When it's appropriate to start getting hyped/ready for Christmas?
Shops started selling christmas decorations crap in September ๐๐
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Our Thanksgiving is I think Nov 23rd this year, and the short time between Thanksgiving and Christmas rarely feels long enough to truly appreciate the Reason for the season.
So, I'd agree that early-to-mid November is about right --at the earliest-- to start thinking about Christmas
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Frankly I can't wrap my mind around how it can be stressful. If you take out religion and shopping part out of Christmas then it is just another chance to sit down and enjoy time together with people you care about. Plus December is usually quite a silent month. Companies go on break, there are holidays (well at least EU), everyone somewhat calms down. Shopping is BS anyway - you can easily order anything even if you want to buy everyone gifts. No need to rush to stores and get trampled.
We personally gather all the extended family for a big Christmas meal, watching photos, listening to music. Plus we limit ourselves to secret santa - we limit spending to some 30 EUR per person. Just for the sake of having a good laugh.
Obviously I understand culturally there are differences, but Christmas in on itself shouldn't symbolize anything but getting together with family. And how can you not like the Christmas lights everywhere?
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This is my general thought too. but for people who don't have anyone, or who have lost family members, seeing so much marketing everywhere about getting together with loved ones can really bring home how much they don't have. And the fact that it's just everywhere makes them feel like they're the big exception, when everyone is enjoying themselves and they're stuck alone.
Plus some families jus don't get on. My parents had an unhappy separation, so I and my sister split each year which parent we're going to visit. It's a happy occasion, but it is also sad; until one of my parents dies I'm never going to spend Christmas with my sister. And although we don't mention it at the dinner table everyone remembers how it was when we were all together as a family and how much better the mood was.
More deep than it should be, but that's my general thoughts on Christmas!
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I had something similar. My family was never big on celebrating anything or getting together. Not even birthdays or anything. My parents were split up as well and there were bunch of other issues with relationships within family. So I know what you mean. And understandably one from such a background might naturally dislike the period. I for one evaded Christmas and New Years as well for years.
But then I realized that I can make my own Christmas and New Years with anyone. Some of my friends didn't really celebrate Christmas either. We started getting together ourselves and having a dinner and some drinks. One year it was just me and 4 friends having dinner, walk around the city and falling asleep by midnight. Other years even 20 people and renting a place to celebrate.
I wont deny I am lucky in a sense I have good friends, great GF and extended family which just loves traditions. But in the end it is what you make out of it yourself. As I mentioned in a comment down below - November is actually very patriotic month for my country with independence and remembrance days. Usually everyone sits at home does nothing - GFs family on the other hand puts flyers in every neighbors mailbox asking to put out candles along the road and come out in the afternoon to have dinner outside on the street. That grew from 4-5 people to 15-20 people getting together just by initiating and not being bitter.
And I comfortably will stand by my opinion as I have been on both sides. No need to make something stressful or unpleasant when there is no need to. You just ruin your own mood.
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If by that you mean officially or historically I would guess the start of Advent would be the "official" start date - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Advent
Its 4th Sunday before Christmas. While it is directly again connected with Christianity I would like to point out that this, the same way as Advent Calendar, is adapted to represent waiting for Christmas as a holiday instead of something related to Jesus.
We for example create advent wreaths - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Advent_wreath - And light one candle every Sunday. But again - I am not even close to being religious or Christian, so this also simply serves as cool tradition and decoration. We decorate it with animals, stuff from woods and have Christmas themed candles (in form of Santa, raindeer or whatever). Last year we even made it on an actual piece of wood instead of creating an actual wreath as you would be expected to.
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I wasn't able to find any article in English but basically here in Argentina it's tradition to put up the Christmas tree and all the other decorations on December 8th and to take them down on January 6th, I assumed it was a widespread thing but apparently it's just local customs to do it on those specific dates.
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I used to work retail and we got Christmas trees in July.
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Things must be different on your end ๐, I noticed shops here putting their Xmas merchandise up in the last week of August. Only ever see the Xmas tragics buying anything before mid October. Myself I'd say in an ideal world the first or second week of November is reasonable, but we all know we don't live in that world.
To be honest I only started actively looking at the Xmas crap this last week or so, will probably take more of an interest in a few weeks. Xmas isn't the same for me anymore but I don't begrudge others from getting their fill, I just wish it wasn't so in your face as 3+ months ahead. Besides we wouldn't want it to take up too much space, I mean the supermarkets here have to get their hot cross buns ready to go a few days after Boxing Day ๐.
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When I used to work in the Food and Drinks Warehouse section (B2B in Germany) X-mas stuff to store/stock would already start appearing in Mid July.
Granted, orders for those items would probably only start around August/September but eventually it got to be that when X-mas or oher public holidays finally came around you felt like you'd already had them ๐คจ
Also, those were probably the most stressful times at work, especially if some weekdays were missing. Inevitably that would just mean more work for the remaining days, either before the holiday or a huge backlog afterwards.
So, getting ready for christmas (or finally coming to terms with it finally happening) was mostly late december.
That's if you already got all the presents ordered or bought early ... ๐
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Xmas isn't meaningful to me. If anything, it's just a glorified shopping season. I'll find a few things my family and I would like, at a discounted price, and life will go on.
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Christmas is very little to me sadly these days i see less and less family - the only part i am looking forward to is my Community Christmas giveaway train again this year
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I personally believe the natural start for real Christmas time should be 1st of December.
November is very patriotic month in Latvia where I come from. On 11th of November we have remembrance day for soldiers who fell fighting for independence. And on 18th of November we have the independence day itself.
The whole month goes by with candles, wearing Latvian flags and being patriotic. So for us October is dedicated for Halloween, November for patriotic themed products and in the end of November, beginning of December Christmas spirits start. I did notice that stores started putting out decorations and Christmas stuff already before Halloween, but it seems a bit too early since there isn't even snow yet.
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December 1st and not a minute sooner. I already saw several ads for Christmas stuff before Halloween had even passed...
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Christmas is for children. They're the ones who can really enjoy Xmas. The rest of us? Non-avoidable commitments, buying gifts for family, attending family mettings/meals/dinner (well, some like this part), bearing with carols and decoration (well, many like this part), and if you have children? Double that.
It might seem a sour and bitter view, but it's like Valentine's. It all has changed into a huge commercial thing while few struggle to get into the real spirit. For decades I've only celebrated the end of the year, not because I find it significant, but because here it's an excuse for an excessive dinner followed by party until dawn and then some more.
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I think I'll just blur Halloween and Christmas together this year. By getting gifts sooner I can get a lot of actual stress off my shoulders. Not a fan of Christmas music, but I kinda like the decorations (Halloween still my jam), and I absolutely adore the Christmas-y smell of gingerbread, cinnamon, pine tree and such. I'm not looking forward to the campaign of visiting family at multiple locations, because of the time constraints. Even if distances are nowhere what US folks often do (everything is within a 100-150km radius), it's lots of packing, coming and going, change of settings... it's overwhelming for me, and turns into a blur. But I'm thankful, that this is the biggest issue of mine about it, it's still a lucky situation.
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I will speak up as someone for whom Christmas is a religious event. I decry, like many here, how for the vast majority (especially the vendors) it has devolved into nothing more than a shallow economic event. I and my family try to "keep Christ in Christmas". We start the season with the beginning of Advent... (the very end of November normally). And our tree and decorations stay up until the beginning of February - the "old" end of the Christmas season. So folks look at us as "late" for not putting decorations up until December and then weird for leaving them up for over a month after it has "ended". ๐
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Growing up, my dad's rule was "no Christmas talk until after Remembrance Day". After that, he'd ask us kids for Christmas lists and start getting the outside lights ready to put up. My mom typically puts up her outside decorations (wreath, lights for the railing on the front steps, ribbons on the mailbox) the first week of December. Their tree and interior decorations go up around a week before Christmas, and come down on New Year's Day. Outside stuff gets taken down a couple of weeks later. This all seems pretty reasonable to me
I've never had my own tree, or decorations, or anything like that. I'm not really a Christmas person. As the extended family has grown up and spread out, there have been fewer social obligations and expectations around the holidays, and that suits me just fine. I'd be happy to have Christmas contained to the month of December, but I'm not going to die on that hill. I'm not even going to lightly bleed on it.
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I always prepare about the beginning of Christmas. But in my home city there is a huge display of christmas lights, and they usually start preparing around August. Which is crazy.
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I don't think you should celebrate Christmas until December. However, I still don't think he was justified in driving through that parade.
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Seeing as October is ended, there's a new holiday worth getting hyped for.
Shops getting their merchandise changed from Halloween to Christmas.
So in your opinion, when it's actually "appropriate" (and I'm using this word loosely) to start getting ready for Christmas?
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