so there is a girl at school that she keeps looking at me and i feel that she likes me and i really want to talk to her but i cant just say "hi whats your name" so i need a way to talk to her and make a good relationship with her any help ?

Edit:and i dont have topics to talk about all i can talk about is video games and this stuff :(

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You can always talk about school like what's your favourite subject and then maybe coffee or tv shows :P

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you smooth talker. . .

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Step 1: Don't go to a site like steamgifts asking for relationship advice.

But really, why "can't" you just go up and ask what her name is? You don't need to have any topics to talk about, just be a human being. Just go up and talk to her and at least try to feel confident (ie not stuttering and saying "um" while looking at the floor a lot). If she is remotely interested in you, she will be fine with you asking her name. If she isn't OK with that, you didn't have a chance in the first place.

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Are you sure she keeps looking at you?

Look at her but don't stare. When you think your eyes meet, just simply smile and see if she smiles back.
If she does smile back and/or looks away embarrassing she probably is interested in you. Walk up to her and say Hi.
Don't know what to say? Ask her questions so she does the talking. E.g. What are you reading there?

Or you could just do what she's doing and wait for the other person to walk up and say hi. Maybe she's posting the same thing on what ever forum she frequently visits.

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Maybe she looks at You like "Hey, who's that weirdo?"

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Ask her if she plays COD and thinks shes a gamer. If she says yes to both im sorry but its just not gonna work out, you cant play cod and think you are a gamer at the same time haha :P

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NOYS!!

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0:04 Just show that level of confidence and the world is your oyster.

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Show her your fat stack of cash, then she'll walk up to you and talk to you like the gold digger she is

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Ask chief ..he tell you to make sweet love by the fire

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If she's not a gamer girl then don't waste your time, she's probably boring.

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+1 Totally right.

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nuh,dude,don't listen to these suckaz!lemme schools ya;here's what you do!you buy a copy of some of the Barbie games(dunno if they're pc or console,don't matter),walk up to her,say something along the lines of "yeah,so I was thinking what kind of a mating call should I "emit" your way,and that's when I came up with the idea of handing you this shitty game and waiting to see what reaction that causes".if she slaps you over the face with that crap game,you'll know she's a keeper,and you're 100% in after that.at least you're thoughtful,right?and that's what counts when it comes to women,i guess.who knowz,even they have no idea what they want!

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when did SG turn into a dating tip site? lol

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That's also good advice ... "Just the tip."

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Noticed grill looking at me, want to make relationship with her....youths these days.

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yoots be smart. . .don't scold them!if they wanna relationship each other,they need only know,that having a preservative on hand saves a crapton of moneehz.

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hey buddy,

walking up to a women and say" hi my name is david whats your name" is the absolute best way to hit it off. you are being confident and to the point , exactly what they are lloooking for.

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Disclaimer: May or may not work depending or whether or no your name is "David".

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if one's a good actor,one could make himslef look like David.maybe she's into Davids!

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And if it doesn't work out, you can try again with "oh hey, I heard David hit on you, I want to apologize for that, he's an obsessed stalker who has been impersonating me."

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"my monozygotic twin, David"

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My name is David.

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I'm telling.

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@kybaig - now that is funny!

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I just hope the OP has enough common sense to pick the right advices from this topic.
He listens to the kids/ trolls, she'll never even look at him again :D

If you're not sure how to start a converstaion with her, don't hurry. If you notice she is looking at you, wave to her and smile. Then, when you happen to meet each other, ask her if you may know her name. You are both attending the same school, so that's a pretty solid topic for a conversation ;)

Just don't tell her right away that you want to be in a relationship with her, for heaven's sake :D

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I don't have any advice for you, I'm a pussy, I never talk to girls.

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it's not about being pussy lol most of the gamers don't have time for this kind of crap :3 Being gamer is all i know :D

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Gotta agree on that one

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If you can only talk about video games & video-game related topics, I would honestly recommend that you do something about that. Go out and experience life, watch some movies, know what is going on in the world of music, find out some interesting things about something fun. Just get more possible topics of conversation. Having life experience makes you more interesting in general (and not just to potential future partners).
But when talking to someone you don't know well, it's also important to know that you can't just talk and talk and talk, questions are usually better than statements.

And remember, the simple approach is often the best. If it looks like she wants to talk with you, then talk to hear. If you don't know what to say, just ask something simple (like what class she goes to). And don't try to be who you are not, even if it makes you seem more interesting in the short run, the facade don't tend to last very long anyway, and once it has crumbled, things will just be awkward for both of you.

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Yeah, this is absolutely right, you should be able to make this work... in a century or so XD It would be easier to get plastic surgery or a brain transplant.

The point here is that there isn't really the need of strictly classified topics to talk to someone, most of the time conversations are entirely situational, based on "the present", on what's going on. A topic emerges only naturally, it's not that I bump into a stranger and the very first thing I say is "hey,do you listen (-insert bad singer here-)?"

It's weird said it this way, but whenever someone enters in the meta-converssational (or meta-linguistic) field everything start to look more complex than it really is, anything, for how much easy it is, becomes complex when you analyze it in parts... like a human body, it immediately start to lose blood and all those bones aare so difficult to remov... emm... my point is that the thing looks difficult only becomes it's getting over-analyzed.

Besides, pop-culture has never been a conversation topic, if someone wants to talk of pop-culture with me I regret talking to that person in first place. XD

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Pop-culture is a transitional topic, but not having a basic know-how makes people think you're ignorant. It's not so much actively talking about "current" things as making minor references that. Many pop-cultural things have become a part of our basic lingo by the virtue of being good examples of things. And it's also a good thing to have something to talk about when things gets awkwardly quiet, something that won't bore the other person to tears. This is extra important if the other person is a bit shy, otherwise it's easy that you just end up staring at each other while both wait for the other person to say something (I've been there...). The OP said that he had very little to talk about other than video games. Getting some more general knowledge about things is good for you, no matter the social situation, and I take it that the OP is in high school (or his regional equivalent), so the general knowledge barrier of entry is really low. People who only talk about one thing tend to be seen as a bit boring, even among the people who generally enjoy those things. Also, getting out more is good for you and your self confidence.

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So the answer should be to begin stacking amount of trash in your brain for the sole reason of getting a conversational topic that you probably don't even like?

In my opinion it's too artificial and complex, this way you would look like some kind of robotic search engine... or better, I understand what you mean but I do not agree with the implementation... getting your own culture is what makes it, in fact, a culture (culture, cultivation, you gotta cultivate it). Said your way it looks like if it was inoculated.

But I'm not the very best at starting conversations, I usually lure out with my drawings (never went once at school or uni without a book of crazy stuff) so I'm never the first one to talk. Still this works only if you draw well so don't try it with stickmen XD

(cool how we reply to each message with a 3 hours delay XD)

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run with a loaf of bread/toast in your mouth and bump into her around a corner

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If I recall correctly, this scenario usually ends with yuo both falling on the ground with your head on her breats.

To increase the odds you might also get a spiky hairstyle!

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Nice shoes wanna fuck?
This is the best pick up line. Try.

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Nah, the best pick up line ever is: "I am -insert MY name here-."

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You need a good icebreaker:

  • hi HEY. You like sitting or what

  • so how many legs you got

  • you ever heard of milk? me too, weird

  • the sea right? The sea

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try also:

  • You have 2 eyes? Me too! We have a lot in common!

  • Isn't that weird we are both going to die someday?

  • Did you know that for the "mitochondrial eve" we are like brother and sister?

They never failed me, they always work!

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Good luck kid. Regret is worse than rejection. The latter you will either forget or laugh about some day. The former by its very definition will remain.

There are some worthwhile insights here, and I see you have found some of them... but WOW there is just a little bit of misogyny going on here as well.

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It's true. Regret is definitely one of the worst feelings, and also one of the hardest to get over so just go for it.

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I suggest talking to her and saying "Hi, what's your name?"...seriously, don't think about it too much. If she gets offended or something about such a simple comment, perhaps she isn't the kind of person you wanted to be with anyway.

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Girl? what animal is that?

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we should go on a double date!

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"you know what rhymes with ape?"

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Drugs?

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rape?

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