Oh wow, thank you so much for this great and cute game, cheshirecatgirl. ❤

But somehow it feels bad to win something from you considering your backstory.
You know, it's not easy to find the right words for your living situation, but the first impression I had was that your relationship is literally killing you, even though you are not the person who fell ill in the first place.
It's so honorable that you stick together with him despite him being an asshole to you.
Serious illnesses often affect the behavior to our beloved people pretty negatively. Therefore it's no surprise that he drags you down, too.
Tho, falling ill is no excuse for being a torture to your family. If only he could see and feel how badly it affects your life. :(

I really think he should seek psychological assistance in order to improve your marriage and your living situation, but don't get me wrong, I don't know your whole story, and it's not up to me to make assumptions or judgements.

All I can do is wishing you lots of strength, healing, hope, love and peace.
I really hope that your life situation will ultimately improve. ;)