Have you ever found someone ungoogleable?

But that's not spanish anymore :/

+1 being unfaithful starts in the mind,and i think every person who ends up cheating says"i didnt mean it it just started with some innocent flirting"

cursed be this google era >.<

Murders committed together

That's a perfectly valid opinion to hold. I don't share it being a hopeless romantic and all, but I'm perfectly fine with people thinking that way.

The thing is, the moral thing to do in that case is: Not get married. Once you do, your life is no longer truly your own and it is unfair for the other person if you cheat on them. If you never want to commit to anyone that's fine, and one day that might even be the default position, but as it currently isn't, if you don't plan on committing to someone, you better make that perfectly darn clear from the very start. Because otherwise they will assume you are committing to them, they will get attached to you, and it will break their heart when they find out the truth.

The funny thing about humans is, very few people want to commit to a single person, but most people also want their partner to commit to them only.

So how to deal with this? It should happen on a case-by-case basis, both parties should be perfectly honest with each other and come up with a solution that'll satisfy both. That is the only fair way to work around this predicament.

In other words: OP should tell their wife about this and ask if she's fine with them flirting with a girl even if they won't commit to her. If that is not possible, OP should stop flirting with someone behind their wives' back.

Of course, that is just my personal opinion and I don't claim to be the ultimate moral authority on anything. Would be hard to be when my opinions on morals change pretty much constantly, but hopefully I have presented at least a few sound arguments to support my current position.

You are probably right, about almost everything.
I did say Hi back, and continue on my way to the office. I really didn't expect to see her there, and no where outside the supermarket, I mean, it was a platonic thing, never intended to make this a thing, nor to have a relationship with her (I didn't even know she had a kid)

"You are not helping"

Wait, do you want a discouragement? I'm confused now.

mr. Snoop Dogg

Wait...so the story is fake, thats like saying at the end of a movie "it was all a dream"
btw i need to ask this, why are the Giveaways not private

How the bloody hell are you in my blacklist (O_o)

My black list is full of people with zero giveaways created and some serious rule breakers .... I don't even remember you breaking any rules ... wtf ?

Um, wow. Please, don't put words into my mouth... I never once stated, or even implied, that it's creepy to say "hi" to someone that you happen to see. Also, there's a difference between flirting and just saying "hi" each time you see someone. I do feel that "Googling" other people is a bit creepy though. People don't normally Google others unless they're interested in them in some way or another. Either way, in my opinion, going behind someones back and Googling them to find out more info, is indeed creepy.

Also, wtf does looking at nude celebrity photos have to do with what I said, or even the subject of this thread? But, um... if you're married, and find it necessary to look at naked photos of other women, then perhaps there's something wrong with your marriage.

As someone pointed out ahead in this topic you are kinda contradicting yourself on so many levels, you have no intentions with this lady yet you want to google her, that is making intentions.

Also you said it yourself the post before me "don't know if my wife will be happy or not (and to be honest, I really don't care)" that is to me clearly not being respectful to your wife.

But to each it's own, anyway good luck.