Did you deserve your blacklists?
Well, I probably deserve them from the point of view of the ones who blacklisted me. After all, why else they would blacklist me?
As for me - I usually don't know the reason, so I don't have any opinion about that. Sometimes I wish I knew the reason - I mean, what if I can change, get better, if only I knew, what needs to be changed. On the other hand - maybe I'll just consider it not reasonable, and ignore. Who knows.
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This site in itself is a giant game. From a few of the things you described, when I read it back a few times, it just sounds like the person/people you describe are treating everything like a game. Interactions score points, winning means game over, things like that.
Somebody else said it best:
just existing is enough to get you blacklisted
and it's entirely true. That's also everybody's right. We're all not entitled to everybody else's things just because it's a site that promotes sharing.
I was blocked on steam, and blacklisted on here for typing fast. In somebody else's mind, there may be a plethora of good reasons (in their head, again) to blacklist. You'll scratch your head, and wonder why, but in the end it's not worth it.
Also in the words of somebody else...
just shut up and eat your hair!
Take care, comb your hair! Hope it's all worth the wear!
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That song meant three instant blacklists. Spec Ops: The Line soundtrack. Game that touches perfection, in my opinion
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My personal record is 3 almost instant blacklists for a comment describing my audio setup; that episode still remains an enigma to me. Maybe I actually deserved them in some strange way.
And that's just an example. How can I determine if my BLs are deserved or not if I'm usually at a loss about their reasons?
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I am not really sure, I'm rather vocal about my beliefs and I have very strong opinions on certain issues, some of which might be considered unpopular, and I don't shy away from expressing it, this is bound to earn me some blacklists, that's okay, it's their loss (or not).
The rest are what I suppose (one can only guess) to be retaliatory blacklists, which is totally understandable, I'd do the same, reciprocity is a sound principle in life.
As for possible reasons for BL other users :
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Select stats at bottom and scroll down (edit : you're welcome !)
To answer too, i got blacklists when :
Deserved ? Probably, who i am to judge.
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I have some blacklists but don't see any particular time they happened. They're just responses to some comments I posted. Blacklisting / whitelisting is SG's equivalent of liking / disliking on other sites. As for being deserved, in my experience that's not the case here nor on other sites. Reddit is a good example, where I tend to get more likes if I post something people agree than something thoughtful or informative. Same goes for dislikes, which has little to do with how valuable or thoughtful the post is, just how many people take offence to it.
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I absolutely deserved my blacklists .
Worked hard by blacklist baiting and shit posting to get them.
They were well earned from all of my hard work.
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Haha! If only blacklisting really did mean that we didn't have to read certain drivel on the forums. XD
(Not that I blacklist people I disagree with, I certainly don't as I don't see the point in being that petty lol... I leave them to do the blacklisting. It's more fun that way. lol)
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people hated on me for creating a ramadan thread where i tried to spread some positivity. Probably some islamophobes who hate muslims? Most People hate everyone who is not like them. It is an instinct i guess to protect yourself from the unknown.
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So, I guess many of us have said or done something dumb on the site that granted us a lot of blacklists.
I went form 5 blacklists to 46 in a couple of days some years ago. And, to be honest, I deserved every single one of those. I made a thread about ratio that, while inspired by something that happened, I tried to keep general but I ended up basically calling out on someone and, worst of all, for all the wrong reasons. So, yeah, thankfully I wasn't banned but I think I would have deserved that too. I was dumber then.
Anyway, I am curious about what have you done that made a bunch of users blacklist you and if you think you deserved them.
Have some stuff
Updated with a picture of my beautiful spike
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