Dear friends

Let me admit it right away. I'm not necessarily the person with the greatest social skills. It's not like I'm a full-blown attic autistic, but sometimes I do things in a pretty awkward way.

I am someone who consciously think about things. I have to be careful at the right moments to keep good eye contact, how my posture should be, how I should introduce myself first, when people annoy me, when I make an awkward remark, what to say, etc.

Yet it is difficult. Especially when I am I can be clumsy drunk. I can not pay attention to social rules, and I also really struggled with it. For example, toast and forget to look at someone. And when there's lots of people and loud music, sometimes I can not quite follow the conversation, then i have three options. looking at someone else, saying nothing or just try to mix in the conversation

The worst is that is actually a large part of my social contact from parties. At the moment it is always super friendly, but the next day I always think. Oh no what about the guy it that I not looked at the toast . How could I see that i flired with the girlfriend from my friend . In total it was a cool evening, but there are times where I've put myself horribly for dick.

How do you guys handle it it? Are there more guys are a little introverted? Do you sometimes do socially crazy things?

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I wait for that day when you will be banned.

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He's just asking for advice no need to be agressive.

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No,he is not asking,he is just a troll..don t feed him.Just read his older threads...

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Can you link to what he did? I don't know of any way to search for topic creator.

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Google steamgifts and then username usually gives some pointers.

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53.

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Are you still counting your shitposts?

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Come on, try to come back with something of your own for once. It's not even fun to mock you :(

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I'm still waiting on my support ticket for over a year? Something like that?

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Using my support status against me, now we're talking.
I can't do anything about it, and the only staff member who can hasn't logged in for over a month.

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Well I was Joling but you keep commenting to me ;(

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Yeah but you kinda asked for this with those random senseless comments. Anyway this kind of stuff quickly gets boring, so I'm not going to keep bothering you.

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oooh it's on, watch your back

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You don't want to be Gerard Joling.:p

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Hahhaha

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Someone has to take Konrads spot.

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me too - is this something like misdirection - is this person secretly doing something to steamgifts, on steamgifts, around steamgifts and just using these obtuse threads as a ruse ? cause I can see no reason for them otherwise !! sigh

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How do you guys handle it it?

By never leaving the house and having no friends or social life.

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So much salt in one sentence ,it burns my eyes :D

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+1

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How do you guys handle it it?

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I always look in the eyes when i talk to someone ,but sometimes i see people that looks 10 times more confident then me and they somehow trys to avoid eye contact ,for me looking in someones eyes is completely normal ,but when i see people who dont look in the eyes when they talk to me ,looses my respect .

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That makes no sense. Why base your respect of someone on something so arbitrary?

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That response is even more arbitrary... Impressive!

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or blind folks.

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hehe =)

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yea i agree , i did mean people who i know ,i don't go to shop to look in someones eyes to say i need cash back too :D

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Dear friends

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I'm not necessarily the person with the greatest social skills.

Looks at username.

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Dearest of all my dear friends,

Let me admit it right away; I am renowned for my terrible decision-making skills, and even worse advice-giving skills. So here's what you should do.

Long ago, I discovered the secret to hitting it off with strangers at parties. The key is to approach the largest, most aggressive-looking man in the room. Then bellow, as loud as you can, various phrases insinuating that he has informed you he wishes to present you with his penis, and that you have no inclination whatsoever of seeing it. Let me be clear on this: do not wait for him to actually mention showing you his penis, two out of three times you can be uncomfortably waiting for up to 7 or 8 minutes before he does so, which defeats the whole object of the strategy.

In this way, you will leave the others at the party with the distinct impression that the person whom you have approached is in fact the socially inappropriate character, and by association you will appear to be an upright member of the community. Beyond this, the other partygoers will be thankful that you are trying to eliminate unwelcome members from their collective - and, crucially, the fact that you show such courage as to confront even most terrifying person at the party will greatly impress any women nearby, and it is beyond any doubt you will be given countless proposals of intercourse before the party is through.

For any further advice, you know who to come to.

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