Have you guys been? Share your stories.
I have been few times in my life,always by same one "friend", now it was third time, and we broke contact. He basically told me that our friendship was lie, that he was going out with me only from boredom, and that he could not stand being in my presence.
I may add more details if I will feel like to, I just don't feel like it right now.

So what about you guys? And how did you deal with it?

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You'r last line makes zero sense in relation to the context.

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oh XD

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If he only calls you when he needs help then you shouldn't really consider him as a friend!

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oh right i didn't see that :)

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Wow I have exactly some situation as you. Except she's a female.

I no longer initiate to contact her and ignore her messages now.

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Cool, she was keeping you on the bench. You did the right thing.

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My friend had sex with my (ex)girlfriend 3 days after I broke up with her. He told me about it, he said he was sorry, I punched him in the face, and it was all good.

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Fair and square.

Similar thing happened to my friend and his best friend, just without the punching bit, and they never spoke after it happened and it was all crap.

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so much for bro's before ho's. And you dumped her? You slit.

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Why the anger? You didn't 'own' her anymore...

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I thought I was the only one who thought that...

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The question should be, that just happen or it was part of the reason why he broke with her. He will probably never know.Sorry for making you think on it :-\

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You obviously do not understand bro code.

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nor him, nor the people who replied him

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If the friendship was worthy you should have punched your ex for ruining it.

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He never owned her, they just agreed to mutual manipulation, but that sort of manipulation does not fade quickly, so you leave breathing room and ask before you approach a buddy's ex. That's just standard.

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You know she slept with him to just start drama between them. They're like this, they get down and dirty when it comes to hurting someone and it doesn't matter who gets stuck in the cross fire.

I can tell you about my ex and I can tell you about the 18 year old I'm doing now. Both are playing head games to get what they want. My ex did a major one on me. The 18 year old thinks she doing one on her boyfriend and that I'm none the wiser to the being "used" game she playing. Truth is, I see it and now doing it back to her. Something I would never do, but bitches like that need mind games reversed on them.

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You shall never touch a friend's ex-gf. Let alone when the relationship has just ended. I know she was a free girl and could do whatever she wanted and so was he. But Jesus Christ, have a little of empathy.

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it's not a friend

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The advantage of not having any friends is that they can't betray you.

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but the disadvantage of not having any friends is that you end up feeling kind of lonely

but it's ok.

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That's why we have Steam, Steam won't betray you as long as you keep buying their games (and following their TOS)

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As long as you don't make any deals with anyone using it...

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+1

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Sad, but true. :(

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You could befriend yourself, and spice it up with some drama whenever you're in the mood.

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O_o

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Your right hand is your best friend and only friend.

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i have a friend since i can remember that i just hate sometimes because even though i never lie to him he lies to me all the time, even about big stuff that are important to know, what i do? i just talk to him about meaningless things that i can afford to have mistaken.

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steamdramas

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lol

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DramaAlert more like #SteamDramaAlert

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registered domain steamdramas.com before cg does :P

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Several times. Obviously it's a part of life so I live with it

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+1

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Everyone lies, everyone will stab you in the back, always have a back up plan, expect everyone to fuck you over, I don't care how long you have known each other, always expect others to fuck you over.
That does not mean you start hating them, go about things normally just know that everyone can fuck you over.

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I guess if someone tells you (s)he was never betrayed by a friend it's just that (s)he didn't notice yet.

If you think that's too pessimist of a view, I better start giving you some Cave Johnson quotes:

When life gives you lemons, don't make lemonade - make life take the lemons back! Get mad! I don't want your damn lemons, what am I supposed to do with these? Demand to see life's manager. Make life rue the day it thought it could give Cave Johnson lemons. Do you know who I am? I'm the man who's gonna burn your house down! With the lemons. I'm going to to get my engineers to invent a combustible lemon that burns your house down!

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I don't really think Cave Johnson is a good source for inspiration :P

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In what manner? He's perfectly fiiiiine!

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Cave Johnson is THE best source for inspiration. There is not a single problem Cave can't solve! :D

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I agree with your statement (first line).

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I have been betrayed at least once by 75% of everyone I have ever considered nice. I dealt with it by not making new friends. It was hard at first, but after a while my need for social contact has vanished completely.

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wtf?!?!?!

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Dude.... the problem might be with the people you hang around with....

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That would be quite a coïncidence, so I think it's safe to assume it's me.

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Looks a bit extreme. If you yourself are a kind of person who would never betray a friend, what are the odds that you are the only trustworthy person in the world? And if you are not, than why would you care and feel bad about this? Dont waste your life man.

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The odds are very small/low(?) indeed, but searching for reliable friends feels like finding a needle in a haystack.

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Sorry about your neighbourhood. Good luck than, dont give it up, the needles are great and haystacks burn nicely (kidding, please do not burn your enemies ;))

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Thanks for the advice :)

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My favorite saying for friends: "Quality over quantity." Of course, that is a toned down version of it. If you want to put it in a harsher tone: "Sort the trash from the treasure". In other words, you have to make friends to find good friends. Sure, it may get messy or frustrating at times, but once you find that treasure (or treasures) among the trash you'll know that it was worth it. FYI there is nothing wrong with being alone, but you should really try to meet a few new people here and there.

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+1 Agree.

Don't stop believin'

Hold on to that feelin'

Streetlight, people

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+1 for a great song reference

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For me is easy....Im ME, just me.. u take it, or not. If not. doesn't bother me... in real life i got no more than 6 friends, and it's all what i need. I don't go for my live looking friends, it's just, u like me ? OK. u cant call "friends" to all your facebook contacts, do you?... Im not a loonely person. neither a friendly one. And if your friends treath u like that... well.. i think u r looking for bad friends..or u r like them.

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I'm the same, I only have a handful of friends and even then, I'm gonna leave them after I finish college.

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I have not much friends irl. Only have 4 friends, Never got betrayed yet. Anyone would be my friends? T^T add meh on steam :P

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Yeah, he hit me with a fireball when he thought I wasn't watching. So I did what I had to do.

Trust no one. This is just the way Magicka is.

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hahaha, I lol'd so much with your reply! Awesome!

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yes, ignore it the best way you can.
people are people and even your "friends" can make mistakes or flaws.

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yes, when he fucked my dog Molda

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It's not cheating if you put peanut butter on your balls and let your friend's dog, Molda, lick them...right?

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Ricky Martin, is that you?

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Not many would go that far to just get indie games, I like that guy. XD

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wtf?

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I'm dating his crush, once. This isn't called betraying, right?
Moreover, he know I liked her too.

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Well.. i was going out with this girl from my class, about 1 year relationship, she cheated on me sleeping with the ugliest guy in the class, and my "best friend" knew about it and didn't say anything and later on he stopped talking to me and begun hanging with my ex and her new boyfriend.. sucks having "friends"

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Your ex friend probably did or is deading for do something with your ex.

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well...I actually turned out to be the one who people call "the unintentional traitor". All I did was trying to be fair and square to all my friends but there was always this one person who got hurt.

Oh, I also cheated on all of my previous relationships....that's why I've been single for almost 2 years, karma is a bitch...

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Don't cheat on people. It's bad.

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should have made it more explicit, they thought I was cheating...apparently me being all "friendly" with all the other girls didn't seem like a good thing to them...it was just my nature to be all friendly and appreciating everyone but I guess I kinda forgot the exclusivity I need to give to my GFs...but yeah, in some perspective it is perfectly fine to see me as an A hole

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Yeah, one of my "friends" got hammered drunk and climbed into the window of our old house and smashed up my housemates pc... I ended up dating his girlfriend (while he thought they were still together) though so in the end it was all good I guess

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So who betrayed who?

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Your friend saw the future, got drunk out of desperation and smashed your PC for revenge. :D

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that made me chuckle :D

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+1

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sometimes when you're really drunk you can see through time

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When you're really really braid yes ;-)

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braid hah
i see what you did there

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An eye for an eye....

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nah, but I betrayed girlfriends :*

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this thread is... interesting.

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I like where this thread is going >:3

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Friends dont betray friends. So no.
I have though been betrayed by people who've pretended to be a friend.
Best policy is to stop dealing with them.

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Give them time, and when I say time I mean years, even decades. Those who don't betray you is cause you stoped hanging out with them regularly and frequently. Precisely friends are who betray, you don't expect anything from those pretenders.

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I really don't have friends, just guys that I know

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sad

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Same, sort of. I have people that I hang around with and talk to on a daily basis, but I don't know if I can really consider them friends. They're nice guys and all, so maybe I just have trust issues or something.

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In my opinion, a friend is a person we like to spend time with, and have the same tastes and/or personality. I had a lot of "friends" until I started to realize what they really wanted. In the past I would worry if I got alone at any point, now, the only thing I really worry is if some of those supposed "friends" calls me when they need something, like a computer fixed, or a ride somewhere, or a trip to somewhere so we can "share" the expenses. Today, real friends are hard to find, so, either we wait for some person to appear from nowhere, who happens to be really cool, and both start wanting to spend time with each other naturally, or just spend time doing what you love and don't care about being alone.

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Amen, brother. I've lost a lot of my friends in the last year. It's been hard, but a one-sided friendship isn't a friendship at all.

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but a one-sided friendship isn't a friendship at all.

Completely agree!

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