Hi guys & girls!

I've been thinking the past few days about this, and I wanted to hear you guys' opinions on this topic. As the title of the thread says; do you keep pictures of your previous partners / flirts, or do you delete them instantly to not get reminded or whatever? Do you keep them for a while but delete them when going into a new relationship or how do you do things? What is wrong and what is right in your opinion?
And no, I'm not just asking for 'lewd' pictures, but pictures in general. Hell, it doesn't even need to be pictures only but e.g. chats, mementos and such.

Feel free to vote in the poll and discuss freely! I'm eager to hear what you all have to say on this matter.

7 years ago

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Do you keep pictures of your exes / previous flirts?

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Yes, I got to keep alllll the memories!
Yes, but not the nude pictures though! Only the more innocent & silly pictures!
Yes, I keep the nude ones in case I would ever have the need to 'blackmail' them.
I do, but I'm considering deleting them all...
No!! As soon as the flirt is over or the relationship ends it's delete, delete, delete!!!
Njah... I keep them for a while, but afterwards when I'm over them I delete it all!
I've only ever had 1 partner and no flirts, so no need to delete memories!
I don't have a girl/boyfriend and never had one.

gotta catch em all

7 years ago
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No one ever deletes everything completely, especially women.

They always keep all the pictures either on phone, laptop, icloud or some online storage software.

7 years ago
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Where's the giveaway? ఠ_ఠ

7 years ago
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:(

7 years ago
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I burn them during the night together with voodoo doll made from my ex's hair while of course praising satan.

7 years ago
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I save pictures of you.

7 years ago
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When I get out of a relationship with someone I get rid of everything , EVERYTHING , delete the pictures, delete our shared save games, delete him on Sims XD, delete and block him from my phone , unfriend him and his friends , all that crap :P , with my ex I kept a few gifts he gave me but now that I have a new boyfriend I am getting rid of the stuff, even cut up the poster my ex gave me while my bf was here last time to show him that my ex don't matter :P

7 years ago
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delete him on Sims

Drown them in the swimming pool!

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7 years ago
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Lol XD I remember doing that , but from sims 2 or 3 onward they could just climb out >_>

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I got to keep all the memories! :)

7 years ago
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I've got some photos and stuff left from previous girls, but it doesn't matter to me in a way that I would feel the need to get rid of them or hold that sort of strong sentiment for them (But just to be clear: I wouldn't decorate my bedroom with them either ;D, not only out of respect for my current girlfriend, but simply because they don't have that kinda particular meaning to me anymore).
They're nothing but a remembrance of what made me the person I am today and which people accompanied me throughout my life and the events that shaped me... in good times and in bad times. Of course, everybody has their own opinion on such things and different outcomes and how to deal with them, but I'd consider myself lucky as I couldn't hold a grudge against any of them since they first gave me no reason and second I'd imagine doing so would just poison me anyway.
I'm glad I met all of them, but in the end life chose our paths to be different, simple as that, and therefore why don't keep them as the memories they are?

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I know i have pictures of my EX in phone, its over year, never looked on them agin. I simply cant do this, it was "good" breakup like we know we cant be together coz some things... now i have new grill, shes redhead, cant complain.

Maybe i look in some year for small tears :)

7 years ago*
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What things? You found her Czech streets video?
I.... had.... to....
Sorry.

7 years ago
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:D no, well i rather check all videos ;_;
shes village grill, house, horses and these things, am guy from city... I dont want be Walker sket ranger and she dont want be city grill. I want 400 horses in car, not on meadow. Thats all basically.

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ALL OF THEM? One man doesn't have that much time.
You wanna introduce me to her? :D
I am already kinda village guy and I reckon Czech villages are far more developed than Bosnian ones are.
Am I filthy gold digger or what :D

7 years ago
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duuudee xD

7 years ago
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I have some hidden on some old external HDs.
It would be wiser to delete them as exs are exs for a reason and bringing back old memories does no good at all.

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I delete everything.

I find that it makes it harder to move on, if I have old pictures hanging around.

As for nude pictures, I usually only received those when I was apart from them for several weeks (i.e. during winter/summer break, when I was in college). So, I usually deleted those as soon as I was with them again.

Those of you keeping nude pictures of your ex for blackmail, is just fucked.

7 years ago
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About the question of right and wrong: I don't think there's a general answer to that. It depends what you make of them. If photos are a way for you to go on ruminating about that person - be it how much you want them back or be it how horrible they were to you - then they do you harm, hinder you to move on, and you should destroy them. If you use them for remembering the good things that might have made you a better person, then I don't see any harm in keeping them.

Having said that which corresponds to what I know as a psychologist - I am horrible at this stuff. Since last night I am pondering about deleting an old friend from my facebook friendlist who not even has been my boyfriend but only almost has become my boyfriend a year and a half ago, or writing him an angry message or just moving on. I was there for him when he was left in a horrible way by his long-term girlfriend who took their son with her ... And it wasn't little I did for him then in the middle of my exams ... including calling in emergency for him once and spending half nights talking him out of killing either himself or his ex. It wasn't even that bad that we didn't come together in the end, I thought we could remain friends. Last night I met him in the theater. He was with his new girlfriend and didn't have the grace to respond to my greeting ... You see, I'm the ruminating type, and I do not even need photos for that!

7 years ago
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If keeping them is affecting you negatively, be rid of them. Otherwise I don't really think it matters.

7 years ago
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keep them..when your 90 you can look back at them and remember when you had a life.

7 years ago
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"lewd" :D
I keep all but can usually look at them only months later

7 years ago
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Yeah, I got my last ex' pictures. Nudes, too. No real reason. I just have them.

7 years ago
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I usually delete pictures, I don't care much about it, but I keep stuff like some kind of gifts. Especially if they're some kind of a DIY gift, like a custom t-shirt, a mixtape or cd. They are far from where my eyes can see, probably rotting in the basement or in a junk drawer, but I don't have the balls to get rid of it.

Dunno why but pictures can make me feel bad depending on how the relationship was overall, while something physical always brings me a better vibe.

7 years ago
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I take it you're single? ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

7 years ago
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Stupid question if your ADIDAS broke u keep ?? NOOO ,Insta TRASH

7 years ago
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Why do you need to take pictures when you're having sex though. It's like, filming with your phone during a concert ._.

7 years ago
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No. But they keep... And never forget my swag... Even calls me sometimes... You know i got the POWER!

7 years ago
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I don't keep them but maybe Satan does.

7 years ago
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I was lucky/unlucky (depends on the way you look at it) to only ever have 1 girl. In a few months she will be my wife.

And to be frank, I am not sure what I would do about the pictures, if I had more relationships :-S

7 years ago
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Delete, done.

7 years ago
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It depends on how the relation ended I suppose. My exes left me with mostly good memories overall so I feel no need to remove any of their pictures or mementos. There's only one friendship in my life that ended sourly and I have no need for any pictures or mementos of her, so I did delete/throw away those.

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Pretty much this. Wholeheartedly agree.
There aren't many exes o begin with in my case, but of most of them I still have some pics around, for the memories and all, they've been a part of my life after all. And then there's the one that didn't end so well, and I don't wanna be reminded of that time, so all memorabilia had to go.

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