Yesterday was my birthday (24), but was not a happy one. Well to be honest I haven't had a happy one for quite some time now. Usually birthdays mark yet another year of me not finding a job and not doing anything productive, yet another year of me not accomplishing anything in life. On top of that I usually don't celebrate them because I don't have money to.

However yesterday there unfortunately was one more reason. On tuesday my father had a stroke, his head had to be operated and he fell into a coma. Yesterday doctors told us that there is no more bleeding in the head but that he is in deep coma which means it's impossible to determine will he ever wake up . On top of that they're worried about his weak oversized heart.

He has been of bad health for a very long time. Issues with heart, kidneys and what not. I accepted the fact that his condition can get worse any moment long time ago, so this didn't strike me too hard as I was mentally prepared for it this whole time. So long as he is alive, even while in coma I'll try not to stress or worry about it. At least in this state he isn't in pain so I'll consider this as him taking a break from all the shit.

Anyway I traded for some games few days before my birthday because I planned on making the birthday thread, but after the incident with my father I wasn't in the mood for it. I'll make those gibs now, nothing special but they're all games with positive reviews. Choo-Choo

8 years ago*

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Best wishes for ya and your father. Yes :<

8 years ago
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Good luck and best wishes to your father.

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I know this is really bad situation, maybe it will change you, so you will try to do anything for your own health to be even better.
Maybe you will see, that life and health is quite fragile, so you will enjoy more to be with your familly and also to enjoy life.
At 24 yo. you are still young and you will of course find good job and good friends in the future.

After your dad wakes up, it would be nice to give him positive news like that you found new job ! :-)

Best wishes for you and your dad.

8 years ago*
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I hope your dad gets better soon. <3 Best wishes for you and your family.

8 years ago
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This sucks so bad ... I sort of know what you're going through since my mom went through a similar situation...

Anyways, as happy as it can be.. Happy birthday dude. Thank you for sharing your story with the community. Good luck. :) And best wishes to your Dad!!

8 years ago
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Wow... I mean, shit, I don't know what to say OP. Sounds like you're dealing with a lots of stuff right now. Stay strong. I won't wish you a happy birthday since this is already done and gone, but I will wish you a good future. Nobody knows what the future will bring, but wishing for a better one gives us hope.

All the best to you and your loved ones.

8 years ago
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I didn't have a "happy" birthday in like 5 years, I know how you feel.
I hope your father gets better.

8 years ago
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I hope your father gets better! Best wishes!

8 years ago
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Hang on man....

8 years ago
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Best wishes bump!

8 years ago
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sad to hear that, best wish for your father. wish you to set a goal to achieve and to find the balance you need to look forward with your life and move to the next stage of your own personal evolution, as there are no alternatives.

best of luck to both

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Sorry to hear that.

8 years ago
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That's really awful news, I'm sorry to hear it. I hope that your father can recover soon.
Try to stay strong.

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Best wishes to you and your family.

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<3

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Happy birthday. I wholeheartedly wish that your father gets better soon. And don't worry about yourself. Life can always surprise you - you just need to be a little more brave. ;)

8 years ago
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Look Im bad at cheering people up, about stuff like that... But, there's this one thing that got my eye... What do you mean you didnt accomplish anything? Didn't you age well? Didnt you become a proper person and not a piece of trash driving expensive cars with huge speed drunk, drugged without a license? Are you a thief? A killer? A politicion? A banker? No you aint any of that... Even with the lack of money and all the BS happening, you grew up a fine lad and still care for others, that's an accomplishment little people can stand up proudly and claim they have... A job is a job... Unfair and pretty trashy... Hard to find and when you do you wanna kill yourself, so that aint no accomplishment. Winning medals? That aint something that makes you a better person. Been rich neither... Been good with a heart does.

So to cheer you up, your birthday wasnt all that horrible, sure you didnt have money... sure your dad has health issues now and stuff, sure you didnt have friends... But yet you still gained one more year of life been a the better person. That's an achievement and a reason to feel good and that your birthday wasnt complete hell enough... So happy aging day, with a delay. Have a nice life and avoid become that bad type of person I discribed earlier. Kapy out.

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I'm sorry about your father, and I hope your next birthday will be a happier one.

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Best wishes to you and your father

8 years ago
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As you get older, every birthday will be your worst birthday of your life.

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I'm very sorry to hear that, I hope your father will get better soon. As weird as it may sound though - happy birthday!

8 years ago
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{{Momo hugs}}

8 years ago
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That's....I'm kinda speechless here.

I really hope your father wakes up and stuff goes the right way eventually .
As someone who's dad can kick this bucket anytime soon I feel for you deeply and I hope things get better.

Try not to stress over it too much tho , in the end you cannot do much about it other then harming your self

8 years ago
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Thank you and I hope you father is going to be okay.

8 years ago
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Sorry to hear that, can't say happy birthday in these circumstances though.

8 years ago
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I haven't had many reasons to celebrate either in a long time.. Sucks.

Hopefully things will turn for the better for you and your family!
Still.. Try to think about the good things in your life and have as happy of a birthday as you can!

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