Basically, me and girlfriend broke up after 2 years, now one of my best friends who's known her for like 3 months is smitten with her and called me out and all the normal shit. How do I stop myself from essentially knocking him out?

EDIT: Jesus you guys are actually such help:-) thanks:-)

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Play games

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unless the game is really easy it could maker it worse. its better to workout, run or get a punching bag.

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Play violent video games.

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Watch or read funny stuff.

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I've been trying to read Pride And Prejudice for my English course but I've struggled with recent events-.-

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Play easy violent video games.*

Nothing worse than gaming to relax only to get frustrated when you die/loose.

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just played a bit of Postal 2 and it helped;-)

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Become an alcoholic

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I do sometimes feel like one... prolly isn't good considering I'm only 17...

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The first step to avert becoming an alcoholic is to realize you are becoming one.

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Beat up your pillow

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Sakamoto :3

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Well it was 2 years ago. How exactly did he "call you out" over it. lol

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After 2 years? Not 2 years ago. Well a massive paragraph explaining his hatred for me and that he's screenshotted loads of stuff to show everyone.

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Oops misread sorry. I wouldn't give him any of my time. If he is going to be a prick about the situation then that is his choice. But it is your choice to be a bigger person and just shrug it off. As for helping with anger I don't know try to find something like games or music to take your mind off of it as much as possible. The more you think about it the angrier you will be.

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Don't worry:-P It just angers me the way he's been, saying stuff about my mental disorders and how I ended up doing some bad stuff to my body (not gonna go into detail) the other day and that I'm pathetic. All my other friends however have been supportive..

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I think everyone will notice that he is being a major twat :P Just stay positive

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Well, I guess you can safely say he is a "ex" best friend =/

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I have severe anger issues after numerous cheating episodes and whilst i still rage at near everything, kickboxing was once my solice

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I used to do Tae-Kwon Do, got my black belt then quit due to monatary issues:-(

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Same but i turned to MMA and on a 5 semi pro winning streak

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Watch monty python Movies, that will fix you up.

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Oh My... that was beautiful!

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Music.

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Play video games.

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Gym. It'll help you in more ways than one.

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I'm gonna start running or cycling I think!

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Any kind of sport that you enjoy will help you. I've been through a 3 year relationship that ended all of a sudden and having something else to focus on really helps.

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Read that as gin, agreed completely! Gym is also good though.

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"How do I stop myself from essentially knocking him out?". You don't stop yourself. Thats how you stop yourself.

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Watch comedy.

If you have some favourite from the past, watch it again or find a new one.

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I would suggest this too.

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Knock him out. Anger will be gone. Takes 2 seconds. Your welcome.

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Break stuff.

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Don't you want your best friend to be happy? Just tell him how you feel about it and he'll tell you how he feels. I've been in a situation with one of my best friends at the time, we both fancied the same girl. Problem was, I'm taller, stronger and smarter than him and on top of that she was coming onto me already. I tried to talk about it with him but he kept saying I "took her" from him like she's some sort of mindless pet, calling me names and threatening to kill me. I told him where I was and that I'd be waiting for him, hopefully to talk. He told me to fuck off. Some 5 months later we were okay but it wasn't the same any more and we haven't really done anything together after that.

He was grossly overweight though and I suspect he had self esteem issues but that's besides the point. Don't let a girl ruin your friendships. You're done with her, right? I don't know if you're still friends or hung up on her but if you don't let him know and you don't ask him what's going on in his head, he's probably still going to go after her whether you like it or not but on top of that you'll lose him as a friend. You can't change the way people feel overnight so you're going to have to deal with this like a man instead of inside your own head.

What makes you think she's even interested in him anyway?

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Err... I think you read into this way more than was necessary. I think he's angry that his friend is being an unmitigated cunt, not that he "stole mah womenz!"

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He can go fuck himself, I mean you could kick his ass or kill him off but it would just get you into trouble. Ignore the douchebag and just go on with your life, philosophize while listening to FFDP, that's a classic.

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+1 for FFDP

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Lol, didn't read your post just thread name at first. Try to find an activity where you wouldn't think about it and ignore him and what he says. Still, music helps to drive away bad thoughts, at least for me.

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This.

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Beat whatever makes you angry... don't fight your natural instincts!

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I run and make desserts (and eat them, of course). :)

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Do you run while making desserts? Because that could be pretty fun!

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He could at the very least run while eating them. You know, burn the calories right away.

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Genius!

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Knock him out =)

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Drums.

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Big Rigs over the road racing, you will always win in that game.

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