He's probably working out his own inner demons. I'd stand up to him though.
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Younger brothers are usually spoiled and they don't get to pay for their mistakes being all the blame on the older. That's why he tries to educate you.
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unfortunatly, my parents pay more attention to him than me cause he was a good student and got plenty of trophies blah blah blah, and i am the average type of student T.T
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Never use your older brother as a standard for what you should be like.
I'm the eldest brother in our family, and I know how much my younger brother looks up to me academically (despite beating me at just about every sports you could think of), simply because it's always been a cakewalk for me, or I at least made it look like it, while he's in anguish over bad grades and things not going well. It's even making me feel bad, because he won't let me help him or even just talk about it.
You are your own person, and there are things you are good at or can be good at that your older brother never will be. Find them. Find out which ones you like. Find out which can earn you a living. Once you've got that figured out, your life will be so much easier. The hardest part is getting yourself there, figuring those things out. It won't come easy. But you have to keep in mind: nothing in this life worth having comes easy.
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Because verbal abuse, name calling, and always, always being negative and condescending, as OP describes, is "educating" someone.
Wth Cast.
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In that case it just wasn't funny. More of a dick move posting that on a thread from a kid who obviously has a hard time with the family he was born in to. It's pretty shitty growing up having an asshole for a brother. You don't get to "never call" again or "not open the door for them" like with friends :/
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He's more than likely jealous of you. Generally when someone acts like that it's because they feel threatened in some way. OR, their own self esteem is so low that it makes them feel better about themselves to belittle someone else. Just my opinion. Don't let it get to you though =)
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Sorry but that's just typical victim-talk to feel better about yourself. Well, ok, maybe it often has some merit to it, and is true (i.e. the jerk has self esteem problems or jealousy or something else wrong with him) but people can also be self confident, otherwise mentally healthy, and just be dicks.
The point is, whatever is causing him to act this way, if he's doing it for no reason other than to provoke you or otherwise piss you off / hurt you, don't spend a second worrying about what he's thinking, why he might be doing it, etc. It's irrelevant and a waste of your time. If you do spend time dwelling on his thoughts, he's already won. You're wasting your day thinking about him and what he said, he's probably off doing something else and having a good time.
Rather, think "man, fuck this moron, I did nothing wrong and don't deserve this treatment", walk away, and spend your time finding stuff to do that you enjoy, maybe even some new friends that you can hang out with that do treat you decently. That way, you save yourself a lot of stress, worry, anxiety, and time - and you are left with some self worth. Keep this mind-state going for a few weeks, tops, and you'll probably start to notice feeling better about yourself, more self confident, and giving less and less of a shit about this idiot of a brother and what he says. Most likely, he'll even stop once he realizes you see him as nothing more than a tiny annoyance you shrug off dismissively, on a level far beneath you.
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my cousing used to kinda insult me or annoy me sometimes but it was all in good fun we still doit to each other. try ignoring him, like he doesnt exist, that way his actions are simply going to backfire.
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I swear if I had had a brother like that growing up, who fucking hit me and shit, I would have one day, when I was say, 13 or 14, gone postal on him and kicked him full force in the nuts, then just raged into him with fists flying. Either that, or if he was really a lot bigger, I'd have ganged up on him with like 4 good friends and kicked the shit out of him. Some people can be such ridiculous assholes. If I ever had a younger brother, I'd be thankful for having a little bro and try and be friends with him.
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I may have misunderstood, but thanks for the laugh. <3
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Then you need to stop being a pussy and go try to bully other people your size at parties etc to get your kicks, not your younger siblings that can't walk away or fight back adequately like a coward.
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I've never had that problem.. My brother is 10 years older than me and we are best friends, we had some little fights when we were younger 'cause we both wanted to play PC and we only had one... But other than that we've always had a really good relationship.
Fact: I'd beat the **** out of him if he was like that, since I'm stronger than him and I know how to fight.
Advice: Hit the gym or something, learn how to throw a good punch.. Violence usually isn't the answer, but sometimes bullies need to know their place, even if they are your older brother.
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Be happy with that. It may be annoying (yes, I know it is), but he is your brother, your bound is really strong no matter how different you both are. My sister is 6 years older and used to bully me/yell at me. It's been 3 years know she doesn't even talk to me, and I kind of miss the yelling.
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I have a twin sister and she is annoying af. She is like the complete opposite of me, she is anti-social, never leaves the house, has only 1 friend ect.
She likes to get in fights and be a bitch and not talk to people. She has stopped communicating with our dad, they haven't spoken in months. She also like to talk shit about my back so her only friend that she has hates me even though I did nothing wrong. FFS, moving out ASAP
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I have a bigger brother. When we were younger we used to fight all the time, for no serious reasons.He usually would make the start cause he is a dickhead.
We were Breaking things on each other heads, hadoken punches and all that manly man shit.
Now we dont tend to punch each other(except for fun) but we still talk bad to each other.Its like a tradition. I guess we are grown ups now.
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no, but I bought my sister a ton of games and she never plays them :(
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I have an older brother who, when he talks to me, always Yells and swears at me like "HEY DIPSH@! How's your pathetic life? or pushes me around and blames things on me, talks all sarcastic like, or even hits me and for the record, we're like 2 different people, im nice, quiet, and polite, while he is, uncouth, loud and annoying, but yeah i know, sibling rivalry or something like that everybody deals with it etc etc, does anybody else deal with things like that with siblings, bullies, other, etc? if you are an only child then i am jealous, but anyways, cya for now.
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