I've been a criminal and a drug addict for the past six years, but it's lead me to taking steps to better myself beyond just doing what isn't wrong. Steps that I would never have taken if I didn't initially make such bad choices. Best way to learn, imo.
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Most of us do :P
That or Apple...as much as I hate them except for their iPods (had a Zune to try to stay away from Apple altogether, but it sucked).
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I regret a lot more than I think I could even list off here. :/ Hasn't stopped me though. I just keep trying to make it right again.
Edit: And not so much my career path (although I do have a lot of regrets about my laziness), but sort of some choices I've made over the years about how I interacted with certain people around me.
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Ive read a book that inspired me to do things beyong what i could have done, it kind of increased the morale and spirit inside me. All of us share a common thing - fight. We must all fight and im happ yfor you, that you have the spirit to fight it, some people lose it and suicide, worst case
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I spent 10 years secretly pretending to be a dog. One day I openly came out to the community and they shunned me for my dog tendencies. However, I went to my local cult and they convinced me that being a dog was a choice.
Now I'm now happily living the life of a cat after an extentisive cult rehabilitation system. I'm now happy, sucessful and expecting my first batch of kittens with my lovely Queen.
Praise be to Loki!
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99% of the things I'm certain I could do better with the knowledge I have now, but I regret nothing. It's all part of the learning process that is called life.
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We all have some sort of mind control abilities, im learning psychology and it teaches a lot about humans and theyr mind, like now you did mind control, the words you say are the manipulator that you play with, you can mind control by taunting, you can mind control by cheering and all other stuff :)
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I regret everything, a lot of mistakes are made but usually real path is visible when i make wrong turn.
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You can be a programmer and still be social. Find friends or some other hobby. In retrospect you may not have always made the best choices but I don't think there is much point regretting it, so long as you seriously considerred your options and chose what you thought was best. And if you were wrong then learn from it.
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My three year diploma course which i just graduated from. One year into my studies and i realize that I do not want to work as an aeronautical engineer.
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I spent like an hour freaking out last night because I kind of feel like I messed up somewhere along the way.
Mostly because I don't have any friends really. I mean I have a best friend but he is in another province right now. I can't remember the last time I hung out with someone aside from at school. There are so many awesome people who have awesome friends that help them to do great things, and I just feel like I can't accomplish anything that I want to because I don't have other people.
For instance I'm alright at music but the only time I really pushed myself was when I had people to play with. I haven't have anyone to play with in over 3 years now. I'm really passionate about video games, and the game industry but I can't do art at all. Whenever I've been able to work with an artist in my class we do something pretty great, but without an artist I feel like I'm doomed to make something that even if it worked well it would look so bad no one would ever touch it.
One of my favourite things is board games, I have plenty of really good ones. But I've never actually had a regular group to play them with, they just kind of sit in a cabinet.
Most of the time I'm perfectly fine to be on my own and just spend countless hours on my computer. But sometimes I really do feel like I'm missing out, and wonder what I have done to be at this point in my life and be the only one who seems to not have any friends...
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Wow looks like you can play a lot of instruments I kind of envy you I have always wanted to learn to play piano and violin.
But I'm a culinary artist, I'm studying gastronomy :D
Also I can't play too much online games because my PC sucks (gaming PC is dead) but if you want to chat or play Killing Floor or something multiplayer that my PC can run go ahead and add me.
It's always nice to have more nice friends :)
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If it makes you feel, I dunno, less alone about it, you're not the only one without a bunch of friends. I've got literally 3 offline friends. One I'm related to, the second I barely ever hear from, and the third is my girlfriend who lives in another country.
But really, I'm sure you'll find like-minded people out there. Right now, I've been finding them online because I completely and utterly lack real social skills (no really, I'll just stand there freaked out in a crowd). If you're looking for coworkers for a project, looking online is certainly viable. My boss is actually in another state from me. If you're looking for people to hang out with, well I'm the wrong person to ask about that, but maybe look for any clubs, groups, events, etc. that interest you in your area.
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And i can always cheer you up, ill help you out when you need, just tell me :) You seem like a good person and i like how you describe things informatively. Games, sure we can play together if u want, we can even speak through skype, but we will probably not meet each other in real life, we are both too far from each other :) Just add me
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Wait, what do you mean programming but you want to socialize? Any job is going to take away from socailizing unless its an awesome job were you work with awesome people, Oh, wait that happens EVERY DAY.
TL;DR? Do what you love, but get wife who wont cheat on you.
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Long and complicated case resulting in breaking most of my self-confidence. I could forgive him cheating but not all the lies. For last 2 years I tried to make it work but with just one side putting any effort in it it's just a waste of time.
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Well the path can always change with time, it will get longer, but most of the times its not the destination that matters.
Personally, i've done the programmer career, and i'm doing 2 careers at the moment, one as an English professor, and the other as a speaker (radio announcer), i'm also reading some psychology whenever i have free time.
Dont regret the paths you took, learn from them, or modify them on the road, after all our greatest experiences comes from decisions like this.
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Yep. I don't live in the past, but differently from most people I do regret some things, and I would totally change them if I could... hat's why I stay focused on the present and try not to repeat the same mistakes.
And look, you're still young, you may have choose programming but that isn't a definitive choice. You have to try and avaliate if you're just insecure or if you really miss a bigger social aspect on your job. If you do like programming, though, I don't think you would be unhappy in case you decided to stay with it.
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The only thing i regret in my life is not being aggressive enough, i just elude the conflicts and when i can't i just break, fall in depression etc...
Also the people mean too much for me even if they are strangers, i always try to make the other people happy even if it's going against my wishes and sometimes people take advantage of that. (but i would never do something that breaks my morale system)
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People pleasing can be a big problem. There's nothing wrong with caring about other people, even if they are strangers, but if this has been affecting your life big time I would recommend you consulting a psychologist.
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I was like this throughout high school and half of college. Somehow I managed to date someone and that person slowly got me out of this.
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Im still thinking wether i chose what i really wanted to be, i love programming, but i want to socialise with people as much as possible, yet the path i chose is not really social. I love the programmers i know, they are such great people and probably the people which u could have fun while just speaking. When i speak and when i finish my speach i feel a little bit warmer, better inside, as if a little flame of spirit got inspired and made me feel its touch. But with programming its different, i feel happy when i finish my program and that i can help other people by creating these kind of things.
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