I want to share with you my pain [GA]

From my understanding she's let-the strongest-one-win kind of a girl. And the one who is the most self-confident will get her. This is blind guess as I don't know her but if it is true ask yourself if you're confident enough to get her. She might like partners who know she'll be theirs, not those who only hope, if you know what I mean. She might like those who make her feel like she's theirs already, not those who ask if she'll be theirs. Again – this is only wild guess.

One thing I wouldn't recommend though is acting like a friend :P I mean, if you're showing her that you only want to be her friend, don't be surprised that she considers you only as a friend. You know what I mean? Of course it is possible to make her love you this way but remember it takes a lot of time. And there's always a guy around who will not give a damn to those long-term games. Sometimes he gets a girl before she even realize she's in love with him :P Yeah, it happens. I've heard similar stories quite often from my female friends.

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bumpinio :)

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In my opinion, move on. You might think it's too difficult, but in most cases people find it difficult to move on because they are "habituated" to talk to their significant other/crush.
May you find the strength to do what's right. Feel free to add me on steam if you wanna talk about the same.

And bump.

I was best friends with my current girlfriend before we started dating. We had known each other for like over a year or something, to the point where we were talking every day, had a couple sleepovers and could talk about any shit that came to our minds.

Then I made the move. That turned out to be the best thing I ever did in my life. We've been together for +2 years now and not a single spark has been lost.

Your situation is quite difficult though. I'd definitely go for her, but at the same time you'd want to respect her decision to go out with someone else and be happy. In your boots, I would do the latter if that's what she wants.

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That sucks, Have a talk with her one last time, maybe let her tell you the truth if there's anything else or ask what you want to ask in case you still have questions. it might hurt you again but you'll have peace of mind afterwards. you did what you can and move out from there.

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think carefully and clearly what you really want her to know, then tell her in face.
and remember, if she already made her decision and seem not going to change her mind, accept it and let her go, it will be better for you all.
trust me.

First of all, you can't force anything. That would only end badly for you and the other person. I had a relationship with a persistent person once. Whenever we fight badly he kept apologizing and pushing and I ended up forgiving him... every fucking time. Cause like you I cared too much to lose him. But he fucked it up... again. We had a big fight and I broke up with him for good. I still miss his company but now I know I'm better off without him. If she says so do it as she likes. You can do without her, you don't have to deal with anybodys bullshit.

That really sucks...
I think you shouldn't give up. Show her you are willing to fight for her.
If she still wouldn't want that, it's her loss...

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Just a bump since I cannot say anything useful.

Sadly I'm not good at giving relationship advice.
Just hoping you bring her back.

Try to turn your attention to something (or someone?) else. It seems, now it's you are the one, who need to "vent". Anyway, no one here knows her better than you. Is she good girl? Is she a "b..ch" type of lady? Or she is just in need of another short-term relationship?. Who knows... I wish you'll just move on and be fine. Take care!..

I don't know, but she changed her mind so darn quick. If you still love her that much, you can try more. But usually women don't like men who follow them around. So my advice is just leaving her, show her the lost when she doesn't have you by her side. That also leave you and her time to think about this relationship. Usually she will contact you first after few days, and if she doesn't, you contact her. So how long? after 1 or 2 weeks. if there is any good sign, continue, if thing turns worse, accept that and move on, she's not the one for you.

Remember, be happy and confident in any case. Especially when you meet her. You're an interesting man, you must be an interesting man.

Forget her and move on.

She probably things about you as FWB.

If I were you I would not expect anything from her, if you want to mantain your friend relationship with her and you feel you can stand it (at the end of the day you're still thinking of her more like a girlfriend) go ahead, but you better start forgetting about her as a couple and move on.

I know some people that would do anything for someone that does not feel the same for them but use them as a handkerchief whenever they want, the bad thing is that they don't realise they are being "used" and are like in an emotional rollercoaster with ups and downs, this is something would not recommend you.

This is a shitty situation to be in, best thing would be to wait and see how her relationship with the other guy develops. If you're too flirtatious you might push her away. But honestly if you managed to kiss her and she did not regret it but still isn't interested in a relationship, I don't think there's much hope there.

Hahahaha she just used you as a tool lmfao. I rec you break her off from your life lest you become a cuckold!

You should be true to your feelings. If you have no interest in friendship with her, then let go and do your things with your head held high.

If anything, she'll respect you more for it. Don't worry! Time heals all wounds, and, in hindsight, every experience is a good experience to have.