Bump, because I would like to know too.
She seemed to have trouble at home
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Just to make sure: if someone does in fact have information, please make sure to not share it without her explicit consent! Depending on the situation, it could very well be against her will. And please refrain from any speculations!
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Yes, you are right. I basically just want to know if she is alright. I kind of hope that part needs no consent or will be given.
But for the details i agree we definitely need her consent.
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I know and I understand the curiosity in a situation like this. But there can be situations in life where even a "she's alright" might be a problem and against her will. I am not saying this is one of those situations, I wouldn't know. I am just trying to make sure that that is being considered if necessary.
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Did not think about that. You might be 2 for 2.
In that case i hope we get a consent.
Cheers!
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I'd recommend locking this discussion at this point to avoid potential snowball effect.
Friends would still be able to see this and reach out as appropriate.
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Closed topics go to the bottom of the list so without explicitly searching for them, people won't see them anymore. But leaving a comment on her Steam profile like "Hope you're doing ok, would love to hear from you" or similar could be an idea.
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Others tried that, but she hasn't logged on steam for 3 months.
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It's still worth doing.
Since you can't really guess as to her circumstances, the best you can do is convey your concern in a place she will definitely see if she logs back in. Or her family logs in.
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Yeah, but I'd say it's more likely that someone closer to her sees it there and can contact her to see if she wants to react.
You should in any case probably make sure this gets closed quickly if anything weird comes up. And - depending on what it is - report the respective comments if necessary.
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Did not know about closed sorting.
Did send a private message on Steam very close to what you posted.
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I dont know her, hope she is ok... But i can see she have a custom avatar on SG, meaning patreon right?
I never been a patreon of SG(or anything for years, im too broke) so idk how the perks work- but i tought the rewards depended on continuing being a patreon... if thats the case that would prove at least she keeps her patreons up.
Regarding steam also be aware that people can use steam invisibly. I do that often because i find the chat and such distracting, and there was this one time when i looked my profile it was a few months 'last seen online'...
Anyway, just pointing that she could be around on steam
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To be honest, I am not scouting anyone at UFO, so I don't have information on how everyone is doing.
Maybe I'll disappear for a few months too.๐
It might be a good idea to try and see if these arguments stand up.๐
That's a joke, but there is a saying โno reply is good newsโ.
When one is at peace and safe, one does not dare to write a letter(comment), so the absence of communication or news is a sign that one is safe.
Things may be changing for the better, and if there are problems, they will discuss them with you, so take it easy and enjoy the end of the year.๐ต๐โบ๐ช
If it is not what I or you expect, I am sure someone in this community will respond with a good comment.โ๐ซ
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Oh, I noticed that I could legitimately suggest one.
It is still marked as a patron of Steamgifts.
The fact that payments are still being made is probably not a problem.๐ใNameโ
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Hello, thank you so much for caring about me. You have no idea how much that means to me. I have spent a long time dealing with depression and bad living situations with my ex boyfriend. I recently moved and the living situation is better now. I still am struggling with my mental health but I have been getting treatment. I am sorry I worried anyone. I was in a mental facility for a bit too and have just been trying my best to get through each day. ๐
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๐Always gotta try to do what's best for you and your mental health!
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You are not alone. In this community, you will always find someone who knows and understands. Never forget that, ok? Welcome back!
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I will try to remember, thank you so much for your kindness and support ๐
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Glad to hear your situation is improving somewhat.
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Just glad to have you back with us - but most of all, that you are doing better! I remember how many struggles I went through when I was younger, and I wish I had known so many things that I do now.
Having said that, it can still creep up on you with all that knowledge. Rational thinking is one thing, emotions are another. And emotions always trump the brain.
But as WaxWorm said, in this community you will always be welcome and understood. ๐๐๐
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I have been through a lot in my past but am trying my best to not let it take me over. I try my best to think rationally and not let my emotions control me. Thank you for sharing you have been through struggles as well and letting me know I am welcome and understood. You are very kind. I appreciate it. I am always here for you and anyone who ever needs someone to talk to. ๐
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Welcome back CupcakeDollykins.
Hope you are better now and if you feel bad anytime you're in your right.
I've met people who get into deeper depressions thinking that they should be ok having the live they have. I don't know if it makes any sense to you.
Anyway, many people here (I'm the first) are here to help if we can.
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So glad to hear things are changing for the better for you now in terms of living situation and mental health treatment. ๐
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Nothing to be sorry about, I think you just brightened some people's day ๐
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Wish you the best and speedy recovery to better mental health.
You are NOT alone with your struggles. Many know how you feel.
I hope this helps you even a bit. Take care
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Thank you so much. All the love and support from everyone does help so much. You all make me feel less alone ๐ You take care as well!
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I know from experience that one can feel alone in the world with bad thoughts and unhappiness. That hurts a lot.
Just you know, it's crazy how widespread it really is. People just wear masks and act like they are mentally healthy.
Never shut in. Be open, even to strangers online. That alone lets off some of the burden.
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I'm really glad you wrote back and that you are doing better!!
Not many person leaves the impression here that you did. Your pursuit to make people happy continents away from you made me respect you a lot. I'm hoping the best for you!
Take good care!
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Hey, I work in a ER as a social worker/case manager, I want to commend you for seeking help and getting treatment! It's an important first step, and often the hardest for some patients, but I'm genuinely happy for you! Keep at it!
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I'm so glad to hear that you are doing okay and that you got out of that situation. Geez, I can only imagine what you've gone through. I hope things continue to improve for you, and I'm wishing you all the strength you need to keep moving forward and upwards. <3
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welcome back, glad to see you here again ๐
I genuinely hope your situation will get better each day
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Glad you're okay. I often go my whitelisted users to see if they have been active and i haven't seen you around the forum, suoer cool that everythings going good now
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I'd seen your i'm back train but didn't know the story behind it. Glad to read you're dealing with your situation and so glad to see you back on the forum! As others write; there's a lot of love and compassion here and hopefully it'll help you too in your struggles. Take care and all the best!
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I am happy to see you back and that your life situation has improved.
Mental health is uber important, so you did the right thing to take care of it. Always remember, at this moment in time, 25% of all adults on this planet suffer from depression. That's every fourth adult. It is a sickness just like the flu and there is no shame in admitting that you're depressed and that you need help getting better.
On the contrary, if you seek help, that shows that you are strong because you have realized that you are suffering and want to change that.
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Oh My.....Sad to know what you went thru,Happy that things are improving for you,Hoping for you to conquer all your hardships,Best of Luck for the future.You are a wonderful person and I hope that you live a healthy n happy life Dollykins.๐
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It's refreshing to see the happy route. Glad they're oke.
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A while back we had this great soul on the site who only wanted to make people happy: CupcakeDollykins. She had her own battles but she was a kind person.
Does somebody know if she is ok?
She is not on steam for 3 months now.
Thx
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