Thanks!

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Thanks!!

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thank u

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Hey Shannon!
Seen you comment here - I'd answer there, but only recently removed OP from my BL so can't comment. Thanks to ESGST I can see the page without hassle...

So, first of all, you're being manipulated. I'm the other person blacklisting wigglenose that they really like to point out, and fools like antidaz come to their rescue. And then doesn't even understand the situation, refuse to understand it, and just wants to be angry.

This was my run-in with the two of them. Same order, but please notice something: I never complained about the quality of one's giveaways. I don't want a game from wigglenose because I don't trust or like them, and I don't want to be linked to them. Xxxka didn't say ANYTHING about their reason of blacklisting to begin with!

antidaz is spreading lies about both of us, while ignoring my explanation to the point that he wrote a hate-comment to my profile (screenshot in last comment) about something that is not his business, doesn't understand, doesn't WANT to understand. He just wants to hate me more because i blacklisted him and dared to talk to him about similar behaviour. He's on a hate-campaign right now, and just wants to be mad, and tries to drag others with him. Spiced up with some whiteknighting.

Thanks if you actually read this, that would be a refreshing change after this weekend's little adventure with the dude.

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Btw the xxxka dude is a dudette :P

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Ah haha! I thought it was a guy. Since I am blacklisted by her, I thought this was the reasoning and was like "get out of here."

Honestly though. I don't really care. The only reason that I noticed I was blacklisted by the xxxka person was the community train. I don't dwell on these things, or get upset by them.

Waaaaay too much going on in my life at the moment. My dad is going into a nursing home soon. He went into hospital with an infection 4 months ago. We were taking care of him at home. He fell in the hospital and broke his hip and had to have emergency surgery. He's been in hospital ever since. He's not very old, but he has fronto-temporal dementia. We can no longer care for him now because of the fall because he isn't steady on his feet, wants to walk all the time, and daycare will no longer take him due to liability of that, so we wouldn't get breaks any more. Love him to bits, but have to do what is best for him and for us.

And the medication for cancer that I have to take for 5 years makes me so stressed too. It is what it is. Being a bit depressed is better than the alternative. Haha! I definitely try to avoid getting into the middle of full on drama because I'll only feel worse. =)

So... none of this minor drama stuff affects me, to be honest. <3 There are much bigger things in life.

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Sorry about your father, had to live together with an old family member for a while... I don't know about dementia categories, but I'm very familiar with the unstable, but always wants to walk around part, and that was coupled with general grumpiness and paranoia. It's exhausting, and mentally really taxing, not to mention in your case your own health.

Sorry if this was an unneeded extra issue for you, I'm just getting tired of some people coming after me for their (and other's) past issues, then continue spreading lies. I gave up "actively" care about people here, at least the negative ones, it's not worth my time. But..
I don't know if it's the ADHD or something else, but it's extremely hard to forget, and let these stuff slide, especially when they try to influence other people and paint a false picture of me.

So yeah, anyways.... your point is very understandable, and I guess a lot healthier approach to the site, than what I have to deal with because of my brain :D

I wish you, and your father the best ^^

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Fronto temporal dementia is different in that my dad didn't lose his memory. (Bruce Willis has the same thing actually) He finds it difficult to communicate. Aphasia is part of that, losing the ability to find the words needed to communicate what he wants. He's also lost his empathy, and his sense of danger, so is unable to understand what other people experience. Like my mum got diagnosed with breast cancer 2 years before mine. He said "what the hell is wrong with you?" This was coming from an ordinarily extremely kind man. He couldn't understand why she was upset. But we didn't have a diagnosis for him then. We just thought he was being an ass for whatever reason. Then when I got cancer 2 years ago, he didn't get it at all. Which, in a way, was fine. Maybe it's better that he didn't understand and he could be happy in his own world. He knows us all, and he understands what's going on around him, just not other people's feelings, or to understand that he needs to be careful to not fall again. That said, all the staff at the hospital love him. He is a sweetie to everyone.

I didn't even see the drama toward you, and being honest, I wouldn't have believed any of it. You've never been one to stir up trouble and I've always liked you. Hah! Wigglenose is known to be a drama llama. Sure, imagine pretending to be your mother. It's hilarious. I might have poked a little fun at that in the past. Last year, I had the opportunity for a killer sarcastic comment and I used it and ran lol. One of the mods then messaged me off site to have a giggle about it, because it was funny now that I think about it. He's a big child.

Sometimes I imagine that type of people who try to pull me into drama as 40 year old shut ins who sit in their mom's basement all day playing video games and trolling SG and Reddit. When I think of them like that, it helps. LMAO!

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