please cheer me up :( [MASSIVE UPDATE]

...not in the mood for a ban

i lol'd

There's plenty of fish in the sea bro...basically he said that but more scientifically :trollface:.... Eh im jokin,now HERE'S MY WORDS FOR YOU BRO :) Unicornplanet dude.
In The Vampire Diaries, Lexi tells Stephan Salvatore something like "You know ,contrary to popular beliefs,there are more than one " , She was talking about THE SOUL-MATE :) Hope this cheers you up too bro.
AND NOW SOMETHING TO CHEER US UP, WHY did you end up like Ser Jorah Mormont? :) since you say you were best friends but not more than that,however the way you JustinTimberlake-CryMeARiver makes us think you wanted more than that. So dude,did the lack of action beat the now-regrets you have?:)

no offence but that sounds shallow as fuck, if she got that upset over something like that then she was never really your friend, what is she 15? a real friend would have forgiven you by now :) just move on and try to find better friends.

People don't abruptly act on something that happened three months ago.

You're not seeing the whole story, or you're not telling the whole story.

I am sorry to say it, but it seems that it was a toxic relationship to start with. You were just friends, there is no reason for you to not talk to other girls. There are a lot of times when people mistake being nice with being submissive. I am pretty sure she enjoyed having 3 months of her ass licked as well. Believe me taking your distances is the best thing to do right now. Get into a game or something, games are never jealous nor demanding, and are okay if you play another game :D

Seems to me that she is in love with you, but you don't feel the same way, so she decided to cut you off completely instead of just hurting herself by chasing the wind.

I had a similar experience where I had to end a really nice friendship with a girl I was crazy in love with, but she was not interested in me in the same way. Maybe I'm an asshole for doing that but I had to do it for myself as I was starting to get depressed.

and i apologized so much

Okay. You apologized to your "best friend". For finding someone else. But why? :O

She didn't have to be jealous, she's not your girlfriend ;)

Reading everything up to now, I agree with the others; good riddance. She was definitely not a best friend. Not sure if you really were friends to start with. At least from her side it seemed less like friendship and more a case of wanting to "own" you. It is perfectly normal to talk to other people and apologize if someone feels hurt. If she was a friend, she would not break it off, but accept your apology.

She comes across more as somewhat selfish and a drama queen; she makes a big deal out of nothing (it can't be fixed..what the heck is she talking about? Nothing traumatic happened) and wants you to focus on her alone. She also decides to end your "friendship" one the 1st of january, instead of just waiting a week or something. It's like she picked out a sort of specific date for it.

To me it just seems she wants to create drama because that gets her attention. Maybe she enjoyed to be showerded in apologies and pleaded by you. It might make her feel important and in control. I would say, whatever she decides in the future, don't renew your friendship. Her possessiveness and need for drama and attention surely will bring problems again in the future.

If she's not in love with you and doesn't want you two to be more than friends, like you say, then she's a selfish c***t(no offense)and you have no reason to try to make up with her. Supposing there are no romantic feelings involved, the friendship between a man and a woman(both heterosexual) is pretty much the same as between two guys or two girls(with minor differences). Not only should she not get mad for you ignoring her over another girl, she should actually encourage you to, if you have a romantic interest for that girl. "Bros before hoes" is not a universal rule. A guy friend will always understand a situation like this(unless it's something really important, like a mater of life and death) and there's no reason a girl shouldn't. Even supposing it was something really important, a sane, decent person would have forgiven you by now. She's not such a person. You really want someone that selfish and inconsiderate in your life?

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were both 17

Sweet talks or lies won't benefit me in any way here... If I can't profit on doing something I simply won't bother to do it.

And I'm not joking when I said to meet her! You will be less than bug if you don't do it! And she should understand that all you want to do is to have proper ending, she shouldn't refuse. That's how real man should act. Even if woman kick you in emotional groin, you should face her acting as nothing ever bad happened, thank her for all that was good and go your own way. That's the right étiquette.

Phelan: ive got no hatred towards her.. my last words were thanking her for this great friendship, and telling her that if she needs anything she should come to me.
however it is her on the other hand who wants to distance herself because she cant live with how much she treated me less than i deserved for the past three months. so idk shes in some of my classes at school and school resumes in a couple of days, dno if its gna be awkward or we'll just pretend we dont exist to each other, or whether she'll apologize.

exactly sokie, which is why i posted this thread here on SG, so u could all help me move on from this part of my life

Says who? Says random guy with nickname "sokie", without showing real name, real age, real photo, real place where he lives. The thing is we all are hiding here behind a mask of being anonymous. Being anonymous means being NOBODY.

Community? What's that? Internet community? What do we have in common... only that we are using internet... and probably we all like games. That's probably not enough to be called proper community.

Internet environment is just poor substitute of real world, don't ever forget this! If you will you will end up like a sore loser locked in your own self build cage… meaning your own room with computer screen. We aren't supposed to live our lives here in internet! We are free! We are alive! Each of us have his/her own desires, dreams, aims, responsibilities…

As far as I'm concerned I don't care if I am treated as non existing entity… simply I don't care. I will just close my PC and meet with friends… simple as that.

I don't really get what she is confused about. To me it seems she creates the extra drama because she feeds of the attention. If she has friendship issues, she needs to deal with it and tell you what she expects from you. Or maybe she fancied you and that made her confused? Did you ever sit down with her and just talk about what is going on between you two?

In any case, I think it is better to lose unhealthy friendships. You could stick it out (if she would want to make up with you), but as long as she has trust issues and you both (or just you ^^) don't know what is going on, you might run into more of these types of problems.

I couldn't help but laugh at this post, for a good 5 minutes.

My sides, they burn! Thanks for this laugh, I needed it.

I honestly can't tell if this post is trying to be funny or not...

Da fuq?

Feminism fought for the right to call women dumb when they act stupid. For the love of god, don't let that sacrifice go in vain. #neverforget

More serious response. Here's where you make a mockery of the very cause you're... err... championing, but first a sidenote.

"you are exactly the same as those girls… DUMB"

So you agree with them that they're dumb?

Anyway...

"You all act like sissies: whining, crying, grumbling… that's pathetic." So... like a stereotypical woman? Everyone, get this, Phelan thinks women are pathetic. What must a woman do to escape her patheticness? "Act like a man." Because that's how patriarchy works. If you're not a man, you're a weak, mewling, pathetic woman and that's sick. Grow some balls, ladies. Not that men would ever tell you this because we can't ever, ever, ever be disrespectful to the crying pathetic half of society, because they're... like... some sort of sub-human thing or something, that doesn't deserve to be treated like a person with feelings who can possibly stand up for themselves even against the horror of being called "dumb." Don't cry, ladies, that's pathetic. Men, stop acting like sissies, that's woman talk!

Your white knighting is at best severely unhelpful and unwanted. At worst, it singlehandedly killed everything feminism has been working for for decades and catapulted us back into the 1920s from whence you came.

Whoa there seems like you're on wrong SG

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There we go, now all you need to do now is : http://i.imgur.com/2HeKnb5.jpg (as you can see i uploaded a neat .jpg guide in case you're a woman)

Oh man shut up, most of the girls i met around my age are freaking stupid, like brain damaged just as if they were dropped on their heads right when they were born. I would say the samething about guys, but i'm not into guys, sorry dawg.

-> Girls that show off their body and call guys perverts for calling out they are hot;

-> Girls that take photos of themselves showing off their attributes on the internets and putting moral lines like if they were angels when infact they are pure devils;

-> Girls that try and get a man crazy for them, and they basically laugh at you if you try and go for them with good intentions (aka bitches, they get sold out some way or another);

-> Girls saying they want to have relationships with men that are blond and have blue eyes only;

-> Girls that want relationships with popular guys that pretty much rides every girl in school (you know where this will go, guys that have mutliple choices) rather than accept honest guys;

-> Girls that want to have a relationship with a guy while being on a relationship;

-> Girls that insult the masculine side by saying We, the guys, are a bunch of kids since all we do is make up and have sex with multiple girls all the time, when infact there are still some of us who value others with feelings and aren't complete douches. Something i always tried to accomplish in a relationship, except i always had bad luck and picked the wrong girls to put my interest in. Ended up wasting my time.

I could keep on going with this list, but you are not worth my time. I do have my reasons for what i say, i a man, i have the balls to go up face to face with a girl and tell her my real intentions, thing is, society is messed up. People instead of getting smarted, they get dumber.

PS: I'm speaking about my generation, not older ones. I do well with older ladies when socializing, most people around my age are DUMB (cry some more). Even my parents and parents of close friends say "women/men aren't made like in the old days". POW RIGHT IN YOUR FACE. (CRY SOME MORE).

PPS: I used to be a nice guy, but y'know people who abuse of others like myself for their own things got me thinking in unmannered ways with life, i am mostly an asshole towards some people i do think they are dumb and idiotic because of what they have done to me. You can trust others in this world, everyone's an asshole towards the good people, so might aswell just be one myself and safekeep the very few nice people i see around me.

PPPS: I do call them whatever i want. The concept of real men also applies to women, girls will always be girls (dumb and immature), when one reaches the point of success in life where they actually start to use their brains, they "ascend" one step further and may be called "Adult", i see alot of "Young-Adults" who are immature and not worth being called "Man/Woman", it's something you earn.

PPPPS: Do you like whores? The way you defended yourself here pretty much points towards that.

PPPPPS: Keywords in this discussion: "Whores", "girls", "women", "generation".

PPPPPPS: (last one i promise) All of the things i write is most of the experience i had with people of my age or around my age. I seem to have much better experiences with older women, they value other people in different ways, it's something i like to see. New generations pretty much associates to the common fact of "use and get used".

Also look @ Op's case. Pure "concept of dumb" in a chick.

Just throwing a FYI.

Out of all the girls i met, i think only one is actually being mature now, the one who keeps trying to talk to me over and over again for the last two years, after she messed up our close friendship big time, she still tries and talk to me once in a while, she knows i ignore her most of the time even when i reply back. I do give some value to what she is doing, though i do feel uncomfortable of giving her another chance, something i learnt not to since she messed up twice. The things she did, made her depressed the first year, she started smoking and taking pills, started collapsing and having some issues with stress (like issues with breathing and pain on the chest).

She was on a relationship with a d*ckhead who used her for sex every friday night (one of her close friends told me this), she said she loved me and would like to be on a serious relationship with me, she never quit her relationship with the other guy and she says she loved me, even though we were close friends. What the hell?
She lost me and her best friend because of this, 1 month later after the incident she broke up with the guy and now she is single for ages.

This is an example in life, what she did wasn't smart (it was dumb), if she wanted to be with me, she would have to pick either me or the other guy, the things she said and the things she did pretty much shows that she regretted everything. This is the most serious drama case i had in a close relationship in my life.