So, my girlfriend broke up with me.

Meanwhile some kids are starving in Africa and some kids are getting blown in to pieces in Hamas by a missile, but your life is tough man, you got girl problems, that takes the price. Golf clap

it happened here 1 year ago. just try to move on, there is no coming back... never.

Second chances always suck. Don't give anyone second chances. If she decides to break up with you even once - that's it, forget her and move on. You wouldn't want to experience same shit again and again, would you? You can always start over again with a clean sheet with another girl.

i know what did you feel i lost my ps3

It's okay bud! If you need someone to talk to you can always talk to me :]

Seems like you two aren't compatible, only gets better with time, just try to find happy things to fill your days, there's not much else that helps I'm afraid.
Also, you might have overreacted with the name thing but nevermind, it won't change anything.
Good luck.

Wow nice blog post

Dont mean to kick you while you're down but you really need to toughen up. You're over-exaggerating the severity of the situation and driving yourself nuts. Have a clean break and avoid confusing each other.

Sorry my friend but I can't really help you on this, I'm that kind of guy who don't believe in real, strong, love (couple love to be exact) I can like a girl a lot, but if it needs to end, it'll end, maybe I'd be bummed out for one week, but then the next week I'll be like nothing happened... I wish you could do the same but I understand that for some people is not that easy :c

You should move on. I'm dating her now but I'm going to break up with her since she's so ratchet. I don't know how you could stand the smell of fish sticks for 2 whole years.

Must be a first break up because this sound pathetic. Anyway you'll live.

you thinking about this all too much. you need to find something to distract you and it already sounds like the usual things do not work this time. so you should try to be with friends or family and ppl than can give you a distraction.

I've gone through something kind of similar but it was likely more hurtful. It can be good to take a step back from it and really examine things. Ask these questions: Is she truly what you are looking for in a girl? Would you want your sister to be with someone like you? If, after at least a few weeks apart, you can say yes to both of these without hesitation, then you should look into pursuing it again. If not, then perhaps it would be good to take some more time and figure things out. Add me if you want to talk.

Keep yourself busy, focus on improving yourself. Get new hobbies. She isn't worth all your worrying and restless nights. Don't let a girl destroy your ability to enjoy life, be it gaming or whatever your hobbies are. It sounds like you were very invested in her, it will fade over time. Be sure to constantly womanize. Realize that 1 ho is just a drop in the bucket, there are tons of females out there who are actually worth your attention, go find em man. Give yourself permission to walk out of these insane women's lives if they start to act foolish. Put your own happiness as the #1 priority, be selfish. All guys have savior complexes we need to overcome. Life is too short for you to fall (or in this case be tripped by a female) and cry on the ground, get back up lift some weights and bang some new girls man! I know you can pull yourself out of this rut

You want a real break up story, add me on Steam lol Sorry, buddy, and I'm guessing you're under 20, the fact is, if you're any kind of average person, not some "toughen up, kid" keyboard warriors, (who probably cry and bitch even worse than you and I over girls, or boys for a lot of them), then at your age it's ALWAYS true love, whether you're meant to be or not. That's just the way it is and, as hard as it is right now, it helps prepare you for later relationships, both the good and the bad.
Unfortunately, that doesn't help you right now. Nothing is going to help you right now as you're self-defeatist about it, that's not meant as an insult, it's just how most young adults are. You need to chew the fat over it, add me, I'll talk to you and you can vent over the private messages, without having the ahem "real men" snortgiggleAHEM!! giving you shit to try and make their lonely lives feel better

If you broke up once, then it's over. There is no "on-and-off" or "just on break" that will ever work long-term so just end it now.

If a relationship ever gets to the break-up stage, it's obvious the two people are not compatible and likely never will be. Don't waste your time trying to patch up a trainwreck.

Mood music

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u mad bro? u got rekt by a girl.

Think of it like this, do you want to get the STD and HIV/AIDS that she is busy catching from other hookups? Be the better person.

You sir, are suffering what we in the laymen business called "Heartbreak".
There is no easy way to overcome heartbreak, and it will feel like absolute torture for a while, but rest assured that it will not last forever.

All you can do is do your best to let go of clinging thoughts about who was at fault, whether or not you're unlikeable, or any of that kind of stuff. Heartbreak always crushes the person suffering it, and really all you can do is wait it out until it isn't so heavy. If you want to learn something from all this, you should only really start digging for answers once the hurt isn't completely wrecking you every hour.

As dumb as it sounds, 'the golden rule' once again applies : "Keep breathing"
In and out. Breathe. Breathe. It's all you can do. If you can keep doing that, then the worst of this emotional shitstorm will pass you by. Sorry dude, but you're going to have to hang on for a little while longer. Heartbreak only leaves when it's good and ready. :/

You've suffered a trauma and stress, now you're kind of depressed. Avoid anything that makes you think of her (get rid of anything that does if you must) and focus yourself on something else: try stuff you've never done before, go to places you've never been before, etc. Might be a good time to start getting into something continuative like a sport, hobby or another significant change of lifestyle - something with consequence and you can get actual results from. Putting all of yourself into that will help take your mind away from the past and to a more positive place, most imporantly it will make you feel good about yourself again.

If you're concerned that your depression is too hard to cope with, talk to someone trained to help. If that sounds too scary, there are resources, forums and even social networks dedicated to getting back on your feet.

FYI: Need some time apart is woman code for I'm tired of you and want to F&$# some other guy(s). Quit crying about it. It's over. Stop sitting by the phone hoping it's her calling to work things out. NEVER gonna happen. Man up! Put your big boy pants on, go outside & go meet someone new who is gonna make you happy. Go!......

You two really don't sound like you're the right match. Feel blessed for your time together and move on. You're both wasting your time on one another.