my best friend (a girl) for three years decided to stop being my friend :(
im feeling really down atm, and the sad thing is she left me on the first day of 2014.
I just want the steamgifts community to provide some support cuz ur my only friends atm :c
thanks.

UPDATE: okay guys, so umm basically she texted me, and we discussed everything, and now were best friends everything is cool again. but idk, weve had 5 big fights in like 3 weeks. she promised she'll try her best to keep cool. i hope she does stick to that promise. but frankly, i learned a lesson, i wont rely on her too much. i mean not until she proves that shes over what happened and shes the same girl i had a best friend thing with. anyways thank you SG! feel free to write comments about the update, yes i do read them all :) funny posts are largely appreciated

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A wild link appears.

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Gotta enter em' all.

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were you two hooking up? if that's the case then you have to know that sudden evasive maneuver by one of the two parties is likely to eventually happen.

"but she's not my girlfriend, just a female friend." well I did not say you two were in a relationship. Having had friends with benefits, I can say that the whole bloody thing can end anytime, abruptly or sometimes violently.

However, if it's platonic...we're not your only friends mate, look for supports from your other friends. Do NOT whine to your friends, only do it after you have alcohol in your system or "substance" then tell your friends. They will get you through better than any of us can do.

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alcohol is against my religion xD also nope we werent hooking up, none of that friends with benefits stuff either, not really common in my culture
it was a brother sister friendship like i said in my earlier reply.
i dont want my friends at school to know about this fight, and i dont think she wants that either, so i guess u guys are my only resort for this.

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I actually am still in a brother-sister relationship with a girl who I had had a crush on. Having moved on, it is now all fine and dandy. But yeah, there has been people calling it bullshit because...well

"...men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way" and "no man can be friends with a woman that he finds attractive. He always wants to have sex with her." (quotes from When Harry Met Sally)

we all have a soft spot for someone, here are my best wishes for you that you will find comfort or even resolution to your "down time." If she's a good friend then she'd come back around eventually.

And screw those who insult women. Your mom is a woman too, you should know that.

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+1 +1 +1
how did u move on?

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A mature, direct confrontation between us two (it's more like me confessing of all the crimes of passion I could do for her). We had a serious talk, she tried to be calm throughout the conversation knowing that I was afraid of shocking her with this "revelation." Then she told me: "One day, we're gonna look back at this whole dramatic mess and laugh. You know that right?"

plus it had been more than two years of me having a crush on her. Even I knew I had to move on.

secretly whisper but I still have her photo in my wallet, as a memento of "things I cannot have in life regardless of how much I want it." My ex (who I dated shortly after) was furious about me keeping that photo.

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What's up with random heartbroken people seeking comfort from random strangers on the internet? Is this the new "in" thing?

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naw man i usually dont do this but like read my reason right above ur comment ^^

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She didnt care about you as much as you did for her, going by that logic isnt it a waste of your time to sulk over her? Suck it up and move on. There are millions of people out there, no one is irreplacable.

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Little Billy'came home from school to see the family's pet rooster dead in the front yard. Rigor mortis had set in and it was flat on its back with its legs in the air. When his Dad came home Billy said, "Dad our roosters dead and his legs are sticking in the air. Why are his legs sticking in the air?"

His father thinking quickly said, "Son, that's so God can reach down from the clouds and lift the rooster straight up to heaven."

"Gee Dad that's great," said little Billy. A few days later, when Dad came home from work, Billy rushed out to meet him yelling, "Dad, Dad we almost lost Mom today!"

"What do you mean?" said Dad.

"Well Dad, I got home from school early today and went up to your bedroom and there was Mom flat on her back with her legs in the air screaming, "Jesus! I'm cumming! I'm cumming!" If it hadn't of been for Uncle George holding her down we'd have lost her for sure!"

If that didn't cheer you up you're dead inside.

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lol, OP should read this, it sure is funny.

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AHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAAHHA
WOW!
THIS IS WHY I NEVER LOSE FAITH IN SG! THANK YOU DUSTMAN, AND HAVE A GOOD DAY AHAHAHAA

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If you are my friend, gift my Skyrim LE. Otherwise you are not my friend! :P

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A reminder: Joke begging is still treated as actual begging.

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awww its okay forgive him this time. man lemme own skyrim first, then consider gifting it..

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i would say she wanted more and you did not see it, hmm. maybe just maybe that is, young padawan :)

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i reaaaaally dont think so

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it's hard to see what a woman really wants. Think twice

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Is it possible that you and she no longer fit in the same social circle? This is a bigger issue in school, but would be a reason to eliminate someone from your life in the adult world. Don't let adults play bullshit games with you. This isn't another remake of Carrie.

Perhaps she had a thing for you, and thought you would have figured it out by now? That happened to me at least three times, and it still bothers me that so many women still believe that men MUST make the first move. What can I say, I'm a passive guy.

Ask her why she no longer wants to be your friend. Do you really have anything to lose? I suspect you have less to lose than you think you do, if her not being your friend is a legitimate concern. Don't play games, just ask.

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no man, we have the exact same friends! its not that, and its not the feelings thing either, we always have this bff talk and shes been through crushes and ive been through the same, we have each others back. she doesnt want to be my friend because:
"i made a mistake three months ago when i ignored her on whatsapp for another girl and i apologized so much right after and for the past three months ive been trying to make it up to her, but she always says i can't fix it, and that every time i talk to her she feels hurt, even though im cheerful and helpful and im there for her for everything."
every now and then she just randomly brings it up and upsets herself.

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If she is willing to break off three years of friendship for something as trivial as that, she is not worth it. Move on and make new friends. Hang out with your other friends. Make sure to let them know who broke it off.

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are you telling us the whole story? Or this girl is just crazy? 3 years friendship because of it?

If it's true you are better without her!

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That's something you normally do when a friend stabs you in the back and you're not intent on forgiving. Either she's not telling you something or she's extremely egotistical. It's just strange to completely dump you for ignoring her once.

Anyways, as for cheering up live your life and chase your dreams. If you do it the right way you'll attract more people than you can handle.

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It doesn't sound like you were just plain best friends. If she got that hurt for something so small, she might've had feeling for you, Especially when there was another girl involved in the story.

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UP

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Are you a girl or a guy.

If a guy, good thing, she friendzoned you, get another person that will give you some action.

If she tossed you like that, is for 2 reasons only.

Either you did something to piss her off, conscious o or unconscious, and you deserve a punishment. or she is just being a girl on her period. Eat chocolate, cry a few days, and when her period is over, she will call you

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nah her period was on december 17 lol. and i dont think i deserve the punishment "i made a mistake three months ago when i ignored her on whatsapp for another girl and i apologized so much right after and for the past three months ive been trying to make it up to her, but she always says i can't fix it, and that every time i talk to her she feels hurt, even though im cheerful and helpful and im there for her for everything."

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It doesn't sound like you were just plain best friends. If she got that hurt for something so small, she might've had feeling for you, Especially when there was another girl involved in the story.

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Go though imgur pictures. THose are sure to cheer people up

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9gag and that stuff bored me long ago xD
Edit: imgur is actually good.. o.0 thanks!

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She obviously isn't worth your time, move on.

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How can you argue that when you know absolutely nothing about those two people? Some people say the siliest of things. XD

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If she gets sad because he was texting someone else and not her when she sent him the message, then that's just absolutely dumb. Read before you post.

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And how exactly that one single thing invalidates all the tings they gone throught and makes her a wate of a time for him? If your best friend went fulll derp for a moment for some reason, you'll just treat him as a waste of time like you never knew him?

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It actually depends.

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If your best friend went full retard and stoped your friendship for any reason, and you just went along with it, you'd be the douche. At least his excuse is that he went full retard, what's your? If you can accpet so eaily the loss of a friendship, it just goes to show how much you cared about the friendship in the first place, and you would be a failure as a friend, even more than your friend who broke the friendship.

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If I lost my best friend(s), I would try to communicate with them and solve the problem. He stated he already did that and she still ignored him.

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And if you tried work things out once, and nothinkg works, you just forget about them like that? Hell, I'm not saying to presist on trying to make up with them, but simply letting go and not caring anymore as if you never knew him is not something a good friend would do.

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Subscribe to World of Warcraft. You'll never need a girl again.

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Hehe, those 2006 stereotypes.
You forgot to add that we all live in basements.

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I don't live in a basement.

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Hey dude. I don't know why you upset. This friend was just ballast for you. Girls as friends are very bad idea if they aren't ugly. You don't need this emotional shit. You can't even ask advice from this irrational creature. All you can do is just have a cute talk that you can do with every girl. Without any risk of this shit. They are fucking irrational and emotional. They can't be good friends. They think differ. They have another valuables.
Say thank to her. She did good thing.

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People don't suddenly stop being friends with someone for no reason, you either confessed your feelings to her (if you had any) or done something that would break any friendshi. If not either of those tw, she wasn't really your friend to begin with. Care to explain what happened?

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well now you know that she's not your friend

and when she comes back beggin at you, just reject her

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How old are you?

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Yes, please answer this haha.. We want to know

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were both seventeeeen

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༼ つ ◕_◕ ༽つ PLS!!!

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If she's not in love with you and doesn't want you two to be more than friends, like you say, then she's a selfish c***t(no offense)and you have no reason to try to make up with her. Supposing there are no romantic feelings involved, the friendship between a man and a woman(both heterosexual) is pretty much the same as between two guys or two girls(with minor differences). Not only should she not get mad for you ignoring her over another girl, she should actually encourage you to, if you have a romantic interest for that girl. "Bros before hoes" is not a universal rule. A guy friend will always understand a situation like this(unless it's something really important, like a mater of life and death) and there's no reason a girl shouldn't. Even supposing it was something really important, a sane, decent person would have forgiven you by now. She's not such a person. You really want someone that selfish and inconsiderate in your life?

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Well...she probably had herpes anyway! :D

...Laugh already! >:O

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If this site doesn't cheer you up, then nothing will.

Free hugs!

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WOW! where do you find stuff like this ? :")

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Found it here actually. Glad you liked it. I watched it for probably half an hour and felt like a new man afterward.

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But...I don't like hugs...

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Then I guess there's always porn...

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In that case I'll keep the hugs

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Read some "OMAGAWD NO CV WTFFF" threads or "WTFFF IEV BEN BNAED BY SUPORTT!!11!" threads on SG's Steam group. Always good for a few laugh.
Also, check out Happy Hour channel on Youtube. It has hilarious stuff about gaming. :)

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Aww it's okay. We love you. You only need us D:

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Glad everythings okay now.But as you typed be careful.You want funny post here it goes then :What are those about."women of course"

wat

sterotype

what else is there

lel

thia one is kind of sad

last one is the best

Edit:sry forgot one

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HAHAHAHAHAH MAN!!! LOVED THEM :D U WIN THE INTERNET (THUMBS UP)

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Bookmarking this post.

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loved the diary xD

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