Sexytimes with the wife, do something fun with the kids, have a nice dinner, maybe some credit card fraud.
Who says I won't?
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I'd make some popcorn and wait for the second round of the presidential debate. Just like I'll do later.
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Stuff my face with food and then take a nice leisurely nap.
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I noticed I can't overthink this cause it makes me feel mellow... I would take my kids in my arms and wait for my end. Nothing could be more meaningful than holding them one last time and have them with me
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Right, someone's gotta take care of the brain quick. I may be watching too many zombie shows.
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Yeah but I'm thinking of the question as if it was like doomsday scenario. The final day earth existed, wouldn't you do the same?
If I should get very sick now and I would be lying on my dead bed I also keep them out of the room.
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Spend it with my kids.
I try to spend time with my kids every day
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I would finally get the courage to tell my parents and family about my sexuality and die happy if they accepted me for who I am.
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Do you think they know?
Is it something that just needs to be said, or are they truly unaware?
(sorry if it's too personal)
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They're completely unaware, as far as I know, because I'm not a feminine guy. But I haven't had any girlfriends, so I don't know if they suspect, but probably not, because of the fact that I'm into computers. :P And my family is religious AKA homophobic. I'm like the perfect son, that everyone in the family looks up to, so I'm very scared to ever come forward. I like to tell myself that I'm bisexual, because that makes me feel less scared, but I don't know, to be honest.
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Please, watch this video.
In short, if you are have a job and live alone then yea, sure, why not tell them. Otherwise, if you really depend on your family and you know how they will react, potentially kick you out/abuse you etc etc, there is no point in telling them. It's not about the courage, its about knowing the consequences. :)
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I feel like pretending to be someone you're not is worse than any consequence. My parents are not extremely religious like my family (I may be using the wrong term... is it relatives?), so I have some hope that they will accept me. I think they will be disappointed, of course, but I think I can make them understand it better and realize that it is normal.
I was scared to tell my family that I'm an atheist for a while, but I'm slowly losing that fear, and I told my mom at least twice that I don't believe in God (she immediately shut me down, saying that was absurd and that I had to read the bible, but at least I was able to get it out). So I hope I can figure out a way to slowly do that for my sexuality as well.
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So maybe try to drop simple hints here and there - something that you can back off from if you feel it's not safe ground - to just see how they react. It was a long way but it worked for me and I guess my parents accepted the possibility of me bringing lover of any gender home (tho I guess they still don't really believe that because I didn't do it yet). Apostasy is still ahead of me >u<
No matter what I wish you luck. I know it's hard but I believe it's worth it. <3
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Well, you are not really pretending to be someone you are not, you are just waiting for the right time. Its really stupid to put it like that. I mean, what is the point of telling them if you know they will do something absurd? That's nonsense. Think logically. They MIGHT abuse you, kick you out of the house, send you somewhere where they will "fix" you etc...OR if they are normal human beings, they will accept you and do nothing about it. On the other hand, other people are going to say "Tell them, fuck the consequences..." , but in the end that is just my opinion. That's what I would do if I were on your place.
(This is if you KNOW what its going to be like if you tell them. If you don't just follow "Vilk's" advice and you will be okay.)
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But I am pretending, because I have to act differently when they're around. I can't be myself. But thanks for the advice!
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Oh ok.
Well, I never had a girlfriend and my mom slowly started adding "...or a boy" to sentences...
It never bothered me much, I know what and who I am.
I was pretty sure about your sexuality since the day I saw you on here, but I guess that's because you aren't hiding it here. (not showing it either, but it's noticeable...or I'm just quick to judge a book by it's...musical tastes, lol)
I don't really have any advice that hasn't already been said here or anywhere.
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Yeah, I mean, my number one idol is Madonna, for crying out loud. xD And I used to be a Justin Bieber fan (I once bought his DVD and my dad went like "seriously? Justin Bieber?", and my mom went like "well, he likes it"). If my parents didn't raise any suspicions from that, I don't know what will. :P
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I said it just about Bieber :)
Btw, people once suggested that I was gay 'cause I liked Coldplay and Muse. So I don't think that music has mono-semantic connection with sexuality.
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ah :(
I'm sure they'll accept you the way you are! Hope someday you find the courage to tell them! Good luck!
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I...would...sing.
Why?
Never ever in my life have I sang aloud in a sober, controlled state.
Sure, I've sang when I had a few too many drinks. I've sang in my car. I've quietly sang in the shower, and in the kitchen when the electric kettle or extraction fan was on. I sang when the vacuum cleaner was raging.
Never did I sing in a quiet, open space.
I would sing.
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Next time when you go to a shopping mall or whatever with lots of people. Go to the restroom, lock door, sit down and sing aloud! Wait 10 minutes to come out after you stopped singing. The people who heard you are already gone. I beliebe in you ;) Maybe somebody picks up your tune even
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When I was a kid, i did singing classes, but I was to shy to sing in front of a public. My teacher told me to do the exact same thing. So i did at the restroom of Waasland shopping center Sint-Niklaas. I was 8 years and rocking the hell out of that potty. Half year later we had a musical and I had a leading role. Went perfect, my singing dissapeared but I will never forget that moment :)
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I've never been able to perform in public....ahem.
When I was 11 they had me playing Josef in the school play...
Jesus sure didn't get his public speaking skills from me! :P (Or his real daddy, he hides in burning bushes)
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Maybe somebody picks up your tune even
I would totally do that! That's how friendship starts :D
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I would love to do that too. And dance in public like this woman. She gives me so much life. xD
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Shouldn't we be all more like her. How awesome would that be?
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It's strange, cos I'm very good at acting silly in public.
I can hop and skip and jump around and go lalalalaaaa...but I do all that embarrass others, not myself...lol.
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I cant believe noone answered delete pron/clear browser history!
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drill holes through hard drives and burn remains :) - then realise you did it to the wrong hard drive and just destroyed the family photos - and then CURSE MY HOARDING NATURE !!! - giggle
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Hug my dog. I can't do it now cause she is sleeping and she would be really mad if I woke her up :P
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Driving around in my STi, bumping loud Trance music whilst drugged out on Ecstasy.
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Probably go about my day as normal, and wonder why there's nobody else at work.
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Stop trying to find a place to work, and pet my dog all day while being with family watching tv
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Something very bad... Which is why I'm not doing it right now.
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eat a lot of pop corn kernels, then ask to be cremated after dying
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In all seriousness, probably nothing really out of the ordinary. Listen to some music, play some of my favourite games and wait to happen.
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Travel around the world and eat the best damn food. I'm not doing it right now because... money..
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I'll get back to you in a couple of months.
Probably tell one person I love her one more time. Oh and maybe do that thing I always wanted where I throw like 500 paper planes from top of the building just to see where will they all land
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submit an absentee ballot for Trump - MAKE DEATH GREAT AGAIN!
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Probably cry for half an hour, then have an existential crisis for an hour or two and then just sit on the PC distacting myself until I finally decide to get out and do something fun for once... then die as soon as I stepped outside because I spent too long doing nothing. Time's up, you died.
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I would probably try to have the best meal of my life and then get high or drunk, but probably high. Maybe I would watch a movie in the mean time, Lord of The Rings or something, damn that movie always gets me into a good mood.
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And why aren't you doing it right now?
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