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I don't pray or any of that, never been the religious sort, but man, today's just fucked.
After recently finding out my sister's death four years ago wasn't an accidental overdose and was suicide by morphine and sleeping pill overdose (she had cancer and something called morphea scleroderma, and lived life in constant debilitating pain), and then losing my older niece in a car accident a few months ago, my sister's husband suffers a massive heart attack. He died for over 20 minutes, and is being kept alive by machines right now He's lost all brain function and has only 20% heart capacity. The doctors have already told the family he isn't going to make it. I have no idea what's going to happen with my 10 year old twin niece and nephew, outside of possibly taking them in myself. There's so much fucking shit going on right now, so I'm sitting here writing all this out to try and keep my cool until a family friend arrives to drive me to the hospital (in no shape to drive right now, and honestly, he probably isn't, either).
But I'm determined to fight the depression and stress building inside me and stay strong for my family. They're all that matters right now. Not me. Gotta stay focused and gotta keep a cool head, because that's what they need and what they're counting on from me. Every day is a test sometimes, and every day we survive is a win. If you take nothing else from my rambling, please take that.
So today, go tell a family member you love them. Hell, tell all of them. Give them a hug and let them know how important they are to you. Mend a bridge or build a new one. You never know when they'll be gone.
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That's terrible, so sorry to hear that. I understand your instinct to be there for your family and be strong for them, and I don't doubt that you will be in the coming time, but please don't forget to take care of yourself, too!
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I've dealt with depression for over a decade, plus PTSD and some health complications which also make things even worse than what they are. But at least I had people that helped me. Friends, family, and even strangers from support groups that made things easier.
You should NEVER think you are alone, because there's always someone willing to help if you look around you. This might sound clichΓ© but it's real, there are terrible people but there are also extremely kind ones. π
Also, if you can and you feel strong enough, please lend a hand to others in need. I've done this for years when I am confident enough that I can take on other people's problems without affecting my health to the point of getting me down.
Remember it's important to help others, but also take care of yourself.
Diagnosed depression isn't a joke (as in diagnosed by a professional and not by the patient, don't confuse it with other symptoms!). It's a serious condition and it shouldn't be taken lightly because it's not a physical illness. Just like cancer ends up with death, depression will escalate to suicide or cripple you in many ways.
Everyone feels "down" once in a while, but for some people it's a daily pattern of depression. The good news is that it is treatable.
Usually through therapy, medication, or a combination of the two. Antidepressant medication, despite some side effects, can help lift a person from the depths of depression within weeks of starting medication therapy.
If one medication doesn't work for you or the side effects are too much for you to live with, keep in mind that there are many others your doctor could give you to try.
Make sure your doctor knows about any other meds you are taking and always ask questions about your medication therapy, if needed.
Btw, DON'T get self-diagnosed, it's a terrible idea. You might be sad or during a grieving period, so always check with a doctor.
Besides, I don't know about other countries but over here antidepressants are only available if you have a medical prescription, so you will only be left with a possibly wrong diagnostic and no way to deal with it.
Some info:
What Is Depression?
Google users can now screen themselves for depression, then seek treatment
Taking Care of Yourself While Supporting a Depressed Loved One
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