My girlfriend just left me...
Can you try to take me up?
I would appreciate it!
TO HAVE YOUR ATTENTION, TAKE THIS AS A GIFT FOR YOUR HELP

EDIT: I wanted only to say a big thanks to all the one that helped me getting throught this trought!
THANK YOU, I APPRECIATE IT SO MUCH!

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Lets just replace "je t'aime"(I love you) by "on t'aime" (we love you), like the fans did in this song.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fa_oXeVXQi0

So what you need now is either more chansons (and ice cream) or some friends that keep you busy.

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i love french!

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I didn't in school. But I actually like several of their singers. :)

And some more hugs

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And one more! ;)

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Just remember, Newsweek heals all wounds...

or one of those magazines :)

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It is a sad part of life, everything ends eventually. Many relationships specially at young age don't last for long. There are many reasons for it. And it doesn't help to be the one who still wants to continue where the other one already had enough. First love is also very painful as it is first time you have such feelings.
Ofcourse reasoning of it all doesn't help the feelings in the slightest. Friends and other hobbies come in at this point where you want to focus on other things until you can move on. Even if it feels unmeaningful for now. Im sure some songs will help you cope with things too. Let the tears flow, embrace the sadness.
To give more personal advice I would need to know you as a person. All I can say is best wishes and atleast be glad that you got to experience something that many never will. The experience will come handy.

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Finish that steam queue. It will get you busy and keep from thinking(THat is the worst thing you can do at first)

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watch anime and play games, horror/mystery genre well make u forget all about her in no time.
once u start thinking thinking about something for moments ( if not hours which is why i recommended the above ) it well replace what u already think about and make u forget about it for longer then what u used to. pretty good distraction to forget about real life stuff

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I had a huge break up after more than 6 years together. A month later, after much suffering and despair, I met a person, which is now my wife.

Just think it's for the best, you'll find a better person for you. Or at least, it's another chance to become a better person for yourself.

Try to learn from your own mistakes, but don't just feel guilty over what happened, instead feel responsible for your own actions and its consequences, and try to learn from them.

Remember: it doesn't matter what happens in your life. What really matter is what you do with it, how you deal with it. Turn it into something positive, and hold on to that, as soon as possible, and as gradually as possible. Respect your own time.

And of course, don't let it destroy you - unless you feel like a part of you need to be destroyed, and you're ready to start building it from scratch.

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Sorry to hear that ((hug)). It'll get better.

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damn this site is crazy

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It's better that she left you early than to drag it out.
Try to find out what didn't work, wether it was through some faults or behaviour or if you just weren't meant for each other.
You can't force love but you can find a new one.

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I will actually come back here later and read all the useful advice the community has offered to you, especially when I will be at my lowest

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"No matter how hard your heart is broken, the world doesn't stop for your grief."

What I see in this quote is that life always continues. It might sound so easy while not being in the situation you are, but it should show you, that life goes on. You will have better times, find another person, be joyful again. To overcome the hard times after your breakup, just try to appreciate the other things you have in life - meet friends, read your favorite book again, play a game you like...

Hope you get back up soon. :)

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You need time to heal and forget her, so go out with friends or do stuff to distract yourself.
Sadly that's the only thing you can do, wait until you forget her and it doesn't hurt anymore
Cheers! :)
Cute puppies to lift your spirit

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Well, I'm sure you can find something to do that makes you happy. Go have some fun and clear your mind!

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It's her loss not yours, always remember that.

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The only things i have to say is, shit happens bro, go a make something to get distracted...

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Not on your WL but you have my support. You did not deserve her. Wait for the one who really loves you to come along. be open to seeing one who really loves you instead of seeking one you love. May God bless you.

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sry i'm taking only fresh stuff ;)

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Shhh...Im your girlfirend now
Take a peek

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When I'm feeling blue this song helps me:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AaqNOXna3o8

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KdSCCp_y18c
Remember to turn subtitles on. If I can say something...You have now more time for your hobby. And remember...with your next GF you will be happier!

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Go out there, try to spin the situation as positive, play videogames

Basically, get really, really, really busy.

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Time will pass.

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Well, it could be worse. For example, I expressed my feelings to a girl, got no answer the next 3 weeks.

Play some games, mostly the ones where you can kill lots of people. I dunno.

Hope you get better. Give yourself a couple of weeks.

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Ah, sorry to hear man. Find a hobby or go back to one you've neglected and focus on it to get your mind off of the breakup and enjoy yourself!

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yeap, think no more of that, if it's meant to be it'll be fixed, if not, then you're in for better things to come, simple as that. What's hard is the waiting, holding on..
+1 on the hobby and doing things that keep you occupied, sports, running or stuff like arts or woodworking, whatever you think you might enjoy even if you never tried it before, now is the perfect time!

Travel, reconnect with friends, make new ones, take care of yourself, you're you 100% now for now, so don't think less of you. Love you above all. Love those who love you. Period.

Heck you're here in a gaming community, so play, distract your mind. Don't go on addictions, if you are already, then drop it, it's not worth it.
Lastly, don't take it like everyone is like that, the same, that's negative thinking which you (or anybody of us) needs, so eventually you will find your place and heart, you will or you don't and by then I promise you it won't matter. Live now, enjoy now, relax.

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