Do you keep pictures of your exes / previous flirts?
Post all the nudes on 4chon /b/ - isn't that what everyone does these days?
Kidding aside, that is up to you - if its been uploaded anywhere (services/social media) it's likely
everyone's pic/vid forever. (you just deleted your copy, that is safely stored in hundreds of databases)
If its on paper (old ppl eh?) and likely nowhere else - why not keep it ... getting kinda difficult to keep track of everything, thats
why i'd choose to keep anything i had, but limit the access of more private stuff (only offline ... on some hdd/usb/disc), even if
chances are i'll never look at it again.
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I've noticed a few people saying this. Is there some reason for this (a game/challenge of some sort?) ?:)
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It's this event by jbondguy: https://www.steamgifts.com/discussion/YwppD/catch-me-if-you-can-the-second-hunt-forum-wide-giveaway-event-live
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I had no pictures of her, but kept the bookmarker she made, and the book I got from her. I don't like to throw out gifts, and it also serves as a reminder as I did kind of deserved to be broken up with. As long as reminders and memories don't drag one down, I don't see much problem keeping a very handful ones as memories from a period of one's life
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sadly i do, its a sadly reminder of times gone by and that i screw up... but i just cant help myself. i am too sentimental, i recently after a looot of time deleted them from my phone but i still have them somewhere in my pc
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I could have some pictures (of my ex) somewhere with all the other pictures (of everything else) I have. If I find picture or two after all these years I just usually toss them in the bin, I suppose I don't have many fond memories of the time and I think that she wouldn't mind (pics of me may have been burned, the end was a bit... unpleasant).
No nudes, I think that I'm a bit too old fashioned or something
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I used to ritualistically purge the physical mementos like pictures, clothes, poetry I'd written (shut up), mix tapes and cds, etc with fire while getting spectacularly drunk with some close friends.I haven't met or talked with any woman recently that's inspired me to even want to get close enough to them to eventually break up with them someday, though.
Edit: I am still on decent terms with a couple of them though, for the DENNIS system.I'm kidding about the system...seriously.
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Really depends. Definitely delete any nudes and maybe also the innocent pics I happen to find, I have random pic folders that I don't even access often and won't make an effort to clean my PC from pics no matter what anyway, so there are probably some left. If I'm in the picture too, I may keep it anyway, even though it's a bit uncomfortable to look at those, but hey, some pics are pretty.
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It really depends on how/what I feel for the person in question. If whatever pictures/items I have only triggers bad memories and emotions in me, I see no reason to keep it around. My last ex cheated on me, so in this case I couldn't get rid of whatever remnants of her fast enough.
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I have two pictures of my ex-girlfriend as well as the pictures of her two daughters that she gave me after we had broken up (they were 4 and 5 at the time). She said that I was a part of their lives for almost two years, and that I deserved to have them if I wanted them). I have them still, even though we had broken up almost 15 years ago. It was a "nice" break-up, and there was no hostility or animosity between us. And here is a fun fact! I actually work with one of the daughters (she's now 18).:)
Bear in mind, they are physical copies rather than digital, so it wouldn't be as easy as hitting 'delete'.
My opinion is that if there were some happy moments in a relationship, and especially if the picture(s) was/were taken during one of those happy moments, why not keep them? It is good to have a reminder of happy times/moments, and a jog down memory lane can be cathartic. :)
That being said, if the pictures would cause a person nothing but sadness and/or anger, then keeping them would not do that person any good.
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Hi guys & girls!
I've been thinking the past few days about this, and I wanted to hear you guys' opinions on this topic. As the title of the thread says; do you keep pictures of your previous partners / flirts, or do you delete them instantly to not get reminded or whatever? Do you keep them for a while but delete them when going into a new relationship or how do you do things? What is wrong and what is right in your opinion?
And no, I'm not just asking for 'lewd' pictures, but pictures in general. Hell, it doesn't even need to be pictures only but e.g. chats, mementos and such.
Feel free to vote in the poll and discuss freely! I'm eager to hear what you all have to say on this matter.
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