Now I feel like an asshole. I came in here thinking this was a topic like Lugums.
My most sincere condolences.
My mother had breast cancer recently. November 2021 she had surgery. She got lucky they caught it early enough. I was told her family has a history of breast cancer.
That's not an easy thing to go through. No form of cancer is.
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I too expected a Lugum-like topic,but that was a very tough read.
I lost my dad to cancer(liver) just over a month ago so i feel your pain man.Heartfelt condolences and a hug.
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Im very sorry about your loss. I can tell how precious and loved your wife was.
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Hey I am very sorry my mom has breast cancer and I can relate somewhat how awful cancer is.
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im really sorry to hear that :c i dont know if it helps but my advice is be with her and make some memories that will last after she is gone and dont focus on the negative side
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Don't be. Like you said her final trip just starting. Be happy that you had this time with someone you loved so dearly. One can only hope that when our time runs out, that we reunite with the people we love. Stay strong, and wear your best smile for you last goodbye.
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sorry to hear your wife is going through all that pain and of course you and her family as well.
my mother had cancer in the womb, but it hadnt spread and it went all good, though they had to remove the womb to make sure.
hope youre able to say your good bye and and have a few good memories together
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last year my uncle died. he had two strokes before they could even get him to the hospital. my aunt said maybe it's better this way because the first stroke would have left him severely disabled already.
and my neighbor died due to complications after a seemingly successful cancer treatment. in summer we talked outside like any other day and he was doing just fine. in autumn the big black car parked in front of my windows.
i wasn't that close to either of them but it's so strange knowing i'll never see them again.
sometimes all we can do is making the last journey as comfortable and comforting as possible.
i wish you and your wife all the strength for this journey.
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I am so very sorry. I lost a younger sister to cancer a few years ago. I had to choose between a visit to see her before she passed or going to her funeral. I chose to see and talk to her one last time. It is not easy, no. We will include Agnes in our nightly prayers - now and into the future.
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My condolences
The artist behind XKCD experienced cancer from your point of view, when his fiancée was diagnosed. I hope the links on this page can be cathartic for you.
https://www.explainxkcd.com/wiki/index.php/Category:Cancer
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So sorry to read that.
I know there is nothing a stranger can say that will really help you right now but never be sorry for expressing how you feel. Talk to your friends, don't be afraid to cry. You're going to need all the love you can get around you to get through this. And you will get through it. You have to. To keep her alive.
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I have to write this out of myself, sorry for that. My wife got breast cancer many years ago, she fought a lot with it, she had serious pain, she didn't give up till the end, there were hope...but the cancer spread out and won this battle. She is in the hospital at the moment..they said there is no more hope.You loved to visit the world around you, but your final trip just starting. I love you so much Agnes. I'll be allways yours! If anybody can pray please do it for her soul.
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