not him. I share a similiar vision to what he said, people are free to be single or engaged or in a relation. People that want to be single think more about themselves and friends and try to reach high in life. You can flirt with any chick you want without having to worry about someone's feelings, you can work for YOURSELF. Hard work and you get to keep the money to yourself, i dislike the fact that alot of girls these days are "expensive".

Also not to mention the trust issues society has these days. I just can't put trust into someone so easily and be like "i love you forever and ever, let's get married!" and the next thing you notice is a divorce and you end up in a tight situation in life and highly depressed because of that someone. Sometimes it's just better to avoid it all and live your life, THE WAY YOU WANT TO.

Just because it's stupid in your mind, doesn't mean it's stupid in reality.

Everyone has to go out and drink to be happy, as one couldn't possible be content with being alone and doing what they like.

Note that alone isn't the same thing as lonely.

I'm 20 years old and if it is stupid for you, then good for you

+1 :D

they all are mean they all are they will make u think they are not mean and u will believe it but they are mean

+1

Just a shame that a straight effeminate guy is a pretty rare thing indeed. I've met one who was bi and he was a great two night stand, though sadly nothing came of it.

Hello. Middle ages called, they want their moral back.

@PyroluxAemilius:
Speaking about which, what games did you play? I'm in the same case (the other way around though), and I gotta admit coop games are a bit more rare than I'd have expected...

You're not really in the steamgifts demographic, are you?

And exactly what makes THAT your bloody business? Are you my friend? Nope. Do you know me? Nope. Do you really want to hear the earful I would rather give you? Probably not.

(pats shoulder) I am sure someone saw them and remembered how much fun they had with them when they were a kid and snagged it up fast to take home and enjoy. It does suck that that happened without any real heads up from her. I know the second I saw it in the store, I had to get it when I found mine. I couldn't believe someone had given it away; took forever to find the gun for it though. Months of patience paid off though. I need to pull it out and play it some, it is packed away with the rest my consoles and stuff, since I recently moved.

<___< Aaaaand I would do that WHY now?.... And with who exactly?....

My bf has his own account, he is logged on all the time. I have my own account, which I am logged into all the time. I have no desire to log into his account because it is his, and same goes for him with mine. If I want a game, I will save up to buy it when it goes on sale; I do not need someone else's account to play games, I can wait because they are just games. Also, he isn't interested in some the games I am. We have our own collections, tailored to our own personal tastes, so sharing makes no sense here. And if you are referring to family share with my kids: no. I have a separate account for them, that I monitor and log into for them, only when they have earned game time on there.

I wish I could upvote here.

Mistress
FTFY