I'm not the guy to give advice on things like this, because I find myself in a similar situation, but take this bump. Thanks for the gib, stay strong.
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One needs to work to be more independent. No attachments.
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They say 'it gets better', but while we're down on the ground, having our mind in the gutter, they are just meaningless words to us.
Here's a song for you. I'm sure I am of no help, I've felt akin, yes, but everyone deals with this in their own way. Letting you know you're not alone - as all the other SG folks have stated.
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Regarding depression, I don't have much to say, I've lived with it most of of my life, with varied intensity, when it hits you as bad as it seem to have caught you, you can only endure and hope that it will pass (a part of course from seeking and following any necessary treatment), any words you can read - and lots of people here have written beautiful things to you - will sound hollow. For what it's worth I can still send my encouragement though :)
Regarding people... whatever happened, it's a sad reality that we learn so many times in life that many people will fail and disappoint us just when we need them the most, and when it happens on top of a depression it's VERY hard to bear. I said 'many' but not all, it's surely tough to see it now but there's surely people who care (and maybe we don't even realize it), hold on Yunie!
no fancy gifs or cool songs 'cause I'm crap at finding them :))
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That's a call for kitten support!
If you are allergic to cats or just don't like them, I'm sorry. There are some dogs too!
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It's easy to say I'm here if you need; more difficult is be there for real.
You're right of course. It is always easier to say things than follow through with them. Because of this, I fear that most/all of the comments in this thread will ring hollow to you. I hope that is not the case. I hope that YOU will see the good in all these small gestures. Even if actions don't follow, it doesn't necessarily mean the words weren't sincere. Like Budgie said, some people are willing but don't know how. I suppose I am among them. I truly hope your depression wanes and you feel better soon. I'm sorry that I don't know how to help make it happen sooner.
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I'm really here if you need me!
It's just no one need me apparently :(
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I don't want to read into this, but if you are not feeling well, I hope you feel better.
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At first I thought it was a song, from Adele or something. Now I realize it's all you... well hang in there Yunie, remember you're not alone and everything passes.
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It's also easier to just leave everyone else before they get the chance to, so there's no need to explain anything to anyone since there's no one there and people online are usually more understanding anyways.
Sure, it's sad to have no one you can count on sometimes but you'll get used to it. In the end you're so much better off alone.
But yeah, I'd rather have zero friends than fake ones.
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I am not really good to talk about these things is even worse in a language not mastered well , but while I was reading, I felt I had to contribute my little push for that at least, when you sit down to read all these messages support and love, feel the comforting warmth of embrace a friend.
I do not know you beyond what I've read about you in my years in this community, but my impression that seems very widespread:) it is that you're a good person, who is currently having a hard time emotionally.
I have no doubt that you have many close shoulder to lean on, and perhaps just needed esteriorizarlo here to feel a little better, but you read these comments and be a little comforted. You are very dear in this community.
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