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Even when strangers do shitty stuff that I hate, I can still contain myself and behave, but I get angry easily with close friends and family with small little things that maybe out of proportion after I got time to re-evaluate my manner. Hate being a dick to them

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sorry, idk why angry people put clothes on.. lmk when u figure it out.

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Because you are piece of green stone vaguely shaped like an arrow tip and human emotions are too complex for you.

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That's normal. As they say where I live, familiarity sucks.

Due to the social restraints we all have, we tend to be more truthful (both for the good and the bad) with the people that are closest to us... we also tend to take them for granted and forget to really appreciate them.

Just try to control your anger and don't be afraid to say sorry when you snap and let them know you care for them :)

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It is normal and you have more expectations with people you really know.
Just be able to make amend when you fill it necessary.
Try to talk more and more and to have a discussion not immediatly.

I know this problem too :/

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Buy a punching bag and put out your anger on it

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Maybe because you're used to them doing what you want if you rage enough at them.
An unknown person may call you out for your behaviour and tell you that you're being unreasonable or just plain rude.
If that's the case that means you're a dick ;)

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I don't think I've ever been angry at anyone, much less people close to me. I think I've been angry maybe a handful of times in my life. Maybe you should try drinking more tea? I find tea has a real calming effect, especially the whole process of carefully making it and drinking it slowly, like a ritual. Maybe that will work. And get chamomile for some extra kick.
Also, meditation is extremely important, without a doubt that will immediately bring calm and silence to your mind and emotions. I am horrified whenever people tell me that they don't meditate or they haven't tried it. For me, meditation is more important than eating food. I feel like it should be a compulsory part of every school/job, it's such a healthy and revitalising process for the mind, it's like a system defrag, you come out of it feeling like a completely new person. It's hard at first, but if you do it regularly it will become easy and normal and you'll start to wonder how you lived without it.

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I have the same situation. I think things go that way because only close people, people who i love, make sense to me. Our relationships are very important to me and everything about them i take seriously. I don't give a single f*1#$ about other people around. They can't make me angry - they are just decorations in my life, except my loved ones.

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Because you feel like you can, like it's free of consequences. You let your anger take the easiest, safest outlet, like water does. Of course it's wrong and you should avoid that.

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