This might not end well...
So do have your mods act as bailiffs and audit the donator star every month and kick those who didn't renew their donator sub? What if they have running GAs?
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We never called you Honest Student. I recall it was Perverted Tutor. :)
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I can vouch for his honesty! Know him in real life and I don't remember him ever telling a lie :D! He's been less active here recently cause he's doing all kinds of projects, latest one I heard of was him helping recovering addicts. Really friendly/ helpful guy, won't find a more honest character around here that's for sure.
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You have six people in your group - literally a third of them are aggressive bullying shitbags who have put me off posting trains for nearly a year. This is the Steamgifts elite? No - I don't think they are nice or even marginally supportive because they suddenly have a star next to their name.
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Some people use 'nazi' as an insult. Does that mean Hitler wasn't necessarily bad? That maybe the final solution was just ironic? I don't know what your point is.
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I'm not interested in the group and I'm not going to join. But you are posting in a public place and if you are saying its members are nice or anything else then I don't see why I shouldn't have opinions.
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In the interest of fairness, you knew exactly the kind of responses this thread/group could garner.
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So what's your point? it's OK to treat people like shit as long as you give $3 a month? People are nice as long as they give $3 a regardless of what else they do? Or I need to shut up and keep out of your thread while your members are free to shit up mine?
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If they break the rules report them? Blacklist already exist.
I'm not the police of my members... Or should all groups they are member of kick them out? Do you actively work towards that too?
Also you are clearly suggesting that giving money to the Patreon isn't a nice thing to do?
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I'm not suggesting anybody broke the rules. I'm not telling you to police your members - and I never suggested that giving money to Patreon wasn't a nice thing to do. You are just putting words in my mouth.
I'm simply having an opinion on you suggesting your group is elite, nice or even marginally supportive given your membership.
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Well I could go outside and give money to a tramp and then kick shit out him. Would that be marginally supportive?
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I thought I did and I checked my dictionary to make sure and it turned out I was right. It means to a limited extent or slightly.
I still feel you have folks that overall still aren't doing that much for the site even if they are chucking in $3 a month to Patreon.
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There is clear difference between what helps the site and what helps the community.
Giveaways help the community, but are actually a cost for the site itself paradoxically.
Clicking and being served relevant adds or using the refferal links are things that help the site. Albeit they are very small, as such even a 3$ donation vastly triumphs these.
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So this is the new steamgifts. $3 a month will forgive any behaviour. You can bully and abuse other users, you can leech from the site, you can do whatever you want - but as long as you give to Patreon you are a net positive. Thank you for clarifying that.
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Pick one or the other then. You have users that aren't marginally supportive to the site because their bullshit far outweighs $3 a month. Or else I don't know why you are discussing the difference between the site and the community and the importance of referrals and so forth. We can move forwards from there.
You said maybe you were just nice, which you are entitled to do - and I gave my opinion on that which I felt entitled to do as I didn't see this was a private conversation...
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I can admit that I am not a nice person and it is that clearly neither are you. And I can admit that some of the other members of this group might not be nice people either. As I don't put any sort of value judgements on them. Only requirement is to show that they have some patreon feature turned on.
Still I think it's pretty cool and nice thing for someone to donate to site that allows people to give games to more or less strangers. I haven't ever argued that it makes them nice or justifies their other behaviour. But somehow some people pulled that out of their ass...
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"EDIT by popular declaration giving money means person is a bad person. As such we all are bad persons to many members of this community."
I'm really not the one pulling stuff out of my ass here...
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It was never an argument. You just ignored a bunch of stuff that I said and made things up instead.
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You are making shit up again.
In my first reply I specifically said I had an issue with a third of your six members. That means two people. It is literally two of your members that have bullied me in the past. I have tried not to make blanket statements.
"I still feel you have folks that overall still aren't doing that much for the site"
"You have users that aren't marginally supportive to the site because their bullshit far outweighs $3 a month"
And so on and so forth. I never criticised all your group - you have nice people in there too and I never previously had an issue with you.
The same as you claiming that 'popular declaration giving money means person is a bad person' - nobody said that!
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I've seen you stick up for people I consider to be some of the worst at harrassing and singling out people for their special comments. Apparently bullying is subjective.
It's not ok to forgive people who donate $3 but its ok to forgive people who post funny gifs, make big trains or giveaways above level 9. Its the same shit.
Fwiw, the entire patreon thing is asking for trouble as a dividing line, I agree with you there.
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"It's not ok to forgive people who donate $3"
What? I've never said there was anything wrong with donating to patreon. I'm just saying it doesn't suddenly make people nice. It's entirely different stuff that I'm not forgiving people for just because they made a $3 donation.
"but its ok to forgive people who post funny gifs, make big trains or giveaways above level 9. Its the same shit."
Yeah, because I get along really well with everybody who does that. I'm absolutely notorious for sucking up to everybody who makes big trains and high level giveaways. /sarcasm
That said, I'd agree that bullying is subjective. And I don't agree with everything that certain people do even if I do stick up for them on other matters. I was one of the people that thought the patreon was a great idea but I'm having second thoughts if it is just going to be this divisive.
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Was always going to be divisive, a lot of these prolonged arguments start getting off track was just trying to calm things/bring some outside perspective to things.
I also wasn't aiming my point directly at you. I mean in general people do forgive and forget shit things just because "lol Mr Popular forum guy did a funny" or "Mrs big game giver needs to like me so i can enter their giveaways".
How long before the "no patreon" group starts. Full blown forum war which is hard to mod because its the site owner who started it...
I'm going to just avoid it as it already feels like its becoming not about patreon but about things that have long since passed.
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Well I can only speak directly for myself rather than people in general. And I try not to generalise about others, despite occasionally failing and accusations to the contrary. My whole point was that groups of people aren't homogeneously 'elite', 'nice', 'supportive', 'bad' or 'good' just because the support a patreon - exactly the same as groups of high-level users, low-level users, game collectors, people who make trains, card farmers, weeaboos, etc.
I don't really see a repeat of the Payday 2 skins/no-skins war. In this case cg never actually promised there wouldn't be DLC or microtransactions for steamgifts and it isn't like people need to buy drills to open their wins yet. Although the site may well now have a pay2win element if this group is making giveaways already - as in paying directly to cg and receiving access to extra giveaways rather than just buying levels and friends with games purchased off-site.
I don't feel strongly about patreon and I'm the first to admit I was kicking off over stuff that happened way back. That clearly isn't a positive thing. A long time ago I quit all my SG groups, stopped making topics and started ignoring a lot of things because there just too much negative drama. And I should stick to that - but clearly there is a lot of unresolved bitterness ready to pop out. And although I should know better sometimes it does. Mainly when I perceive people as 'getting away with it'...
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I think we're all a little guilty of going a bit mad when we're angry! You've done nothing wrong just wanted to try and bring some calm to things. :)
I left all my groups and took a break from SG too, was very healthy. I don't enter GAs now my backlogs too big.
Stay safe anyways mate, end of the day, internets not worth your sanity.
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This is getting really ugly very soon... giving money to an organization doesn't make anyone generally a nice person, only supportive for that cause. I won't get a better person on SG for supporting my local animal shelter, and I can't demand it either. Way too many people use donations to a cause of their choise as a shield and reason to pose as nice, while they are stepping on others and act super cocky. You're just enforcing this narrative by ignoring shitty behaviour but calling them nice for paying some money. It's a sad world when monthly 3-15$ is enough to ignore all wrongdoings and jerkyness and just blanket-call people "nice".
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Check this thread: https://www.steamgifts.com/discussion/Pp9ul/patreon-live if you are interested in giving money to this site.
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I don't understand where the whole "buying nice" was in my words.
Then again I still think it's rather nice thing to support the site monetarily... I never said it would make that person nice. But that is the kind of twisting and invention of narrative that is so common these days...
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So maybe we are exploitable. Or just nice
Your words. "Maybe we are ... just nice."
You're the one twisting your own words now and changing your meaning Not me.
I have nothing against contributors, but, in point of fact, you're the one making generalizations here.
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I like to think that, despite some of my asshattery on occasion, the giveaways I make are helpful to the site - rather than nice :P (maybe I'll try for nice some other time - after a bit of practice of course) /s (with you all the way here:P )
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It's because you're trying to defend a certain group of individuals, while at the same time, berating these individuals for acknowledging that they're doing it for personal gain. You're literally going through these conversation in circles.
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Nice and generous are not the same thing. One can be nice but not generous and vice-versa. Niceness is a personality trait that says said person is pleasant to be around.
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Donations are a nice thing. They are something that a nice person might do. Many people who make donations are nice people. But clearly complete assholes are also capable of making donations. If a complete asshole makes a donation they don't suddenly become nice.
You have people in your group that have made me really fucking miserable. I'm not buying that making a $3 donation has suddenly elevated them to nice or even marginally nice. $3 and a star does not suddenly make up for everything that happened and then give somebody credit on top of that. This is where I'm flipping my shit.
To clarify; I don't mind if people want to donate to patreon. I don't mind if somebody wants to start a group for people who donate to patreon. But it's just a group for people who donated to patreon. I'm not saying it makes people bad - but it sure as hell doesn't automatically make people nice either.
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So I said they might be exploitable? Why no one has attacked that one?
OR is not an AND. I don't understand why people need to attack based single word.
They must be really sad people if they can't consider that people have nice and not so nice sides. And clearly have too much of the later. As anyone else would let it just go.
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"Yep, still I consider donations to be a nice thing that a marginally nice person would do."
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So are you now saying that anybody who makes giveaways is at least slightly nice? And there aren't any leeches who make giveaways to maximise their leeching?
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Well they said earlier that I clearly wasn't nice. Although I make giveaways so apparently I am nice. What if I made a donation? At first I was angry but now I'm mostly just bemused.
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I support your right to your opinions, but I think at this time, none of you are getting anywhere with this discussion.
It think it's fair to call a cease fire as nothing is going to be accomplished.
Feel free to ignore me if you wish, I'm saying this more as a member than as support.
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I support your right to your opinions, but I think at this time, none of you are getting anywhere with this discussion.
It think it's fair to call a cease fire as nothing is going to be accomplished.
Feel free to ignore me if you wish, I'm saying this more as a member than as support.
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Could have started again, and perhaps I'd even be to blame for that. -shrugs-
Off topic, hope all is well with you :)
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I support your right to your opinions, but I think at this time, none of you are getting anywhere with this discussion.
It think it's fair to call a cease fire as nothing is going to be accomplished.
Feel free to ignore me if you wish, I'm saying this more as a member than as support.
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If you manage to pull this off without it turning into a shitstorm you'll deserve a medal or something. Sadly if I had to guess I'd say that this thread will become so toxic that it will even start bleeding its toxicity into other threads.
Good luck, you are going to need it.
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I was just checking this thread again out of curiousity and if I'm not wrong this reply was meant to be for me (if not just ignore me).
My main worry isn't that this will become toxic, it already was when I wrote my comment, what I fear is that it might spread into other discussions. Maybe you should have waited a few days before starting this group, to give the whole thing time to settle down a bit, no need to jump into the boiling water.
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Please don't feed the trolls, Ekaros because now they have a new bone to chew on they will grow exponentially! ^^
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This is a bad idea right? Right?
I should shut it down right now?
Anyway... Simple group for those who have decided to donate... And proudly display the star... No ratios, no giveaways, no discussions, Nothing of value...
No avatarReally bad avatar even...http://steamcommunity.com/groups/sgpatrons
If you are interested, post here and send request.
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