I wish I had a girlfriend

It doesn't really help much that we get shunned by most of society. From what I've seen, even minorities and gays have had it easy compared to those of us on the autistic spectrum... :(

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NGPriest

As long as you don't advertise it, then you shouldn't have a problem?

People like us are smarter then the general public, so use our talents to help us achieve our goals?

For me, i specialise in IT, what do you specialise in? :p

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TJSlipperman

Nothing in particular at the moment. I can't even drive, let alone find work around where I live who's willing to hire anyone on the spectrum.

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NGPriest

Well, what are your interests?

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fatbackwards

I know that feel....

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Sephiroth02

I can help you add me on steam.

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MapiMopi

I wish I had not.

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Zomby

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Then make a trade with the OP.

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MisterXYZ

No trading on SG ;)

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Grozillas

Rephrasing the wish; " I Wish I had a Gamer Girlfriend"

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Carnehil

"I wish I had a girlfriend who won't talk only about clothes, make-up ans soap operas" would be good enough

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0x442E472E

A nerdy girlfriend would already suffice :P. But a gamer girl would be a great advantage

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TJSlipperman

Yeah, it would help if the girl was a geek and/or gamer much like us. And also if she was open-minded enough to tolerate autistic/Aspie quirks (many girls aren't)...

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jurm02

Finding a gamer or nerdy girls isn't hard in online communities. But offline..yeah, I think it would be a bit harder. At least to make them (yeah, all of them! Problem? :P) your girlfriend.

Maybe most girls (and people in general) are not that accepting of aut/asp quirks because they don't really know what it is and what to expect. Also, I think a decent amount of people prefer to bail out when a hurdle shows up, than to stick around and try to adapt/cope/solve/etc. At least in the start of a relationship.

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Nonos

Begging! Report him! :-p

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venomtsh

It's not really that hard, just put a little effort into it. Besides, most of the time girls are more trouble than it's worth.

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theinfantaria

rhis

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brynne528

awww :( Het spijt me :( Hope you'll get a gamer gf...

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Ritinsh

Get one hour girlfriend

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datenshi

You really don't, trust me. They're annoying, constantly want to do stuff with you, are often moody (especially moody 1 week/month where you try to avoid them at all costs) and they're trying to make you do stuff you don#t want. Oh and shopping. It's horrible I tell you!

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DuckieMcduck

Doing stuff with you? In a relationship? How dare she.

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datenshi

I know right? Why can't she just leave me alone and stay in the kitchen!

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Carnehil

Generalisations, oh joy

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Spokker

The original poster is pining for a girlfriend in general, not a specific type of person. Generalizations are wholly appropriate.

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Carnehil

It would be fine if every girl was moody, loved shopping and kept telling you what to do. You might find it weird but some girls could feel offended by being put under such tab.

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brynne528

What's the point of having a girlfriend if you don't do anything with her (and hey, if that thing she wants to do with you is fuck, I think he'd be pretty damn happy), some of us don't have any mood swings/pain/other bullshit so you don't have to avoid your girlfriend, and some of us also really don't like shopping. We can be annoying, but guys can too, and some of us also know when to shut our mouths if we are being annoying. So. Your point is...?

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Creambanana

What's the point of having a girlfriend if she doesn't stay in the kitchen.

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brynne528

Then they can only fuck in the kitchen.

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Carnehil

Oh, you know some guys just want their girlfriend to be.. there somewhere, waiting for the guy to care.

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tubberware

I think the point being here is that people may want to have time alone. Even in relationships this can be healthy as the constant close proximity of another person can be stressful. When that freedom is denied, that person starts to feel like a shackle, which in general, is not a positive feat.

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brynne528

Of course. Who wants an overly attached girlfriend with you for 24/7? But on the flip side, if the couple does nothing together, then you'd also have a problem.

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Mozendo

"Of course. Who wants an overly attached girlfriend with you for 24/7?"
Me.

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brynne528

....uhh why?

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Mozendo

I think it's cute.

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brynne528

You have an interesting definition of "cute."

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Mozendo

It's been suggested that I'm insane.

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SFaPiL

You're too good to be real. ;D

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JKpowned

She's real but yeah she's so awesome she even wants a threesome with another girl not with another dude. She's the perfect girlfriend thats why nobody can have her anymore. She's mine.

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brynne528

Thank you :) I can verify that that's true :p

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Fooshi

What you want is a friends-with-benefits relationship. Not a girlfriend.

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moomoomilky

well marry your computer with pandora comeback you might as well LOL

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Misopesaminos

You can get one in WoW.

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DuckyDuck

livejasmin :d if you know what i mean

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SFaPiL

lol

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TJSlipperman

I can relate with the OP. I have Asperger's myself, and even as nice as I try to be to the girls I like, many of them would probably think that Jared Lee Loughner is more attractive than I am. =/

Where in North America could you find a lot of geek/gamer girls anyway? They seem to be rather few and far between here in Southwest Ohio where I live (of course there's the A&G Ohio con that takes place every year, but that's the only gathering they would be at within my vicinity each year :( )

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brynne528

You won't have any more luck in Northwest Ohio.

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JKpowned

Cause i took the gamer in North ohio muwhahah :p

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