How many relationships have you been in?
It stings, but best we can do is move on. Fun fact one of my teacher's taught me a while ago is that the average person goes through around 8 relationships before finding "the one." Helps me remember that there's always someone, somewhere who is someday waiting for me. And that goes for each and every person.
Hope you feel better soon <3
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8 seems way too high. Perhaps they've mistaken it with number of spiders a human eats while asleep?
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I hope that, time will heal your wound.
In the meantime, here's a classic for a broken heart. It's fine to be sober now, we're all human anyway.
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In the instant the link was loading I swear I thought of this song and considered one upping a sappy broken-heart song with the ultimate one and here you went straight for it. Wish there were awards or karma gifts on the boards here. I'll just whitelist and salute you instead.
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Well, it sucks to find yourself suddenly out of a relationship without having done anything wrong, or at least being told what was the mistake. I know it's just a typical phrase to say in these situations, but there are indeed plenty more fish in the sea, and failing once doesn't mean you'll keep failing forever. Ideally, this experience will make you have a better relationship in the future, and while it may hurt now, you'll be able to remember fondly your first love in the future.
For now though, grab an ice cream, I heard those do wonders at healing when breaking up.
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Neil Diamond has something for you to cope:
https://youtu.be/iWFXdx06h3A
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I've been in 5 thus far. Although the girls I've been with were mostly.. terrible. One was good but she changed so much at one point so I had to quit after 2 years of being with her.
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It sucks that she seems to have just ghosted you, but if anything, that's a clear sign that you can do better. Be with someone who would take the time to at least talk to you if they felt like there were problems with the relationship.
I've been in quite a few relationships, the majority of which the other person ended things. The one relationship I actually ended was a big one though; we were married. I hadn't been happy for a long time though, and I could no longer see any future with her. I was decent about it though, or as decent as you can be when ending a marriage. I sat down with her and explained everything, we both cried, and we both moved on. She's now engaged and pregnant and I'm very happy with my current, hopefully "forever", girlfriend.
There's no saying what the future holds though, but whatever it brings, we just have to live and learn. Move on and enjoy life. Relationships aren't the be-all-and-end-all as we're often led to believe. There's much more to life! Should you meet someone else while enjoying the other things in life, that's a nice bonus! Maybe the next one will be "the one" :)
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I am sad for you that your relationship wasn't successful :/
" you can change (girl)friend(s), but you can't change family" : the bright side ( if there any ) is that you got a nice sister =)
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On the plus side, now you'll have more time for gaming, and more money for giveaways! 🤣
Seriously though, this experience sucks, but you'll grow from it.
It's ok to feel bad/sad/etc. Reflect on things. Eventually... Time is op!
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Silver lining being, better now than when it's too late. Time will heal that crack in your heart and at least you won't get stuck in something that might have turned miserable (ghosting, eh? how mature). Anyway, I ain't the one to give advices in relationships as I haven't had much luck in that myself but you have my best wishes. Cliché or not, everything will be alright. ♥(ˆ⌣ˆԅ)
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Interestingly enough, my ex and I also broke up a few weeks ago. I'm still not doing great. I'd been in 5 proper relationships before her and I finally really thought she was the one, but alas. She was the longest relationship I ever had, but still didn't work out in the end. This time I'm in no hurry to get back out there, though. Gonna spend some time on myself. Best of luck for you :)
(and thank you for the chance at a wishlisted game!)
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Someone already listed the g.o.a.t. broken-hearted song, but as for the penultimate, it's gotta be this one. Some people prefer the Al Green or Teddy Pendergrass covers but for me, the original is the best.
(Funny how just about all bands lip-synced everything for TV back then. Did people just not notice that all of those songs sounded identical to the studio versions or did they just not care?)
Edit: I know that young love is strong and overpowering but one day you'll meet someone that knocks your socks off. Keep your chin up kiddo and it'll get better don't you even doubt it. :)
And when you meet that person that makes you grateful for all the heartaches that led you to them you can listen to this song instead....
Edit 2: I know I went a little heavy on the cheese but listen to the words, especially in that second song, and visualize and know how one day you're gonna feel that exact way. I'm not discounting how you feel right now, like the Bowie song says I know you're aware of what you're going through. I just kinda think we are all in the process of becoming (who we are) more than we are in a state of being.
If that makes any sense. I was unbelievably naive as a kid and totally ill-prepared for the real part of life that you're dealing with today
You seem to have a big heart and don't let anyone change that, and if you wanna wear it on your sleeve go ahead don't let anyone tell you that you shouldn't. Or if you wanna bury yourself in something creative and block all that emotional crap out do that instead.
Just keep being that good person with a giant heart and remember that it's all gonna pay off in the end.
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Kind of unfortunate but clearly it wasn't worth while if you'd just get ghosted by the end of it. Something something, sometimes you only really know what a person is really like once it ends and it's been fairly easy for me to get over people who in the end, shatter the façade and allow me to see their true nature. Hopefully you'll get all the healing in that you need to allow you to find closure and continue on with your life.
Best of luck to you truly.
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I never fully got over my first "love". The person I went out with after them was just a shadow of my first.
I guess we're only really designed to love one person.
I'm not even looking or hoping, as I can't have kids anymore, and a relationship is meaningless unless you're content with being alone first.
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Giveaway for those who are just here for that. https://www.steamgifts.com/giveaway/WcXXK/deaths-door
I saw it was high for everyone's wishlist, and I love indies and this one looks amazing ❤️
So the story. Love, huh? Yep, TeEnAgE lOvE 😂 It is bassicly a young person thrown into a warzone and told to have fun.
So, I broke up. With that person I thought I would mary. But yeah that was bullshit I Guess. Works out for very few understandably. But as humans and video game players. We all like a good risk. Anyways she kind of just ghosted me. Did nothing wrong, I knew if the relationship would ever end It would not be because of me. I like attention 😂. Anyway, I am not even sad. Just disappointed. It was today at work, like. How rude? But at least my sister is going to take me someplace after work to rewind and get it all out. (I am emotional as fuck)
There is more to this, and I will give more. Just, Kind of in shock right now.
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