I am staying at a student apartment while i study in a university. It is a apartment for 4 students with shared toilette, bathroom and kitchen. I have a toxic flat mate enemywho came from a foreign country to study here. At the first week he came to the place where i stay he caused trouble. He refused to follow the house rules and he refused to take part in the cleaning schedule.
We reported him so many times. Nothing really helped. He would follow the rules for couple of days after getting warnings and begin again his unhuman behaviour.

Couple of thing he did:

Brings 3-5 friends at midnight in his room and plays PS4/ watching movies or football games which results in screaming etc
dont cleaning after cooking and leaving a mess on the stove/oven kitchen place.
shitting and not cleaning. etc you get the idea.
taking drugs and being intoxicated and threatening us.
Also he is so rude and disrespectful to us. he wouldnt show up to meetings or blatantly lie to us and the personal from the apartments.
He threatened us and showed clear aggressions and shouted to us.
I warned him that he has to follow the rules or he will get kicked out and he laughed at me.
And now sweet karma takes into place and he will get kicked out. As a revenge he makes more noise and is a total asshole. We called the police and the personal came and talked with him.

I am just happy that he will go. But i dont understand how someone can be such a person. How did the parents of him raise him? i cant fully understand it and will never do. How someone being this rude and uncorporative can think that he will get away with it and face no consequences?

Ok, i just wanted to vent a bit and get it out of my mind. i made my exams and now staying at my parents house and dont want to see his ugly face ever again xD. So, here is a open giveaway https://www.steamgifts.com/giveaway/2TCBd/ because i forgot to make it invite only. And people who know me here. In the next weeks i will make a huge giveaway so be prepared ;)

If you have or had anything similar happen to you please share it how you handled the situation and what happened at the end? a happy ending?

6 years ago

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Good luck on your studies. Wish you better flatmates in the future. :)

6 years ago
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thank you! :D

6 years ago
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Honestly if I ever have a problem with someone and they're doing illegal or rude things I make a note and if possible video proof it till I have a large assortment of violations then take it to the proper authorities if they fail then I go above their head.

But I've literally never had to do that, because Canada is amazing

6 years ago
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My story on the bottom of page 1 happened in Canada... :O

6 years ago
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Damn that sucks. I would have videoed the entire thing each time.

That way when the cops come and see the timestamp they have proof of violation etc. Usually after the cops show up a second time they start detaining people. It works even better when neighbors also complain because then the cops are forced to do their jobs.

But I live in a rural part of Canada about an hour drive away from any big city. Rural and small town canada is best canada.

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I had two somewhat similar experiences in the past. The first the guy was an absolute pig. And in the house in question, we had house inspections to see if everything was good and clear, and in return we wouldn't need to pay the utilities. So we always had to clean his crap. He would also steal other people's cereals(I dont have a lot and I still love to share, but for your own sake, don't touch my cereals).One day we sat down with with him to seetle this mess out. We agreed in that we would clean his crap under the condition he would cook for us(he cooks fairly good). We had a deal, problem solved. And he also stopped being such a pig, which was nice.

The second one was not as bad making a mess, but he was trying to turn people into eachother to mantain his status in the organization we were involved. He did it in a very subtle way though, which still amazes me. He sucessed into turning one of the guys over(this guy was downgraded and transferred to some other place(it's really hard to explain how it all works there in just a few lines)).
He forgot about me though, he thought I was his buddy. And I was in a sense, I tried to help him get some sense(which didn't work). What did I do? Wrote some stuff about him and stuff he did and said, mentioning different witnesses that have no direct connections with me(so it wouldn't be interpreted as just an evil plan just because I didn't like him(also this was a very well kept secret at that time)) and giving it to the big boss man in charge.
He ultimately got downgraded from his status and I received a smile in my face. I may have not took the best course of action, but none of us did.

6 years ago
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i wouldnt eat his food if he was such a piggy :D
i would doubt people like him wash their hands before cooking. But good that you also got rid of him.

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