What is your ideals married age?
Mine? It's maybe 23. I don't want stay single for to long. Also i want to still have energy by the time my child grown independent
But....... That was an ideals anyways.
And please don't tell me that i don't even have girlfriend to marry. I had..... once. But she got called to leave first.
PS: Another GA here, in case you can't see it.
I agree with your perspective though might push to marriage age to 24.
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23 is a bit too young for that, atleast at this century, modern age. You need a stable job with good salary before thinking about marriage . Not so many people at that age successful that way.
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23/24 is the age people starting to get a job right?
And about success part, i don't think that people need to be success first before they married.
Grow through hardship together, deepen their bonds.
Although i agree at least stable income play a big factor.
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With success I mean having a stable job / income, not fantasy thing.
Yes at that age many still having trouble finding a job, not mention that changing job a lot. You start living independent, pay many kind of bills / debts. And remember the money you made, must be enough to take care of your small family, not just you, in case the other one have trouble in life. Your parents may help a bit at first, but not for long, at end you still have to take care of your own things.
The idea "Grow through hardship together" may sounds good, but only good if you have a thoughtful wife / husband (you really don't know about them until you meet some real trouble). You just lost the ability to take care of your family a bit, they can turn their head real quick. That's how the freedom of choice in this modern life is.
Of course if you already have stable income at that age then just go ahead. You must be one in thousands.
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26 or around that,,
buy my gf for 7 years left me because she got baited by other man so idk, i'm pretty much near 26 for now..
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I will be 23 this year. I thought the same when I was far younger but make a living in Indonesia is harsh (I stalk you a lil bit, so I know you also live in this country). I dreamed to have my own house by the age 23, but I don't think I can make it this year. I keep changing jobs due to ended contracts. Now I work with 1 year contract in a new company, I don't know if I would get permanent employment after the contract end so I'm not confident enough to build my own house and live with my future wife and children. Adult life is no joke. It's hard to get a good salary and stable job. Getting the job you desire is also not easy - I want to stop doing the job I don't like, but it's about how to survive for now. Anyway, I set 30 as my limit for marriage. My highest priority this time is to get a good and stable income.
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Depends. If you're a guy and you got the house and the job, why not.
Why house and job; it's hellish easier rather than being in an apartment that might be run-down anytime.
No vehicle is okay at the moment, you can make do with motorcycles, but you need to have a place to stay first.
Just make sure you can pay for your child's fee until he graduated, putting into consideration expenses that you might not expect.
And sorry to hear that... stay strong mate.
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