False prophets around

How old are each of you?

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From what you're saying, your couple has no problems, only someone outside of it has problems. Let them go fuck themselves and deal with your girlfriend only.

like you said, this isn't the best place to ask for advice.

and why would you care about the words of some random strangers, that neither know you nor your gf?

you should ask real life friends that know both of you, or maybe talk to her best (female) friends to ask for advice.

just my 2 cents.

cheers =)

If people would mind their our business and let people be happy, it would be nice

So, all you got to worry is you and her

If all it takes is someone to tell you/her that you're not going to last for you 2 to split up then you shouldn't be together at all. Simple as that. Real relationships are about 2 people who know what they want in life and aren't afraid to go and get it. If you're going to worry and cry then you don't deserve to have a girlfriend. Man up or move along.

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Dude talk with her,a lot.Why? I was in that place a lot of times with my (now) ex-girlfriend.The ***holes of her parents even if they knew that I am not a bad person they put some ideas and finally she believe them and well now she is nothing more that my "ex".

Family sometimes just to protect their memembers can get blind for a moment and think that everyone is a bad person for their kids.Just talk a lot,let her know that you will do everything you can to make her happy and the stupid things that her family is saying are not going to happen,are not true and that if things like that has happen to them with other persons ARE NOT going to happen with both of you.

Love to you guys.

So her parents want you guys to split just because you have no job for 3 weeks? Man, ignore them.

Well it really isn't any of her family members business. Also I would simply not care about anyone who cares whether I work or not (I am permanently retired).

Talk to her, if the words of others affect your relationship and she can't see the truth for herself no point keeping her around because you're going to suffer for the rest of your life with other people constantly trying to spoil your relationship.

Talk to her, then leave her to think about it. Tell her how you feel.

I was expecting stories about the devil incarnate posing as priests. I'm a little disappointed. 4 months is absolutely nothing. This must be one of your first serious relationships. 4 months, you're really still only starting to learn about each other. If it doesn't work, it doesn't work. It's better this happens after 4 months than 4 years.

There is a lot of wisdom in this thread so far, OP. Heed it. Ignore biased crap from over-protective family members, don't even entertain those criticisms with long conversations with your girl. Be together, enjoy your time together, and make her feel safe and happy. That is all that matters. Too many "serious talks" are the best way to destroy a relationship, especially one so new and fresh. You should be getting to know each other, screwing like rabbits, and enjoying life together. Learn to back each other up, and be a team, and laugh at doubters. Do not let them dictate your relationship.

Did that relative say why he or she thinks you won't last together? If not, then their opinion doesn't matter. If yes, then you can evaluate the reasons and see what doesn't hold true there. Either way, I don't think you need to give her time to think about it, not without you discussing it with her first. She needs to know that you don't agree with this and why you think it's wrong; why you think you will stay together for a long time. Then when she thinks about it she will have that point of view, instead of just that other person's point of view and hers.

Oh my. That's a tricky situation. I'm afraid that I don't have much useful advice for you. I came to the thread expecting commentary on the hordes of "Korean" heralds of Andraste.

Tell that family member Santa Prime has foreseen that she will die horribly by a burst of pure energy on the 13th day of the 37th cycle of the moons of Cybertron if she does not renounce her false prophesying by the end of the week.

Out crazy the crazies, the best tactic there is!

Either change their opinion of you or bail out if she is close to them.

There are a lot of things about your situation which are unclear or "hazy," but I will try to offer advice which will be useful to you, whatever the case may be.

1) Keep trying to find work. "Work" may be a steady job, or volunteering for the community, or hiring yourself out as skill labor. Whatever you end up doing, you want some kind of income which you've earned through your own efforts. As a man, you need this in order to maintain a healthy sense of self. Finding work may be difficult, but just keep at it.

2) Your focus should be on being a "complete" person, even without your girlfriend. You want to be traveling down your chosen road in life and offer her to come along with you. You do NOT want to be trailing along behind her, wherever she wanders, like some lost puppy dog.

3) Do not worry overly much about what people say about you. Live your life in such a way that you show the lies for what they are--lies. When you can do that, nobody who knows you will believe in the slander because your actions prove otherwise.