So...
If she's really bipolar then don't bother. If she gets down because of problems in her life, then that's another thing. You should find out what's happening. If you don't want to ask her directly try asking a close friend of hers (if she's got one). If you decide to ask a friend, you're probably better off asking a female friend than a male one. Because if the male friend likes her too, instead of helping you he might screw you over and ruin your chances.
Anyway, most girls like guys who are confident and take initiative. If she's got issues make sure she knows that she can rely on you and that you want to date her because you like her, not because you just wanna bang her.
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im not sure,but she said she is and looks like that,but i dont think is diagnosed or is very hard,and i dont know about their friends,so when she has bad mood i let her be silent right? maybe is worse try to talk a lot of or ask things in that moment
PS:I was offline that week,add me if u want to talk
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When people with bipolar disorder switch to negative mood they can be anxious, depressed and anti-social. Trying to talk with them when they're in that state of mind probably won't do either of you any good.
Also while I did say that you shouldn't bother with her if she's bipolar, I have to admit that's unfair. People with disorders deserve love too, after all it's not their fault they have those disorders in the first place.
If you're sure you can deal with her disorder then let her know that and tell her that you like her anyway.
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im not sure , i asked her that she can try to get better that bad mood,at least a little and try to talk,i feel bad,like she was passing of me when she didnt answer messages or doesnt want to talk...
but surely u are right,and when she doesnt want to talk is better dont try it
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If you think a girl will talk to you or date you first you can wait forever. Create your occasions, see her reactions. It's not that hard.
Eventually you will have to tell her what you have in mind. And if it doesn't go well, the excuse "I have misunderstood your intentions" can save your life (and your dignity lol)
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Id say stay by her side but only as a friend for some time. Wait for her mood to her better and forget about her break up but still stay close to her. Then you make your move.
But anyway Im a nearly asocial guy that has never been in a relationship so my advice is probably useless :D
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from personal experience of living with certain mental issues, I'll just say that if she is genuinely is bipolar then it's in no way a small thing, it's something that is going to colour the entire relationship, and to a certain extent your life, if you do decide to stick it through.
If you really want to go all in and give her the stability and support she may require (whether she can convey it or not) then it could evolve into a very deep relationship over time, but if you don't think you could handle it then best to let it go, both for her sake and yours.
On the other hand (!) it could simply be down to her mood at the time // shit that's bothering her // hormones (don't take hormones lightly, they can be Very Intense in the havoc they wreak), in which case that's just how life and people work, so play things by ear and see what happens (ง'̀-'́)ง
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Well to be honest its difficult for a girl to be in another relationship
talk a little, concentrate on your words
just find a moment start saying what are ur feelings for her
shes not mad shes confused to take a decision, Thats all
xDDDD
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Hmmm
There are a lot of fishes in the sea (͡ ° ͜ʖ ͡ °)
Seems you have any other girl in ur mind (͡ ° ͜ʖ ͡ °)
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If you wanna date her then tell her how you feel if she's not ready to date be a friend if she ain't interested be a friend try not to build it up to be such a huge thing in your head and just go for it yo.
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Do not play the waiting game and be of few words, this is a mistake i did before, had this one chick in my life, similiar case to yours, she didn't want to wait that much despite constantly telling me "i'm not in the mood for another relationship". I did manage to keep her talking and even took her out a couple of times
Whatever you do, you should focus on keeping her occupied with fun stuff, be it conversations or hanging out with her/friends she likes, then after you see her smile in your face, try to keep your cool and move in. From one of the comments i saw you post, you already have permition to move in, just gotta be carefull when you do it. Girls are confusing when it comes to this stuff, but after you go through this situation, what comes after should be easier to handle than getting her to accept you, unless she is a B. Then of course, you are pretty much screwed.
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If I understand correctly she comes straight out of a relationship? Don't do it then, these girls that jump from one dude to another 90% of the time aren't worth it. But what do I know I'm just a guy from the internet.
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I'm surprised with the poll results:
Be a fucking man and ALL IN!!
149(43%)
There are a lot of fishes in the sea (͡ ° ͜ʖ ͡ °)
107(31%)
We are talking about some bipolar community right here. GO THERE!! NO DON'T GO!!!
I think waiting too long it's no good. I think you should push, and bend things more towards a date.
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It depends. Do you want to get into her pants or start a real relationship? If it's the first, you could be so overconfident it becomes funny. If you want a real relationship, you could show her that you have standards and that they are not to be messed with and that your life is fun. In any case, don't be somebody who would do anything for her and be too available. Really, seriously, don't do that. Ever. In your entire life. And yes, I've done this many times and all of them failed.
Women like men who are strong. But strong can have many different meanings. Strong principles for instance. Not apologising for who you are. It's hard enough to look after yourself yourself being a woman in some societies with all the misogony and gender inequality. Don't ask her to fill some kind of hole in your life.
I'm not going to say "trust me, I know what I'm doing" because you should make up your own mind on how you want to live your life and interact with the opposite sex. Just make sure you're ok with whatever it is you're doing. Although I do insist on not being a pushover :)
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A lot of people say the same,im thinking that is correct,u havent to be very available and stay behind her all the time,u have to be kind but not a lot of,there is a limit right?
i think u need to look strong and wait sometimes that she comes to u,if u try to talk all the time is tired and pathetic,and i dont understand at all the last paragrah,do u mean that u need be sure with the things u do?
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You must do something man, if you do nothing than you will have regret (i don't know it good word to say what i want) to you in future.
If you don't risk you truly don't live. And with this situation what you can risk? That could be as you want or you will just know that with this you don't go ahead. Love is blind ;) And the two person need the same.
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Today I will talk about relations with girls (͡ ° ͜ʖ ͡ °)
I met a girl a few months ago and I cant remove her from the head, it's what you could say something bipolar and sometimes seems very cheerful talking to and then gives a downer mood and is silent as if she was angry with you, especially now that has cut his relationship with his "friend"... (͡ ° ͜ʖ ͡ °), it is difficult to be with her, she not usually encourage you to go out with anyone but also wants to be someday with me after exams
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