I think i explained it good above why i cared.
But maybe i didn't. English isn't my native language and i am not the best with/in it :-D

Because you wrote "many reasons" i will not dig deeper because it doesn't sound as you only had a bad day or a verbal fight with him somewhere or something like this.

In the end it isn't important for me and i were only curious.

I hope you have a great christmas time with low amounts of stress, or ideal none, and many great days with your wife.

I will try to lower my presence on sg, because all the trains, jigidis, birthday events etc. etc. etc. bring too much pressure (= stress = worse chronical illness situation for me, on top to the serious other health problems that i still fight against -which is "a bit" exhausting after 1 year...-). So don't wonder when you see lesser/not so much from me.