Be clear about your feelings with her, if that doesn't change her mind, just move on.
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I am not the best one to give this kind of advice.
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Bump. I can't think of any other useful advice other than what has already been said.
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It seems like what happened is exactly what you said at the start; she needed someone to talk to, feel comfortable around with and then you started "pushing" for more and, being vulnerable, she gave in because that's almost always what you do when you're in pain and trying to get over someone you were in a long relationship with (I know I've certainly done it). So yeah, that's basically what I think happened. And I don't want to play devil's advocate any further, but she did say she only saw you as a friend and could never see you as a boyfriend BEFORE you kissed-- which is something you sought, not her. And sometimes a kiss between friends is just that, a kiss. I've kissed girl friends before while hanging out and vice-versa, but didn't really mean much more than a display of affection.
Anyway, I hope you can stay friends, if that's something you still want; she seems like she really likes you as a friend, at the very least.
Either way, best of luck, mate. I mean it.
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I feel your pain. This week something similar happened to me. But I learned a lot of a breakout from three years ago, and now just simple don't give too much importance. I know who I'm, and I know how much do I worth. If she doesn't like who I'm, someone else will appreciate it eventually. Having and living with such pain is really harmful. There could be applied theory "if you don't think about it and don't give importance, in no time you couldn't be affected by feelings". Beware, this may need a step in backwards in the friendship. Having her too close doesn't help to reduce the pain but makes it worse.
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man.... awesome and thx for sharing your opinion & experience not trolling you or something
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ti sei fatto avanti ed è stata al gioco finchè non ha trovato di meglio, dopodichè ti ha friendzonato senza troppi complimenti, ecco quello che è successo. ora puoi rimuginarci sopra e continuare a correrle dietro come un cane da passeggio buttando nel cesso la tua dignità e facendo finta che non sia successo nulla, oppure semplicemente, per così dire, voltare pagina, che implica necessariamente il troncare ogni legame con lei. le opzioni che hai a disposizione sono fondamentalmente due
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If she's acting like that, she's probably not worth it. As a lover or partner.
Even if you manage to convince her to be with you, one day she will friendzone you or dump you in some other way.
But if there is really a friend relation between you two - cherish your friendship! In the end friendship is the best thing in life.
I personally yearn more for friendship than for love.
Anyway, cheers and keep faith, mate!
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Young womens are stupid and windy. Then more we care about them them less they like us.(
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Don't give up, actually if she resigned from you so easily the same can happen to her 'new' friend, but ya, she seem to be a... :)
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man.... TBH your situation is really F***ed up using stars just because SG community i'd suggest that you should move on but that's not really easy right? love is freaking complicated #BeenThereDoneThat c: i hope you just find happiness somehow and achieve the right thing
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Women move on and men love forever...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pao_YxkMVDU
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The best thing you can do is be happy for her and move on. Spend some time working on yourself and you'll find someone else that wants to be with you :) Best of luck
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Kinda sounds like she used you as a rebound and then once she got over her breakup with that girl, she didn't need you anymore. Then when another option for a relationship opened up, she went for it. I doubt you were ever someone she actually wanted to be with but rather a convenient source of love and care while she was hurting. Harsh words, but that's just my opinion.
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I'm not a good person to give advices in this matter, so have a bump!
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I'm sorry to you... I'm don't know you or her and I'm not best in love advices but... don't act in influence of emotions. It almost always ends badly. It's not worth losing so close friend. However you will feel pain near her until you have hope for somethink more. I think best way is talking, don't rush, remind her about yourself and about what you feel. After recent things give her some time. Maybe she will think about it and decide. Good luck mate.
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It's about feelings... Yes, damn feelings.
So I have this long term friendship with a bisexual girl. I always taught that she had a very tough character and that we would never work togheter.
About one month ago she went out of a 5 years relationship with a girl and we started to get very close, like hearing each other every day, chatting whenever we could and so on because she needed someone close to get her out of the pain. Point is that by becoming so close I started noticing some things about her that I liked of her and in the end I fell for her. At the beginning she brutally refused me saying that we were too friends to have a relationship and could never see me as her boyfriend. I did not gave up and insisted and finally she started to change her mind a little bit.
I managed to kiss her in two occasions (on the lips) and she changed her behaviour towards me. Last saturday we went out and had fun. I managed to kiss her twice (french kiss). Depite she was not convinced at the beginning, the she started to look after me and desire me, she looked well with me. The day after we talked about it and she didn't seem to regret it, she was even sweet with me.
Monday her work colleague declared himself to her and she started thinking that it might work with him, she asked me to forget her because she sees me only as a friend. I don't know what the fck happened.
Now dear SG community, I don't want to lose her. I really care too much but I don't know how to behave and what to do. Please share your opinions with me, and in case your suggestions.
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