cancer its offensive :/

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Interesting. So how exactly does your "not man enough" sentiment do anything but reinforce the very stereotypes and pressures on men that you claim to be against?

Throwing out volleys of non-sequiturs does not count as 'being a man' nor does it count as actually addressing the issues that men face with a sober and critical eye. All you were doing is bringing up unrelated scapegoats and strawmen without actually keeping track of the subject at hand. Any angry person can point a finger, but if you actually care about the shit men face, you would be trying to create change, not reinforce the divide.

Having one set of genitalia or the other does not confer a magical hivemind on its owner. No man or woman is instantly guilty of the entire collective sins of their sex. Having a vagina no more makes a person responsible for misandry than having a penis makes a person responsible for misogyny. Showering people with puerile accusations based on their sex is EXACTLY the thing you were claiming that men are a victim of. You were acting as a total mirror image of the thing you claim to hate, and without a single grain of irony. If you really subscribe to this whole "be a man" nonesense, then set aside your insecurities and take a long critical look at the gender divides, and instead of arbitrarily throwing down blame based on token assumptions, try actually dissenting where the real blame lays. As you so aptly demonstrated, men are just as guilty of perpetuating cultural memes that keep down other men; so too do women also reinforce those that keep themselves down. You cannot change the faulty aspects of culture by blindly throwing accusations and non-sequiturs at people based on their genitalia. If you want things to actually change, you have to make a conscious decision to place positive change above your desire to lash out, because you can't have both raw animal catharsis AND progress.

Take a step back, breathe deep, and really look into the subject if you actually care about it. Anger is a great fuel for change, but be careful because it is also great fuel for prejudice. Even the most blatantly vile racists believe on some level that they themselves are the victims and that they are simply 'telling a hard truth that nobody wants to hear', and that their behavior is just a natural reaction to being wronged. Consider how (actual) SJW-ism was born from a movement whose original goal was to challenge prejudice and level the playing field. The genuine 'SJW' types became that way because they placed their own anger on a higher level than their desire to foster progress, and as a result they ended up instead breeding poisonous and sometimes openly passive-racist / passive-sexist / passive-ableist values as a result. You are well on your way to being a carbon copy of that mentality, unless you really pump the brakes and reexamine how you go about things.