Do you feel weird when someone delete all their past conversation with you?
You blacklist 'em, you delete all comments, you find where 'em live and KILL HIM!!!!
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because you noticed something about blacklisting so i assume you have been blacklisted at least a couple times to have noticed it
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Deleting all past conversations seems a little odd to me. Doing it manually must be a real painstaking task if you're quite active on the forums, so they might have some kind of script-automated deletion thing. The only reason I can imagine someone might delete all their interactions is if they were in a heated argument with you, and it was earning them blacklists too. Or perhaps they realise they went a too far, and wanted to remove it for that.
I imagine people see a spike in both their whitelists and blacklists whenever they take part in any arguments/debates on hot subjects, particularly where people are heavily polarised or the subject is moral or political in nature. My stats page usually gets a little kick of each during those threads.
Generally speaking though, blacklists aren't an indication of hatred. We're all here to take part in giveaways (and hopefully, to create giveaways too), so if someone is doing something you find particularly annoying on the forums, the blacklist mark is natural. It's not necessarily personal, but more a case of "I don't want this person to get in on my giveaways". When it comes to those big subjects of moral or political stuff, it's easy to see why someone might want to exclude someone when they feel a subject dear to their hearts has been mocked, or that someone has been reductive / dishonest on an issue that effects them personally. Sometimes it isn't even that deep, sometimes they just feels you're being needlessly obnoxious or combative. Or maybe they don't like the giveaways/wins ratio. Or you have too many unplayed games. Sometimes there isn't even a 'good reason'. Maybe they don't like your name or profile pic. At the end of the day it's more a self-moderation tool than an insult or hostility, y'know? Besides, blacklists are automatically mutual. When you get 'listed, the other person is also unable to enter your giveaways too.
I remember reading in a past thread that apparently some people blacklist those who win their giveaways, or even people whose giveaways they themselves won, to stop the slim chance of a repeat win. Hell, some people make threads just to give/get blacklists/whitelists like a kind of game.
Try not to take it too much to heart.
Nobody gets out of these forums without a few black marks. ;)
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Haha, thank you so much for your kind words.
Frankly speaking, I'm totally fine with the blacklist thing. I understand this is a giveaway forum and I'm grateful for those still letting me be a part of it.
I was just surprised by the comment deletion thingy as I don't think we had a heated debate in the first place and also interactions on other topics which I don't feel related got deleted as well.
And yea, I will move on and keep my head busy with other things for now. Cheers ;)
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It's likely on the same level of passive aggression as is posting a thread about the same thing.
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Happy cake day!!
I didn't mean to offend anyone here. I'm trying to seek more insights into this situation as I might have misread it somehow.
But thanks for reminding me. I should be more careful with the way I express it, so I rephrased my narrative a little bit.
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Just don't worry about it and move along. It's impossible to please everyone.
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instead of atacking him give a answer that would be nice !!!
there are bunch of reasons
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how do you describe someone whos hating you and its not enough !! they will do more aside of just hating ! cause hes holding a ...... garage ? poor english thats why i blinked the word
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Um... maybe they have too much time on their hands if they have the time to go and delete every comment to make a point. You shouldn't worry about it.
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The weirdest incident of such sorts was when I discovered recently that someone had removed some years old comments of theirs on my profile even though we haven't been in contact for a while, so I'm not sure how I came up on their radar, how they remembered about those comments and why they removed them, but it's their comments so 🤷
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With all due respect, I see that there are people who will not only blacklist you but also delete all their comments with you from the past.
That leaves me wondering what good it does beyond the pure demonstration of bitterness and hatred.
I didn't mean to offend anyone here. I'm just trying to seek more insights into this situation as I might have misread it somehow.
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