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do you like your family?

Do you like your career?

Family

1) you care too much about something that doesn't matter. instead focus your energy on something that would benefit you
2) to get to the other side
3) www.gramerly.com

miscarriage is more common than people think, with an estimated one out of every four pregnancies resulting in a miscarriage. It sucks, it hurts, but keep trying.

a few years back, both my sister and my sister-in-law, living in different countries, both miscarried on the same day. both of them had children later

I know it hurts, but it's only temporary. And if it keeps happening, seek help from medical professionals.

Talk to your wife about how it makes you feel, ask her how she feels about it. You don't need to be strong all the time, you can show her (or other people) that things affect you, it's ok to break down some times. Don't focus on what you don't have or have lost, but focus on what you do have (a beautiful wife that loves you). don't dwell on the past or things you can't control, look towards the future.

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I know it's hard, but after having 3 miscarriages my mom decided to take a foster kid.
He is 11 now and I really love my little brother.

So sorry to hear what you're going through. I've been there myself. We had 4 kids, then lost 2, and finally had one more (with great difficulty). You hurt but you know she hurts worse and you know there's nothing you can do to fix it.

It's something that noone likes to talk about and most don't like to hear about (doesn't make for pleasant dinner conversation), so hardly anyone does. But for us many friends from church, work, and neighborhood came to us and shared that they had been through the same thing. It's like you wake up one day and find that you're a part of a huge club that you never knew existed and never wanted to be a part of. It was helpful and comforting in a painful sort of way.

Nothing can fix it (as you know), but it's ok to be broken together. Love each other and allow yourselves to hurt. Be there for each other and allow your friends to be there for you too. It's natural to want to shut everyone out when you're hurting, but don't. There's a beautiful joy in being able to share someone else's pain with them so they don't have to bear it themselves. Do that... and give it time. Let it pull you together instead of pull you apart. And then cherish each day you have with her.

I realize that this is starting to sound like a sappy greeting card, but this is heartfelt advise from someone who has been there.

If you decide to try again, get a doctor who has dealt with patients who have had multiple miscarriages. They are hard to find, but they are out there. Then start taking a close look at your wife's hormones. Everything that the body does is signaled and regulated through hormones, especially in pregnancy, and any unexpected imbalance can spell disaster, especially with progesterone (which can trigger everything to start moving too early if it drops too soon - all too common problem).

And if you decide not to try again, that's ok. You found each other, which is more than many get, and you are blessed. I hope you make the most of your lives together, Just be there for each other. And good luck with whatever you decide. Best wishes, and God bless you both.

The others have already given such good responses, just wanted to say hang in there and I'm so glad you and your wife have each other to lean on each other during such a heartbreaking experience. Makes all the difference. Hope that whatever the future may hold will bring you love and happiness, wishing you both the best. :)

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damn, that sucks. I'm not too proud to flip burgers, and there's always a shortage of people willing to clean toilets for a living. It's easier to find a job when you have a job, and it sucks to not be able to support yourself, so, take whatever you can get.

alternatively, print off some business cards and/or a stack of resumes, and go knocking door to door at every business in town, hand them to everyone you see in a suit, at traffic stops by industrial parks, just about everywhere. It'll take some time, but, someone will be impressed with your grit

This is a difficult question because it also require another answer. Did you like what you did at the University ? I suppose that if you have a Master degree, you probably do. Are you willing to leave your country ? The situation in Italy may be pretty bad, but you do have two advantages in your hands : You have a master degree and you can speak English as well as Italian.
Put that into perspective, don't limit your options, you have more than you think you do.

I passed through that.
I couldn't even get a bloody job interview after years of efforts for a hard university degree (same country of you).
I decided to leave to another country.
I landed my 1st job in 3 weeks upon arrival.
Sometimes it is like when you lose the keys and look for them in the wrong place, you can look forever and never find them.

Watch "Stranger Things" again

Definitely free BDSM. and if you have any kind of privacy concerns, I wouldn't do BDSM out in the open

more seriously, most people prefer FreeBSD, so unless you're very uptight about security, I'd use that; if security is your main concern, OpenBSD is better

depends...

1) Is your country a shithole?
Yes - leave
No - Question 2

2) Do you have a good life?
Yes - stay
No - Question 3

3) are you willing to give up everyone you know, and basically gamble your entire life that your future will be better?
Yes - question 4
No - stay

4) are you sure?
yes - Question 5
No - stay

5) Are you crazy?
Yes - go
No - go

Even more important question would be "Is it easy for you to move to another country?" If the answer is yes. Then sure. Hell. Why not?

Spend some more time on steam gifts. I am sure the assignments will keep piling up till they reach forth sky.

My advice: just focus on 1 assignment until it is done. Then go to the next. Start with the easiest/fastest to make the number 20 get smaller more quickly. If you think about 20 you'll become overwhelmed. Don't think of running a marathon, just take one step at a time. :)

Just let it go ...

ask for help

not in this century

before that, comic books, before that TV, before that, movies, before that, music, and before that books.

All 'new' forms of entertainment are deemed evil by older generations

seriously, though, try to find an activity that you enjoy, and join a club of some sort. Go with the intent of enjoying the activity, not the intent of picking up friends, but don't be afraid to interact. It'll happen

Pay yourself to write it. Finish X pages, and you can have chocolate/beer/sex worker (whatever your pleasure). Do another X pages and you can have more beer/sex/chocolate. etc.

If you feel adventurous, go for it. If not, wait until you are really hungry.

Do you have peanut butter? Do you have jelly? Do you have bread?
Just try the fucking thing, worst that can happen is that you spit it out, wash away the taste with a drink, and go back to hating it like you did before

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I eat one nearly every day (crunchy peanut butter and grape jelly on white bread) :P

I prefer food that was once alive, so, yeah, why not?

Pick one:

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https://help.steampowered.com/en/wizard/HelpDeleteAccountRequest

Long term plan: Raise your child to shatter your Steam backlog.

easily

Seriously, though, psychological help is probably your best bet

I'm reminded of an expression "it's never a good time to tell someone that their grandmother died"
I strongly suggest using a thesaurus to look for some less-offensive words, like moron, or idiot.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=whhAg6bA3_o

seriously, though, talk to someone. a friend, a priest, a shrink, a bartender, whatever. Talking helps