Sometimes I dont say what I want to say, because the blacklist thing scares me off. Mainly cause everybody can blacklist anyone without any reason

I was wondering if anyone else is having the same feelings about the blacklist thingie. Its not that I cant enter their giveaways, but more a thought of people disliking me. I know maybe it sounds stupid and people will probably blacklist me even for asking this...but thats ok got to get over the fear of the blacklist

Or dont you care about who or why people are blacklisting you?

UPDATE:
6 more blacklist cause of this topic, but it didnt hurt cause also got whitelisted many more times

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Are you holding back cause of the blacklist?

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I'm afraid to answer

When I was on zero blacklists I felt that way, at least a bit. Also, being new, I didn't wanna upset anyone.

But the truth of the matter is that everyone is going to end up on someone's blacklist, for whatever reason. Don't let that fear stop you form enjoying yourself or expressing an opinion :)

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I think you are right, but still 41 people voted yes. Dont know if the blacklist is a good thing this way

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I might have voted yes a few days ago. As I said, when I wasn't on anyone's blacklist, the idea worried me.

But the thing is, once it happened, I found that it didn't really matter.
It didn't make me feel bad about myself, because I knew I hadn't done anything dishonourable.

I understand the thing about "people disliking you". But keep in mind that what we write here on the forums is just a tiny part of who we are: even if people were to dislike you because of your posts, it doesn't matter because it's the same as disliking a painting they are watching from a tiny keyhole! :-)

(I hope the metaphor works and manages to convey what I mean)

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nice metaphor:)

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Nope, I say what I want. If someone blacklist me because of it, so be it. I don't counter blacklist or care if they enter my GA's after doing so, although it's a bit weird to enter giveaways of someone you don't like. But hey, whatever floats your boat.

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But it is funny when someone states it's wrong to give anything to satanist (name+avatar) but it's ok to get gift from one )

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Don't worry about blacklists. All it means is someone doesn't want you to profit from their GAs.
They will still be able to read your posts and see yoshi :D

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haha yes you are right :)

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If I want to say something, I say it. Blacklist threat should just keep the conversation polite, not stop it completely. If someone wants to blacklist me for my opinions, well, I am sorry to hear that but I accept that. Personally, I have blacklisted a few guys, who were very rude, had terrible w/g (50/0) or are known not to activate the games they win.

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I don't hold back because of BLs and was surprised about the -in my opinion- low number of BL I am on.
I do hold back on some topics, because I don't like to discuss them online in general.
I do hold back on other topics, because I think my knowledge is insufficient or only base on hearsay.

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Blacklist the people that Blacklisted you and move on, they are not worth your time if they blacklist you over something stupid.

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If people cant respect what you got to say and blacklist you for whatever reason, theyre not worth spending time with them and talking to them. Let someone else win their giveaways if you get blacklisted, like if there werent enough of these :P

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Here You have a funny video. I dont care if I get blacklisted at all.
I will be happy if they do, actually I had situation that I blacklisted some people.
Too bad they can still write to me after that! :/

Click

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Who cares about Blacklists? I really don't... Why? Because I think people doesn't deserve any blacklists at all. Even I could say that Blacklists should be unavailable or something.

What if you win a game? Does that make you a bad person if you "win too much"? No, it's just luck, destiny... Maybe that person will pay off the gifts by making giveaways, maybe he is not going to do it. I still don't owe anything to anyone, if the giveaway SPECIFICALLY tells me that I need to giveaway something in return for winning that certain game, I'll do it.

You know what? I told me this to myself, if I find those who have Blacklisted me, I'll Whitelist them instead... When they see a Whitelist giveaway of myself, and they find out they have me Blacklisted, they might think... "Hm? He has me whitelisted... but... why?"

Because you deserve to win my games, I do puzzles to make people work hard for the games, that's enough work for me to pat your back and tell you, "Congratulations, you deserve a chance to win some of my games, if you are lucky enough!".

Blacklist those who legitimately cheat, who are using multiple accounts, who are winning multiple games and don't sync account to gift away the same game, who are being toxic in the community (Not jokingly toxic, like Konrads, that guy is just a funny troll! :D), who are trying to harass others for game keys... Plain and simple, being evil. Don't blacklist those who are being nice to you and try to give you nice advice while trying to have fun with you, even though they have a poor ratio.

Leave them be, target the REAL problem here. :(

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You know what? I told me this to myself, if I find those who have Blacklisted me, I'll Whitelist them instead... When they see a Whitelist giveaway of myself, and they find out they have me Blacklisted, they might think... "Hm? He has me whitelisted... but... why?"

thats a nice thing from you thumbs up

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Thank you!

Fight hate with kindness, haha! :)

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Yeah... That will teach them...

...That I care about them by giving such a quadruple A game! :3

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you have a lot to learn about konrads

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Hehe, probably.

But I won't blacklist him, I don't mind him around :)

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I was wondering if anyone else is having the same feelings about the blacklist thingie. Its not that I cant enter their giveaways, but more a thought of people disliking me.

Are you one of those people who either won't voice their opinion on subjects due to being afraid of people disliking them or will in some cases even say things you don't really mean if you think it'll make people like you? Honestly I hate that kind of people. Disgusting, pathetic little worms they are.

I'm not afraid to voice my opinions on things, because my opinions are great and I couldn't care less about people who will dislike me due to my views on whatever.

Don't try to be loved by everyone, because in the end that's not possible. Just be you and find like-minded people to surround yourself with and stop caring so much about people who dislike you for well being you. That's not just a suggestion for SG but for real life as well.

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The opposite in real life I Always say what I want, but then you can see people and can interact with them
Here the blacklist is a sneaky thing you dont know what people think etc

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People who just blacklist you but wont say anything are cowards. I care even less about them and their opinion on me.

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The funny thing is that it is difficult to come out on top if you blacklist someone. If you do it without saying, it is spineless. If you announce it, you are just making a fuss of doing something the others don't give a single damn about making it look like you are trying to act all high and mighty.
And there are the rare cases where you just find an actual rule-breaking asshole and tell them that and blacklist them. It's rare though.

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That's a ridiculous statement you make. According to you I have to address 788 people to tell them why I've blacklisted them? I've put them on said list so I wont have to interact with them and thus they are not worth my time or attention.

If that makes me a coward or spineless so be it.

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"Winning" side: it doesn't really affect your chances that much.

"People don't like me" side: lol, I don't give a shit about what people think irl, why should I care about these people who blacklisted me here ?

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People use their blacklists quite freely and that it is ok in my opinion. Actually I could ask a question: does it matter if some random user blacklists you for some comment on forums? It only blocks you seeing his / her giveaways, not anyone else's nor does anyone see if you have been blocked by user IBLACKLISTEDYOUBECAUSEREASONSLOL :)

At the moment I'm blacklisted by 8 different users, I don't know why but I don't also care since it doesn't limit me much. Would be a different case if I logged one day and noticed that I have been permanently banned! Some people tend to blacklist people for various reasons, even silly ones. But it is ok since it is their own blacklist and they can do whatever they want with it :)

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I'm blacklisted by 14 people 6 I know its from trading cause I have blacklisted them as well (thats why I dont trade anymore, giving is much more fun
but the others are from forumpost and that makes me hold off. But by posting this question I'm trying to overcome my fears

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happy cake day! :-)

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It's a good reminder you can't please everyone. If you see something like 30 blacklists at once, you probably goofed. But if it's just one every now and again, it's most likely a random user taking something a little too seriously. You can't do anything about it, you don't know who the person is, so you kinda just have to move on. I doubt that I've missed out on that many, if any, giveaways because of those who have blacklisted me. And even if I have, meh. That's their choice.

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I am a leecher so I don't really care if I get blacklisted (right now I am in 2 blacklists), but yes I try to hold back on commenting, because people will see my profile (I gifted only 1 game and won 25) and probably will blacklist me.
Btw I have 70 on my blacklist, 1 for being rude, all others for gifting free games and all the swindlers selling a game that they bought for $1, for $20+ (you know, Dark Souls III bug).
You shouldn't care about it, it is a waste of energy.

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^ Like I said, now in 4 blacklist, only for being honest.

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Well, at least you're honest.

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I think most people that blacklist "random" users do that because they think the others are doing something "unfair". For example, some think that using "autojoin" ou similar apps is unfair. So if they think someone that entered their GAs is using it, they will blacklist the person. I believe that a couple of things make them suspect someone is using those apps, like commenting just "thank you" or a simple message like that with no variation on all the GAs they enter or not commenting an specific thing the creator asked in the GA's description. (I think that last one is a bit flawed, since many times people just wont read the description before they click "enter", even though they are not using any apps). Another possibility for "random" blacklists is when the creator thinks the user has a bad ratio of sent gifts / wins. e.g: if the user has won 100 games and only given away 20.

As for getting blacklisted just because someone doesn't like something you said... well, you can't please anyone, so you really shouldn't be worried about that.

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My ratio was never bad, I never used any autojoin or anything unfair, never broke site rules. Yet I'm on 39 blacklists. So by my experience, people blacklist for opinions they don't agree with, or humor they don't appreciate (memes/dark). Literally the only two "maybe that's why they BL-ed me" reasons I can think of.

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Yeah, I think many people blacklist for that too. I got blacklisted a couple of times and have no idea what I might have done. What I mean is - if you have been blacklisted for reasons other than the ones I mentioned, you probably couldn't have done anything to avoid it, since the person simply didn't like you or something you said.

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You shouldn't have posted selfies. Jellies are everywhere )

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Ha, now that you mention, I gotta admit that most of the people I know of who blacklisted me are female... + a couple who didn't blacklist me, but could have sensed some hostility towards me from their posts. But I'm not going to conclude that they're "jelly", because generally women tend to be more sensitive about the stuff than men.

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Depends on what the stuff is. Try to put a pink tshirt on an average male and see what happens p

Most likely they are not 'jelly', it's just the sexist male pig in me rising it's ugly head to spew stereotypes. I can only apologize and try to keep it in the basement )
Blacklisting for jokes/memes/opinions/etc are more likely happen from women. It's not because men have 'thicker skin' or are less sensitive but rather are more inclined to openly confront threats/opponents. "This is shitty joke, mate" usually closes the case for us

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it's just the sexist male pig in me rising it's ugly head to spew stereotypes.

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I think the blacklist just makes me paranoid and anxious because it can go up and I will have no idea why. Was it my fault, did I do something wrong, what did I do wrong. Are they just doing it because maybe I have a lot of games already? Are they just being a jerk? Did they do it because they disagree with my thoughts about something? Why? Why is this happening?

It's more because I don't know the answer why i'm getting blacklisted that's making my brain constantly storm about it.

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exactly you wrote what I meant
In real life you can see that people dislike something

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No way. I'm just going to be myself here and not allow something like a threat of blacklisting change that. Blacklisting is really not a big deal and besides you can't please everyone no matter how hard you tried.

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Not really , whatever you do or say , you can't earn the love or "acceptance" of all people , some will agree with you others will not , C'est La Vie..
BTW , thanks for the GAs :) .

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I understand you completely but do not pay attention to it, you're a good person and a good contributor and no one and no one really normal and important on this site will not put you on blacklist. Why would they do that? There is no reason, so relax and enjoy. Only jealous person can do that and they dont do anything for this site, their level is 0 or 1. It is my opinion

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I will give you an advice regarding general life stuff, not just steamgifts / internet:
I can understand what you mean regarding the 'people disliking you' part.
Yes its silly, but as for someone that has social anxiety and such, I can't stand it when people don't seem to like me.
I think the best strategy to approach this stuff is to realize that some people won't like you for reasons outside of your control.
And that sometimes you can't really change it and its not always your fault.
We should spend less energy on people that don't like us and use that energy to develop friendships with those that do like us.
And mainly tell yourself - so what if this 1 person doesn't like me? it doesn't affect my life really.

long story short - people have less power over you than you're actually giving them.

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Nicely spoken
Only for those words I would have added you to my whitelist, but I already did it some time ago :)

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I'd rather enter in some blacklists than not saying anything I want to say. I don' see the point.
It's like not doing private giveaways with requirements cause you will get into some blackliss too.

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couldnt really care less if i get blacklisted, imo its a petty and cowardly way of excluding people from giveaways.

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On the one hand, I am rather tempted to try and keep up my clean record of 0 blacklists (which as far as I've noticed was only briefly increased to 1 for reasons unknown, before going back to 0 again a few days later).

On the other hand it isn't like I'm entering many giveaways anyway. All I lose is a few specific corners of this site to post cynical comments, which while upsetting, is not particularly consequential.

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zero great:) despite you are posting, nice :)))
Also see that you dont trade, I got my first blacklist with trading cause we couldnt agree on the trade

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Yeah i know what you mean, i was getting blacklisted even when i commented on every giveaway and trying to be creative more than thanks, but you can't please everyone,just keep having fun! i'm on 5 blacklists (was added to 2 recently) but also i'm on 20 whitelists (added to about 12 recently), take care pal

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ehh 21 :)

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