i still cant get over her, shes with another guy and ive been with other girls but i just cant forget about her, all her quirks, everything about her was just perfect, i miss her so much, ive tried everything to get over her but nothings working, its just getting worse and worse, im litterally losing my head over this, any advice?

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Seven eighths of a month? Give it some time.

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no, i didnt use 7/8 as a fraction i used it as an or, over here if you have a / betweem something it can either be a fraction or a "or"

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seven or eight eighths of a month?

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yeah, that's only around 26 or 27 days, you need to give it more time.

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Im just saying....but maybe a Steam Gifts Forum, really almost any where on the internet, isn't the place you should talk about this. I would have the Mods delete the forum and you should go talk to a close friend, in person.

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From my experience with web forums on tech sites, he's likely to get more decent responses in most other places. I'm sure there are forums dedicated to relationships and such, though.

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see another guy saying something similar down below

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everything about her was just perfect,

lol, are you 15?

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18, no-one is perfect in general, but for other peoples points of view you might be perfect to them, because your quirks and flaws could just make you even better in there eyes

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my friends are dicks, you cant have a real conversation with any of them

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And I don't think the Internet is a good place either, better to talk about this with your family if you can.

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She has moved on, you need to do the same. It might be hard to do, it might seem impossible, but you have to live your life and maybe even find someone new.

Living alone forever is also an option, but either way you have to get over her. As for how to actually do that, well you just need to think through it I guess. Realize to yourself that she is with someone else, relive your memories of what you were really like and why it ended in the first place. If there's really no chance of you being with her again then why think about it or feel bad about it anymore?

If there still is a chance and you really think that she is the one then attempting to get her back is also an option. But you need to know when to quit, and you need to have a real notion that she wants to be gotten. If you ask her to be with you again and she does not want to do that then you have to respect her decision and then move on.

It's hard to give good advice with so little details, but I tried.

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---> GIGANTIC BUMP - READ THIS <---

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NO, READ THIS ↓

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hi.

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How you doin?

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My advice? Jerk off and move on.

I hope it helped.

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+1. always helps.

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You mean to say that you are metaphorically losing your head. If you had literally lost your head, it would be detached from your body, and your ex would be the least of your problems.

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Bitches are bitches

If the problem is you, use this as an opportunity to better yourself. If the problem is her, well why do you want her back? I think deep down you have a problem with being alone, but being with someone who doesn't want you around is insane. Learn from your mistakes, don;t hold problems over your head and most of all, there are over 7 billion people in the world, 500 million people in North America, and 300 million of them are in the US. Trust me when I say this, you're bound to find someone WAY better than your ex.

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THIS

  • there are 7 billion people on the world. dont let ONE (1!) ruin your entire life. pls dont.
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x3 (follow the advice of this guy).

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Ask for advice on mmo-champion, they're pretty good at that (yes, it's a WoW forum, Ikr?).

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I read the thread title wrong.

7/8 = 0.875 months

If you did that calculation... dude, has Sheldon from Big Bang Theory taught us anything?

HOWEVER, I'm assuming you're talking about 7 or 8 months. In that case, If you still have feelings but have been with other gfs then there are 2 solutions. Unfortunately it would be jerky to tell a current gf about feelings for a previous one so don't do it. You can move on and stick with the other fish in the sea. The other option would be the movie solution, wait 10 years and bump into each other.

Then again, you're trying to get over her and move on. Move on and stop it.

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Looks like you're missing something like this?

You're not alone I guess.

(This won't help, maybe makes you a bit more sad.)

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he's 18

only 8 months

I don't know why so many of us are replying when this is all that needs to be said. But I'm going to do it anyway, because I'm in exactly the same situation. I'm miserable, can't get over her and not sure I want to...but asking ANYONE for advice is a waste of time. If there was a trick to it, we'd all know it by now.

Oh, and you said you've been with other girls since then, so actually, STFU, I don't feel bad for you at all. You're LUCKY.

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Hold your breath underwater for 30 minutes and she will come back to you.

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Think about other stuff than your relationship status.

You'll be good then.

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Yeah, that sucks. Part of the issue is that your identity has been majorly established by your relationship with her. Without her, you're not quite certain who you are, so you want to get back to that time when you knew yourself through your girlfriend. Fuck that. This is a great time for you to learn about yourself. Try things. Get out of the house and do stuff that you've always wanted to do. Skateboard. Learn how to tag with a spray can. Ride horses. Go paragliding. Do something that interests you and you only. You might consider seeing a therapist briefly. But really, the best thing to do is to discover yourself without relation to her.

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play skyrim

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Maybe this will make you happy.

She will be happier with the other guy.
But if you really love her... just do everything to get here again. Think about the wrong things and repair them or change them into good sides.

3rd edition of this post -.- Remember advice can be both helpful or dangerous. Keep that in mind.
4th edit.- Think what she did not like in you. just delete that bad sides. Think what she likes in you concentrate on the good sides. Make them even better. Maybe you shall try to surprise her? Show her that you LOVE her. She needs to know. Well just do threat her like a good friend or family member . I suggest.

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Women are overrated.

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