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Hey, don't feel bad, your situation are somehow like me when I was in highschool. I can be your friend if you want to !

Lost all my friends in school long ago, but it taught me how to make friends and who I want to be my friends. Sounds like it's been tough for awhile, but yes, it always gets better.

What's up with those poll numbers? There are a lotta turds around here trying to be silly. But if they're not taking what you're going through very seriously, then they must also think things will get better for you too I suppose.

Dont worry about this, it will pass and you will never look back. School is like that, friends at that time can be like that, just focus on yourself, do what you like, get good grades so you can end up where you want to be :) It will be much better in the future, I promise ;)

You'll make through it. Be strong

Some people are just idiots, some are just idiots in bigger scale. Don't give even single fuck what they do etc. Just finish highschool and move on.

"because everyone's got their friendship circles closed"

But that's not how it works at all darling ö.ö

Though if you have problems befriending people you could always try join your school's art club (or whatever you have an interest in), which helps you get to know people with common likes and maybe grow some friendships.

Or use websites which show you activites near you which you can go to to meet random people, friendships can grow out of that too :)

Just don't think it is impossible to meet nice new people, the hardest part is putting yourself out there :>

Heyo, am happy to be friends with you. Aussies represent!

Friends don't appear out of nowhere like when you are 3 years old, "hey, wanna be my friend?". Best thing is to look for some group or social whatever when you can do something that you like with other people. Things will come.

Just don't go to those "run like naruto" things. Please.

Please

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Something similar happened to me. I was in highschool and my friends started letting me out sometimes of the circle. I was sad to see that cause they make it just 'for fun' ... so I decided I didn't need nor want that kind of ppl on my life. I quit the group and started going alone... it's sad maybe but it was the best decision I could make... I made everything I wanted and I haven't to wait for others...

At that moment is when I started realizing who I wanted to be. How I wanted to live and more important what ppl had to have to be by my side... You don't have to beg for friends... they have to want to be with you and viceversa. One person that thinks he/she is better than you and that they are making you a favour for bieng friends.. it's not a deal.

I was 'alone' for 3 years... ppl started wondering about me... even ppl that didn't know me and started coming to me and ask: "why you always so lonely?" and I always said: "why not? I'm happy, (which was right) I make what I want and I don't need anyone by my side." I think that for ppl watching a 'lonely girl' that seems weak and getting an answer like this was so weird that they started telling me to join their groups ... what a crazy life right? I have to say htat I declined all those invitations... As I said, I was happy watching myself taking decisions and not waiting for my friends to take one, plus they didn't wanted me before or took care about me, so I didn't want them now.

You know one thing? On school and highschool children are really bad.... you just have to pass through it. Easy to say, hard to make... i know but life is not easy and never will be.

I finally went to university and met really good friends there. Not so many as I prefer having less but better friendship, but at least they are truthly good ppl and I can count with them if I need anything.

To conclude... I'm not telling you to be a lonely person, because it's so hard and you have to be strong and have a big personality, what I mean is that you have to learn that you are the first person on your life, and you are the one who has to make decisions and moreover be HAPPY. Dunno why but humans hate watching other ppl being happy XD

If you need someone to talk to, feel free to add me to steam so we can chat there. I will be happy to hear you and help you as much as possible (little note: I'll be out of pc until monday-tuesday)

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backstabbing is never nonsense. trust is everything between friends so i'd rather be alone than surrounded by liars.

no need to go out hunting for friends, just be happy with the situation you are now and if there's a chance try to connect with other people.

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Try to do some after school activity ? It will do good to you to find other people to meet. Don't tryhard for friendship, it's not what I'm saying, but just briefly meet some new people from time to time can be cool and refreshing :) Also, I know that switching circle is very hard, but if it happend during a class or something, don't worry, eventually it will happen ! Just try no not be with you ex-friends for class project or such, just stay away from liairs ! You'll make it :)

You'll be just fine. We all have hard times throghout our lives. Those moments/terms are what make us strong in the end. One day you will look back to those days and think "I was stupid that I was feeling like that then". :)

Still, if you need to talk to someone or need a friend you can add me.

Of course you will make it and it will make you stronger ! :)
You will learn from that and use the lessons during your life.

Good luck :)

Lol 13 voted no.. I think I have found some of ur backstabbing ex-friends.... (☞ﾟヮﾟ)☞

wish you will find new freindyou are niceso relax and forgive yourself :D

get some sport

Don't focus on the bad and concentrate on the things that give joy and/or fullfilment

Humans are unreliable, get a bot buddy

I know what it's like to be alone man. I got so depressed in college and had no support so I ended up dropping out. It sucks not having good friends. You can get through this. I was also alone all of freshman year of high school. Try to find a new friend who shares some interests with you so that you have a reason to spend time with them. I'd be your friend, but with my 2nd attempt at doing college happening soon I probably wouldn't have the time. You can add me on Steam if you want to though.

It's hard to have no friends and feel like you're all alone. I won't lie and say that it gets easier over time, but you will find yourself more and grow more confident in yourself so those new friends you eventually find (however few) will feel like real friends. Thinking back, I have found that music has helped me through most rough patches I've had. I believe in you. Just for you, I'll share one of my absolutely favorite groups with one of my absolute favorite songs; youtu.be/ XxkiYJ5udqc (remove the space after the slash). Even though that song is totally awesome it may have no significant meaning to you at this moment, so I'll share this one too; youtu.be/ mqm-_wMYdp0 (remove the space again). Sorry for the wall of text and breaking apart the links, but this way most people just skimming through the thread will hopefully not notice the songs and thus I think it makes them more special from me to you and not from me to you and everyone else. I hope you'll have a nice weekend and that you can find some nice music or maybe some good tv show to watch. Take care.