Want to see who blacklisted oneself

+1

Invite only will work.
What will not is group/whitelist.

This might help:
"Maybe because I didn't say thanks or what the hell why."

Well in your case yes it was because there was no thanks. In other cases, people enter while owning all the games, or a good majority of the games in a pack.

Thats ok I only do 6+.

PS who said I was crying? I'm not the one who made the post...I'm just answering questions.

Your wish is my command.

Totes just whitelisted you :D

es geht nicht darum, dass jeder die inbox zuspammt. aber du solltest dich wenigstens nachträglich bedanken, wenn du gewonnen hast.

Falsch.
Manners aren't related to the functioning of the site, and blacklists are fully due to user preferences.
And saying thank you beforehand is meaningless, but saying thank you after is certainly not, especially since it's used in part to signify to the creator that you successfully redeemed the key.

And if you didn't say 'thank you' at Christmas, I think your considerations for proper use of thank you are a bit different than most of ours.

Thanking people frivolously devalues the sentiment and is aggravating in the same way any spammed, meaningless sentiment is. Some people need that sort of validation, and that's their prerogative.

But when someone goes through the hassle of making sure you get a gift, not expressing gratitude for actually receiving something comes across as very self-centered.

Now, I don't personally blacklist for it, I find it a bit similarly self-centered to demand gratitude of people- I want it to be honest, if it happens, after all.

But I can get why someone'd take that negatively, especially in a site filled with leechers, bots, and mindless, obsessive collectors- would not taking a bit of time to acknowledge the gift imply you're more in line with that group, than with users more enthused about the games?

As far as the rest of your sentiments... woo boy.
First off, you should probably not write posts while still intoxicated, the tone of your OP is very self-absorbed and petulant, and is liable to increase the number of blacklists you're on.

Revenge blacklisting is somewhat frowned upon, since you DID get a game from the person already.
Flip side, most users seem to be in favor of automatic mutal-blacklisting, so it's kinda a weird blend, there.

But both acknowledging you did something socially inappropriate and then casually, offensively dismissing the act, rather than a less offensive statement declaring you simply don't agree with the approach, sets a bad tone.

But when you start saying you're "pissed off about this behavior", that takes it over the top, given that blacklisting is for most users a more casual, simple affair, where you try to emphasize things so that the most respectful, dedicated users get more chances.
Getting 'pissed off' because you got a game with no hassle and then were restricted from future giveaways is a bit extreme, especially since the lack of notification or mutual blacklisting is a flaw of the site, not the user; and the user can blacklist for any reason, and most aren't going to be intended as offensive toward you.

So yeah. A bit much, that. :X

THE FEEL IS DIFFERENT :)))

I understand people have a life but what I find is odd that one has time to activate the game yet cant type a couple of letters?

I've had people in your situation but instead they try to contact me. Some ask why they've been BL'd, I ignore those. Others say thanks and move on, I apologize to those and remove them from my BL.

Ah, well, that does suck.

Sometimes blacklisting can be a bit hasty, but that's more humans being overstressed on the whole, than any indication of the creator being deliberately negative.

I'm not at all a fan of how blacklists prevent future communication- I feel that blacklisting from gibs and from communication should be separate markers, since there are times where further discussion would be beneficial.

That being said, 'thanks' is usually an indicator that you've successfully received the game, and many people probably'd expect you to only accept the game once you're able to say such.

Flip side, some people want fast acceptance, so they get their slot cleared and the pressure to watch over the giveaway removed fast-
So in this case, clearly not a black and white situation.

I also send by email and then usually message to make sure they add it to their library. lol